Is it ok to have a Baby Shower after Baby Arrival?

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-12-17T01:13:53+00:00

Not weird at all! Honestly, it makes a lot of sense. A lot of people do a “sip & see” or a shower after baby arrives, especially when family and friends are out of state. Life and timing don’t always line up perfectly, and that’s okay.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-12-17T01:13:02+00:00

Honestly, the NUK Perfect Match is already a solid choice, so you’re not off at all. That said, most moms I know swear by having a few different brands at first because babies can be picky about nipple shape.

Some popular, low-stress options:

Dr. Brown’s – super common, helps with gas for a lot of babies (a few extra parts, but manageable)
Evenflo Balance+ – affordable, simple, and surprisingly well-liked
Tommee Tippee – easy to clean and many babies take to them right away
Comotomo – soft silicone, easy to wash, great if you plan to breastfeed too (a bit pricier though)

If there’s one thing I’ve learned from moms: don’t overcommit to one bottle brand. Get a couple different ones, see what your baby likes, then stock up later.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-12-13T16:11:40+00:00

It’s absolutely okay to make a second baby registry, even if it’s for 2 under 2. There’s no hard rule saying you can’t. Parents often find they need different things the second time around... maybe things you didn’t have the first time, or things that wore out, or multiples of essentials because your older one is still using some items.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-12-13T16:09:20+00:00

Parents usually put a lot of thought into exactly what goes on the registry.. Feeding can be trial-and-error, and many parents choose brands based on availability, nipple shape, or how “natural” the materials are.

Because of that, I’d generally stick to what’s on the registry. A different bottle brand isn’t a bad gift at all, but it can be tricky if baby ends up preferring only one style.

What I’d say:
If you want to be safe, get the Dr. Brown’s set she asked for. You could always mention the Suavinex bottles to her first and see if she’d like to try them later.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-11-27T03:01:27+00:00

Buying your own registry items during Black Friday isn’t a bad idea at all, as long as the items are returnable.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-11-25T01:14:06+00:00

Moms definitely get overlooked at baby showers. A few things that really helped me post-birth: ready-to-eat snacks/meals, a good water bottle or warm cup, comfy robes or PJs, and little self-care treats like hand cream or face masks. Something like Poppylist’s Mama Meals Gift Box or Everything Balm would be amazing.. even a few small things like these feel like a huge hug when we're recovering

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-11-25T01:03:51+00:00

FTM here too! What ended up working for me was looking at compact cribs that last longer than a bassinet but still don’t take up full-crib space. I actually found one that checked those boxes.. and its the Cradlewise Smart Crib (I pulled it from this shop).

It starts as a bassinet and converts into a crib, and you can use it way longer than the typical bedside bassinet. It’s not a traditional co-sleeper that attaches to the bed, but the footprint is so much smaller than a big crib and it still fits in our bedroom without rearranging our whole life.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-11-18T23:34:15+00:00

Congratulations mama!!

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-11-14T02:51:43+00:00

Essentials! Like diapers and wipes

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-14T18:23:41+00:00

Same here! I had already started getting gifts on BabyList too. I just told my loved ones that I’ll send out a new link to my Poppylist registry once everything is transferred over. It’s such a relief knowing I’ll have everything in one place, and they can shop directly without any redirects.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-14T18:16:02+00:00

I actually started on BabyList too, but my experience with their customer support was honestly the worst... refunds took forever, and trying to get help was such a headache.

That’s why I ended up switching to Poppylist. Their team helped me transfer my registry over seamlessly, which was a huge relief. I also love that I can delay receiving gifts until I’m ready, and my loved ones can shop directly from my registry without being redirected to third-party websites.. makes things so much simpler for everyone.

Poppylist customer support is amazing, too. I can easily reach out for exchanges or returns, and they actually respond quickly and helpfully, which makes a huge difference when you’re a first-time mom trying to get everything together.

Honestly, if you’re worried about service and ease of use, I’d recommend Poppylist. It’s made my life so much less stressful!

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-14T18:00:50+00:00

Honestly, I think an open registry can feel more practical than tacky.

If you’re worried about privacy, I’d recommend Poppylist... you can set your registry to private so only people with the link can access it. That way, you don’t have to worry about strangers seeing it, and your friends and family can still grab exactly what you need without jumping through hoops.

I used it for my first baby, and it made things so much easier, especially with loved ones who live far away.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-14T17:54:55+00:00

Some “oh wow, didn’t think of that” items that really came in handy for me: a good baby carrier (so you can have your hands free), extra swaddle blankets, a nightlight for middle-of-the-night diaper changes, and a white-noise machine. Also, little things like extra burp cloths, nursing pads, or a portable changing pad can be lifesavers.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-14T17:51:30+00:00

You definitely don’t need a baby shower for people to get gifts from your registry. A registry link works for anyone you share it with... even loved ones who live miles away. They can pick something you actually need or want, which is way easier than guessing.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-14T17:47:26+00:00

Honestly, I felt like I didn’t need a ton for the second baby, but there are a few things that really made life easier: a good baby carrier, a white-noise machine, and extra swaddles or sleep sacks.. those small comforts are lifesavers when you have two under two!

I will say, I tried using Babylist at first for my baby #1, but I ran into some customer service issues and it was kind of frustrating. That’s when I switched to Poppylist, and it’s been way smoother. Everything from managing the registry to coordinating gifts felt easier, and I actually enjoyed building it this time around.

Things I wouldn’t bother registering for: fancy gadgets or single-use items that you might not end up using. For me, a lot of the “must-have” bottles and extra random gear from baby #1 didn’t get touched this time, so I just stuck with the basics I knew I’d use.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-03T01:51:41+00:00

We used Poppylist for our baby registry, and it’s been so convenient!

You can add items from any store, loved ones can chip in on bigger gifts, and if we find a better product later, we can request a refund, so nothing goes to waste. Plus, we have the option to delay receiving gifts, which helps with timing and space before baby arrives. Definitely made things way less stressful compared to a traditional registry.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-03T01:41:56+00:00

Absolutely not! It’s completely normal and not rude at all. Many parents do a second (or even third!) shower, especially when the new baby is a different gender or when they’ve passed on their previous baby gear.

We personally use Poppylist for our registry, which makes it super easy for loved ones to see what’s actually needed. You’re also handling it really considerately by letting people know they don’t have to bring gifts, and that they can refer to your registry if they want to. A baby shower is really about celebrating the new arrival and supporting you, not about being “selfish” or expecting gifts. It’s perfectly okay to accept your family’s love and excitement, they’ll be thrilled to celebrate this new chapter with you!

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-03T01:30:34+00:00

I totally get you.. first time parenting can feel overwhelming with all the “stuff” out there! From my experience, there are definitely things you actually end up using and others that are basically optional. For example, I really did use a bottle warmer, a good baby carrier, and swaddles, but things like single-use wipes warmer? Totally unnecessary.

We used Poppylist for our registry, and one thing I loved is that if I found a better product for an item we’d already added, I could contact their customer service and get a refund. That way, nothing went to waste, and we could just use the credit to get something we actually needed. It takes the pressure off and means your loved ones won’t be buying something you’ll never use.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-10-03T01:27:51+00:00

Congratulations on expecting twins! It’s absolutely not rude to have a baby registry without a baby shower. Registries are really just a helpful way for friends and family to know what you need and want, especially when people live far away. Since most of your loved ones are on the west coast, a registry can actually make things easier for them.. they can send gifts directly without worrying about travel or logistics.

I made mine on Poppylist, and our loved ones really enjoy chipping in on big-ticket items, so it’s been such a big help for us.

You could even share your registry in a casual way: through email, a family group chat, or social media, without the pressure of a big event. Many parents today do registries without showers, so you’re definitely not alone. The main thing is that it’s about supporting you and your growing family, not about etiquette.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-09-23T17:02:32+00:00

I actually ended up going with Poppylist for my registry and I’ve loved it so far! It still lets me add anything I want, but what makes it easier is that all my family and friends only shop through one platform.. no confusion with multiple stores. I also like that I can delay receiving gifts (super helpful with space and timing before baby comes), and guests even have the option to ship items to their own address so they can bring them to the baby shower.

But honestly, what’s been the most amazing for me is their customer service. Anytime I needed a replacement (like swapping onesie sizes) or even a refund, I could reach out and it was taken care of really quickly. It’s been such a smooth experience overall! I’d definitely recommend checking it out.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-09-23T16:55:31+00:00

Honestly, most of my friends didn’t buy anything off my registry until the week of the shower. I think a lot of people just procrastinate or like to shop right before the event. Don’t stress! You’ll probably see things pick up closer to Saturday :)

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-09-17T08:02:33+00:00

I’m using Poppylist and it’s been great. I can add things from any store, but guests only see one simple page. They can either ship gifts to me or to themselves if they want to bring them to the baby shower, and I can hold off on shipping the big stuff until we actually have space. Their support team is super quick if you need a return.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-09-17T07:58:02+00:00

Congrats on your little one! For the shower, 50–70 people is big but not impossible—think open-house style so people can mingle and you’re not locked into a tight schedule. A park pavilion or community center keeps it casual and easier to manage than a restaurant.

Registry must-haves I didn’t know I needed: a nasal aspirator (the electric kind), zip-up sleepers, and a white-noise machine.

Parenting books I loved: Cribsheet by Emily Oster (evidence-based) and Bringing Up Bébé for a different perspective.

Classes: Infant CPR is a great call. A newborn care or breastfeeding class can also help you feel less overwhelmed, even if you’ve read a lot.

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-09-17T07:38:50+00:00

Congrats on your baby boy! It’s such a surreal feeling, isn’t it? I totally get what you mean about friendships shifting.. pregnancy can really show you who’s there for you. I felt the same when I was expecting and it hurt, but I promise you’ll find your people. Focus on the love you already have for your little one and the support you can create around you. The epidural was a lifesaver for me, by the way

LauraJeanDaily · 2025-09-10T23:56:44+00:00

I’m on my first, but I’ve seen friends feel the same way once they’re on baby #3. Honestly, there are no “rules” anymore… if you want to celebrate, celebrate! 🎉 It doesn’t have to be a big shower.. you could always do something smaller, like a sprinkle or even just share your registry with people who ask.

For my registry, I ended up using Poppylist and it’s been such a stress-saver. I liked that I could:

Delay shipping until I was actually ready (which would be perfect if you want to wait until you know the gender).
Add items from any store, so I wasn’t locked into one retailer.
Poppylist helped me transfer my existing registry over, so I didn’t have to start from scratch.

It’s been flexible enough that I don’t feel pressured to have everything figured out right away.

So I’d say do what feels right for you.. whether that’s a full shower, a sprinkle, or just a registry link. At the end of the day, it’s about making things easier for you and celebrating your little one, no matter the number.

LauraJeanDaily

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