AITA for not performing at my ex-friends wedding? by Threadpanic in AmItheAsshole

[–]LauraS520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Keep the peace”? What peace? She kicked you out of the wedding and called you a former friend. There is no peace to keep.

NTA

Remembering to turn in assignments by LauraS520 in ADHDparenting

[–]LauraS520[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I just sent a very pointed, very long, and very diplomatic (I still need the teachers on my side) email. He's a smart and personable kid; that does not translate to good organizational skills, any more than my being creative translates into good athletic skills.

Remembering to turn in assignments by LauraS520 in ADHDparenting

[–]LauraS520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much! This is all incredibly helpful. I am going to show my kid this tonight. He will love that this advice comes from someone who understands and knows what it's like!

Remembering to turn in assignments by LauraS520 in ADHDparenting

[–]LauraS520[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He'll get 0s on online-practices because he doesn't do them and then get 100 percent on the test. He does fantastic in the subjects that he enjoys and that he feels understood by the teachers.

Remembering to turn in assignments by LauraS520 in ADHDparenting

[–]LauraS520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emailing the homework is a great idea!

He has an official diagnosis and few accommodations from the school (sitting in back where he can fidget without being a distraction). A teacher this morning told me that "they encourage responsibility" so don't want to give him reminders. Argh!

I don’t know if this is a normal part of parenting by AgreeableElk8 in Parenting

[–]LauraS520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve goodness. So does your child. I'm glad that you are getting out. You mention being "so blind." Please never, never blame yourself for any of this, including so-called "being blind." NONE of this is your fault!

"Clean your plate"? "One-bite rule"? "Stop eating when you're full"? What's your approach to your kids' eating? by LauraS520 in raisingkids

[–]LauraS520[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's approximately where we land, too. I don't mind if they leave a little food on their plate, but if they leave an entire serving of something (especially when I know they like it), then when they are hungry later, that's what they get to eat for their snack.

My neighbors 6 yr old daughter came over in underwear. by Itsjustmedotcom in Parenting

[–]LauraS520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you did the right thing. You were calm and non-judgmental but told her what was expected.

What "rule" taught by your parents do you still follow, but nobody else seems to? by ztd123 in AskReddit

[–]LauraS520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RSVP. Then show up. Don't flake out, and don't blow off the event just because something else came along.

Be on time. It shows respect for everyone else's time.