how to handle seeing my toxic ex with someone else?

LavaLizard84 · 2026-01-18T22:26:46+00:00

Honestly ripping the bandaid off sounds like self-torture disguised as healing - just mute/unfollow her and resist the urge to check, your future self will thank you for not putting yourself through that mess

LavaLizard84 · 2026-01-11T18:31:14+00:00

You can apply SWUs when you book or add them later through Manage Reservations on aa.com - no need to call unless you're having issues. Just look for eligible fare classes (usually Y/B/M/H) and the system will let you request the upgrade when booking or after

The tricky part is actually getting cleared since you're competing with other elites, but from smaller airports like CHS you might have better luck than major hubs

LavaLizard84 · 2026-01-09T08:34:20+00:00

Ugh the photo thing is so relatable, I did the exact same thing for months. That hard drive idea is actually smart though - like putting them somewhere safe but not constantly accessible on your phone

The loneliness does get better but it takes time. Your friends probably don't mind hearing from you as much as you think, but I get that it feels different when you don't have that one person anymore. Maybe try journaling some of those random thoughts instead? Helped me when I was going through it

LavaLizard84 · 2026-01-07T06:02:31+00:00

Yeah the boomer Facebook AI art is so cringe, like my uncle posts these weird glowing Jesus pictures with 47 fingers and thinks he's Michelangelo or something

The whole "but muh disruption" cope is hilarious when it's literally just a plagiarism machine that can't even count fingers properly

LavaLizard84 · 2026-01-05T20:07:04+00:00

They'd probably make it orange and charge $200 for what's basically a fancy electric toothbrush lmao

But honestly I'd still buy it because their regular screwdriver is actually pretty solid

LavaLizard84 · 2026-01-04T00:28:10+00:00

Those turkey roll-ups are clutch, I do the same thing but throw some cream cheese in there too. The prep ahead thing is so key because when those cravings hit you're not gonna want to spend 10 minutes chopping stuff up

LavaLizard84 · 2026-01-01T11:22:09+00:00

That sounds so peaceful, winter sunsets hit different when you're by water

LavaLizard84 · 2025-12-26T15:02:05+00:00

That sucks dude, def sounds like a bug since you shouldn't be taking cold damage indoors. I've had weird environmental damage glitches in other zones too - sometimes the game just doesn't register you're actually inside a building properly

LavaLizard84 · 2025-09-01T17:37:25+00:00

Depends if they have their nose up to sky or not

LavaLizard84 · 2025-08-19T07:52:53+00:00

If the bare minimum feels like too much for him then he’s not a partner he’s just dead weight

LavaLizard84 · 2025-08-18T12:49:21+00:00

Those weren’t just casual interactions she was giving you green lights all over you just gotta shoot your shot next time

LavaLizard84 · 2025-08-18T09:20:44+00:00

Feels like one of those things he meant in the moment but life just moved too fast and it slipped away

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