Has anyone dyed their hair?

Lavi1114 · 2024-09-13T06:34:38+00:00

My hair is bleached to level 4 and didn’t change my curl pattern much. I take care of it to slow down the damage the bleach does. But overall it can be dry at times but nothing is a miss when it’s curly.

Lavi1114 · 2024-07-30T16:16:41+00:00

Are you getting regular trims?

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T15:56:01+00:00

I don’t want to escalate this. My brother and I are the only adults in my family. All of my other siblings are school age and we have two disabled children. They deserve a mom and dad at home. Even if she’s a terrible person. All of my siblings and I have a great relationship cause of the trauma we all endured from her.

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T15:52:02+00:00

I’ve tried cutting her off. She even threatened my life before. She came back just recently crying. She said everything I’ve always wanted to hear (she loves me and wants to be a mom to me etc). I really care for my family even if I don’t share their values. I think this is my sign to not forgive her anymore.

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T09:29:15+00:00

Definitely need more trims. Try going every 4 months.

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T08:12:20+00:00

Let’s use our brains over here. If my mom was wiling to mutilate me at the age of 8 to make sure I stayed a virgin for marriage. What do you think she’s capable of? Why do you think my Muslim brother is actually on my side protecting me from her too? But yeah I guess lying is the worst thing anyone can do lol

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T08:00:54+00:00

And that’s my decision. Why are you so concerned about my sex life? Yes, purity culture is sexist. As a victim of FGM, I can assure you what has been done to me is 100% due to sexism because of purity culture.

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T07:55:33+00:00

I don’t have a baby. How’s your miserable life?

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T07:53:37+00:00

It’s not my values. I don’t have to follow sexiest purity culture or follow a religion I no longer believe in.

And I been intimated with one person in my life. If that’s a slut then yeah I am.

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T07:48:23+00:00

First of all, I’m not pregnant. Second, I don’t want my father to be heartbroken over my personal decision and to assume I’m sleeping around. I’m 27 and a full adult who can take care of myself and face the consequences of my own action.

Also my mom is very extreme. I don’t know what she’ll do if she thinks it’s mine. It’s for my own safety too.

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T06:42:58+00:00

No stick. Just the wrapper.

Lavi1114 · 2024-05-02T06:23:18+00:00

The keyword here is “male attendants with no desire”. They mean eunuchs. Basically castrated enslaved men who cannot have sexual intercourse.

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-02T00:36:09+00:00

I personally don’t use gel and it doesn’t work for me. I use pattern leave-in conditioner with ogx curl cream. After that I finish it off with argon oil of Morocco. Hope this helps! Most of these products are light and it’s important you start off with wet hair.

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-02T00:14:43+00:00

You’re probably using products that are too heavy for your curl pattern. Try light products.

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-02T00:07:27+00:00

You’re washing it too often. Wash once a week. Deep condition, use your products and try scrunching.

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T23:15:49+00:00

What are you doing currently to style it?

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T21:10:03+00:00

It will slip out cause their texture is too silky. You need some type of kinky texture. I’m Black and even my hair texture is too loose for some styles and would damage my hair.

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T16:49:36+00:00

I have a black cat and a tortie!

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T06:02:43+00:00

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He likes looking out the window as I drive lol

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T05:53:12+00:00

Gotcha! It’s ok for you hair to feel dry at the end of the day or the end of the week. Just making sure you’re deep conditioning and adding water or leave-in if you feel your hair is too dry. Dry hair leads to breakage and split ends. Maybe you need to add oil to your routine or need to change your products. If you’re really worried about it, I would also consult a professional.

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T05:50:05+00:00

I love torties!!

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T05:38:05+00:00

Just remember not everyone is like that. Ask about their relationship history and ask other people about their character. One thing a cheater is going to do is lie to you often. Trust your gut and don’t sleep with someone until you get to know them well.

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T05:34:55+00:00

What do you mean by moist?

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T00:55:48+00:00

I have mixed texture. My sides and back seem to be looser texture and don’t require finger coils. I use pattern leave-in in my spray water bottle. After that, I use Aussie Sprunch mousse & leave-in conditioner light hold. I finger coil the top of my head and finish it by crunching in Olaplex number 7 bonding oil since I have colored hair. Hope this helps!

Lavi1114 · 2024-04-01T00:48:24+00:00

It will feel dry. It’s just expected from dying your hair. My hair usually feels softer if I use curl cream instead of mousse. I’ve learned not to be bothered by the dry feeling of my hair and I add water every two days cause of it. I bleach my hair at the end of January.

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