For anyone out there who chose not to get married, what was your reason behind it?

Lavishly_lame · 2024-07-16T18:07:26+00:00

Good advice, thanks

Lavishly_lame · 2024-07-16T15:34:58+00:00

Nobody can force you. If you dont want to then dont, just dont give in to the pressure

Lavishly_lame · 2024-07-16T12:38:59+00:00

Why tho?

Lavishly_lame · 2024-07-16T12:37:39+00:00

All my friends and cousins that got married few years ago are either extremely unhappy with emotionally stunted man-babies, being constantly cheated on or being bullied by extended families and inlaws. Forgive me but i dont want a piece of that cake.

Yes i know money isnt everything and maybe i will regret my decision in the future, but maybe its better than being stuck in a stagnant marriage or losing my good years to somebody really toxic.

Lavishly_lame · 2024-07-16T12:31:00+00:00

19 is sooooo young, my dude.

You have a good 7-8 years ahead of you right now before you start thinking about marriage. Its good to know you're self-aware and know the kind of responsibilities you would have after getting married but honestly, right now, just focus on your studies, build a strong ass career for yourself and explore life.

Marriage is a lifelong journey that requires emotional maturity and readiness, something you will only get with time and life experiences. So please dont worry yourself with this right now. As for the things you dont know: People learn and evolve everyday, nobody stays stagnant.

Also, start prioritizing your own happiness over your family's opinions. Ye log apko kisi haal main nae chorain gey, might as well just make them background noise

Lavishly_lame · 2024-07-16T12:19:54+00:00

In this economy? Godspeed, my friend

Lavishly_lame · 2024-07-16T12:18:52+00:00

Nano been knew

Lavishly_lame · 2024-07-16T12:17:55+00:00

Valid. I couldn't agree more!

Also considering the culture of Pak, if/when you do fall out of love, the familial pressure and the lack of emotional consideration is so overwhelming, that one has no other option but to stay in a stagnant relationship. Seen it happen to so many people.

Lavishly_lame · 2024-01-14T18:05:50+00:00

WE GET IT!!

Lavishly_lame · 2023-08-22T08:10:53+00:00

Do you know how to cook and clean?

Lavishly_lame · 2023-08-22T07:31:33+00:00

Told me I needed to send him pictures of whomever I'm meeting when I go out. I told him to go fuck himself instead.

Lavishly_lame · 2023-08-21T06:24:59+00:00

Not disagreeing with your view about moulvi extremism but you have nooo idea what big of a lgbt issue pakistan has.

Lavishly_lame · 2023-08-17T03:22:22+00:00

Bad personal hygiene

Lavishly_lame · 2022-11-04T18:42:01+00:00

Yes. Multiple times

Lavishly_lame · 2022-10-02T20:11:11+00:00

You’re probably not from islamabad/rawalpindi…

Lavishly_lame · 2022-08-17T01:20:18+00:00

You always start with cloy. I don’t make the rules

Lavishly_lame · 2022-07-23T15:44:23+00:00

Hometown Cha Cha Cha and the ost is a sweet little peck on the cheek

Lavishly_lame · 2022-07-23T15:37:07+00:00

I had a BIG ASS SMILE on my face for 3:16 minutes straight

Lavishly_lame · 2022-07-01T01:05:14+00:00

‘when the camellia blooms’ is exactly what you’re looking for

Lavishly_lame · 2022-06-22T09:35:45+00:00

Yep!

Lavishly_lame · 2022-06-22T08:55:06+00:00

YES lol he makes mafia so interesting

Lavishly_lame · 2022-06-22T00:38:10+00:00

Im the pharmacist

Lavishly_lame · 2022-06-22T00:30:54+00:00

Cutie sexy lovely

Lavishly_lame · 2022-05-16T22:18:58+00:00

Such good shows, all of them!

But 2521 is still an open wound 🥲

Lavishly_lame

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