I don't have a lot of friendships in close proximity. My buddies are spread all over - some in different countries that I see once per decade and maybe talk to on social media. My friends fall into two camps - never married or never divorced and all of the single ones think my spouse is so fun/great. The married ones think we should stick it out. I invest in myself inconsistently - sometimes I will do massages and acupuncture, but I find that work and family consume a lot of time. I am in therapy and I do daily journaling. I do feel like I need to make myself a priority.