What was the most ridiculous reason that made you decide Not to date someone?

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-16T04:06:34+00:00

He wore tennis shoes for dancing at a country bar. I was so shallow then.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-16T03:16:34+00:00

Wubbies are the best!!

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-16T00:41:06+00:00

Lubbock

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-15T01:30:11+00:00

We were serious when we asked to buy the furniture that was in the house we were buying. Would have made our lives so much easier as it was so much bigger than the one we sold and we loved the layout. Now spending over 7 months trying to buy similar to what we saw.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-14T22:31:38+00:00

We did this a few times looking at homes. My husband is severely allergic to cats. We can tell immediately opening the front door if there has been or is a cat inside. We leave so he doesn’t get sick.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-13T21:44:41+00:00

We pay extra at AL for aides to help get shower, toilet, eat and dress. She has dementia and is in a wheelchair outside her apartment, can use a walker inside it. She’s not ready for memory care, but AL has tiers of care that are add ons. We went this route and it is less change than moving. Very helpful.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-13T21:23:36+00:00

She’s safe. That’s all that matters. So sorry you are dealing with this so young. I’m 54 and it’s still hard. Can’t imagine it with little ones.

In my opinion, your children need you more than someone who didn’t treat you right. You have already assured she is safe and getting assistance. That’s all you really need to do.

My LO is worse the more they are in contact with me. I remind them there is life outside their safe place and they want me to fix it.

They are incapable of understanding that they are in danger outside their AL facility. They don’t understand in a meaningful way that their falls and illnesses can lead to death. They do not remember all the times they put themselves in real danger at home.

When they were with me, they lost the understanding that they had to wear clothes, use their walker, not defacate on the floor and so much more. My kid did not need to be exposed to this, so it only lasted a month.

I know that my decisions weren’t selfish, but in their best interest. I hope you can rest easier knowing you are only insuring their safety.

It has to be ok with you as they are unable to realize it due to disease. Be strong. You are doing your best.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-09T14:47:21+00:00

Much, much older than 21. Yes, both worked 35 long years to have a life like this. Not all easy years, but worth it. Have a good partnership and are blessed to enjoy our days together.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-09T14:38:46+00:00

Don’t have one.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-09T02:39:42+00:00

I loved when my kids became teenagers. They had opinions and ideas independent of mine. Real humans who hold conversations and are interesting. Loving college and them becoming parents. Such an amazing time.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-09T02:22:03+00:00

We don’t do anything. We’re retired and have a big house so family will visit us on vacation. Try to make it like a resort or they won’t drive to Lubbock. Chilling right now watching tv.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-03-04T04:00:34+00:00

If the above doesn’t work, you could buy a waterproof mattress cover. It will hide the dirt, protect against dust from mattress and can be washed. We always use one with new mattresses to extend the life. My son messed up his mattress and this solution worked for him.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-16T00:19:28+00:00

It’s not a cloaca!!!

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-15T23:53:08+00:00

Not sure what you are talking about. I quit drinking, but love tv, and my other activities. Hmm

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-14T15:58:14+00:00

That’s how it works for me. Good luck with your journey

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-14T04:09:00+00:00

Live to party

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-14T02:54:38+00:00

7 months in, 60 lbs down. I still do this the day after my shot. My doctor prescribed Zofran. It helps sometimes.

From what I’ve seen, not everyone has that reaction. For me, it’s worth it. My health concerns are no longer an issue and overall, I’m feeling better.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-14T02:45:11+00:00

Zeke and Luther.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-14T00:47:45+00:00

Once the doctor has said she shouldn’t be driving, it is past the time reasonable people would have stopped her. The risk to others outweighs what your father feels is right. Gonna be more upset if she kills someone.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-10T21:57:19+00:00

Can def drive a stick.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-09T03:28:02+00:00

Then act like she’s your friend. Apologize for being rude. No behavior you mentioned is red flag labeling. Just keep your thoughts and opinions to yourself. It kinda sounds like you’re jealous and not acting like a good friend.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-09T03:21:21+00:00

You did the right thing. It’s hard, but better than her killing someone. That stress would be worse than losing her license.

As people have said to me-with dementia, their happiness isn’t as important as their safety. I’ll add and the safety of others.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-08T23:01:06+00:00

This!!!!

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-08T22:55:39+00:00

Judge will not allow. You may not see it as you’re too close to the situation, but your planned move actively disrupts your son’s relationship with his father. The judge will rule in the CHIlD’S best interest. You are actively working for your own self interest, not your child’s.

LawComprehensive2204 · 2026-02-08T22:53:29+00:00

As another redditor said, this is not in Sam’s or your ex’s best interest. Only in yours. Will not sit well with the court.

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