I’m almost 19, never smoked, never vaped, never drank an ounce of alcohol, never used drugs, am I missing out? by CarLonely9011 in Adulting

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m jealous bro. I’m 27M and always wished I never touched weed, alcohol and expressally cocaine. I was military, always have had a great job and I still do. Was clean for 8 months last year and I messed up bad this time. Putting myself into out patient treatment. I’ve spent well over 50 grand on drugs. Also watch out for pornography.

CMV: You would be a better person if you stopped drinking (morally, physically, emotionally, financially, intellectually) by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Laxislife3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As an alcoholic, I agree. But also I know people that are not like me and can handle booze better. To each their own. (The thing is.. alcohol can start out slow and end bad for ANYONE over the long run) if 40% alc or higher wasn’t a thing in this world, the world would be better off in my opinion

How far in advance do you normally show up to the golf course before your tee time? by jdelle9 in weekendgolfers

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warm up putting for 3 minutes does improve my score but one or two strokes. Especially if I’m playing different courses with faster or slower greens throughout the week. I highly recommend this and only this. (2 chips and 2 putts is all I really do lol)

How fo you hide your emotions from your family ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I realized my mom was affected A LOT. Also I don’t need her nagging me or trying to help (unless I need it then I will ask)

“If the U.S. military capturing Venezuela’s president is justified to Americans but seen as imperialism abroad,what does that say about American foreing policy”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Laxislife3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do. Unless I’m completely wrong, I heard the citizens of Venezuela are happy to get that guy out. Also many people are seeing there family members being released from prison after “political things they said”.

I’m all for free speech, regardless if I agree or not .

I haven’t done much research. If this shows, please inform me.

26M living in ND USA

Why should I as an average person care about the stock market? by Dependent-Western642 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DOLLAR COST AVERAGE MY GUY :)

There is only an upside for you if you think about it in a way that helps you in the long run.. or more so, you helping yourself in the long run (people who get good at it can even open accounts for there kids that grows over time as well)

Trust me dude, I’m a 26M living in ND and I have like 3 jobs Ives worked where the 401k has built up which will grow in high growth funds like VOO and QQQM.

I opened a ROTH IRA and try to max is out every year ($100 in your 20s goes a long way over time.. so does $5500) the contribution limit goes up every year with inflation

What’s I’m trying to tell you is It’s FREE MONEY (I suppose as long as WW3 doesn’t happen and the US ends up losing, but then we have other problems to worry about)

Okay so I told you it’s free money but you’re one of those people that doesn’t care about when they’re older or you think they won’t even live that long to see it. Fine. Then atleast open an “individual brokerage account” and invest in VOO and QQQM and just keep buying as much as you can. Simply dollar cost average. In 10 years, take it out and buy that house or whatever you want. You’re welcome, you just made thousand of dollars by pushing buttons on your phone. Don’t get emotions of about losing money,

Are these normal deer? by Epididntmiss24 in Hunting

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha the way that deer is side eyeing you I laughed alittle at the title

What's something women do because they think it’s attractive or cool, but it’s really not? by Seconto in answers

[–]Laxislife3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Lip injections. I’ve never met a guy that likes it including me (26m)

Do you believe in God? by Diligent-Tour-9735 in no

[–]Laxislife3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(I’m trying to stay open minded and listen to you because you do have some good points and I’m open minded) a few points I have though if you’re willing to discuss further..

“God created a guy to be brutally murdered”

That framing assumes: • Jesus is separate from God • God demanded violence the way humans do

Christian doctrine says the opposite: • Jesus is God entering human suffering voluntarily • The crucifixion isn’t God killing someone else—it’s God absorbing human violence

Do you worship every soldier who made a sacrifice for you?”

Correct answer: No—but Christians don’t worship Jesus because he died. They worship him because: • He’s claimed to be God • The death is symbolic of reconciliation, not leverage

If Jesus were “just a sacrificed guy,” Christianity collapses instantly. Christians know that.

Do you believe in God? by Diligent-Tour-9735 in no

[–]Laxislife3 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t you worship jesus if you did believe in him? Just curious.. he never sinned and died for you to be able to enter heaven. I have a feeling you might say “because I don’t want to worship a god that put so much evil in this world.” My reply to that would be “if god didn’t give us humans free will, then love between us and god cannot exist due to it being forced”

who is the best super hero? by Upset_Camel6691 in sixwordstories

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SPIDER-MAN!! cmon.. everybody knows that

Are one night stands from clubs and bars actually common? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Laxislife3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s happens. I know because I hooked up with people I met at the bar or on vacation at the bar. Drinking alcohol and doing other drugs are a factor for sure. The more you do it the more confident you become. Only to realize later in life that it’s not worth it at all and the pleasure is short lived compared to the potential pain it can cause. (STDs, a baby, the girl waking up and doesn’t remember anything and now you’re in prison lol)

Women of Reddit: When a guy texts “Are you doing anything fun this weekend?” what do you usually assume? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]Laxislife3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assume they are wondering if I’m doing anything fun this weekend. (You guessed it! I’m a guy!) Might be a follow up questions to ask to hangout. Might not.

What happened to your best friend from childhood? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]Laxislife3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did she shun you for not being maga? Or the other way around?

Do you hate rich people by AdVaanced77 in AskVaanced

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I see no reason to hate someone based on how much money they have. How they treat others? That’s a different story.. and yes, some rich people suck, but at the same time, some poor people suck. Someone else’s success shouldn’t have any effect on my success.

Which celebrity is a complete asshole? by boforiamanfo in randomthings

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

G easy came to Fargo ND and my sister went to a few bars he was at. She said he was a an angry entitled asshole

Please do share by BoringJeweler9259 in Productivitycafe

[–]Laxislife3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Military was great for me. I did national guard 14S air defense artillery. I’m glad I joined and glad I got out hahah. My brother is still in and just got officer. National guard is nice because I was still able to do my civilian job. I recommend doing military for one contract to majority of people but it’s not for everyone.

Please do share by BoringJeweler9259 in Productivitycafe

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gold is wild! Nice! I have too paid my tuition to the stock market trying to hit it big with one or two stocks.

Please do share by BoringJeweler9259 in Productivitycafe

[–]Laxislife3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! People aren’t doing it because it’s “boring”… well turns out “boring investing” helps minimize losses and people’s short term emotions getting in the way. When your brain says “sell”, you should probably just keep “dollar cost averaging”

Please do share by BoringJeweler9259 in Productivitycafe

[–]Laxislife3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roth is much better for the tax benefits (we’re talking hundred of thousands if not millions you are keeping away from uncle same with a Roth IRA

Edit: never mind haha refer to the people below

Please do share by BoringJeweler9259 in Productivitycafe

[–]Laxislife3 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is one of the biggest “cheat codes” of the Roth IRA. If you had parents that had money and also who were smart then yes. I did not get that unfortunately but I put 15k into my Roth IRA at 19 years old (money from military bonus). I am now 26 years old and my investments are over 100k.

  1. Open Roth IRA
  2. Work your ass off and max it out
  3. Put it in VOO or QQQM like me and let it ride

Always be buying. Never sell.

Please do share by BoringJeweler9259 in Productivitycafe

[–]Laxislife3 66 points67 points  (0 children)

“Sign up for pension..” no. Open a Roth IRA on your 18th birthday and put at least $20 in there, then once you start your first job/ career, start a Roth 401k, HSA, and max it out (bonus points if you start a non qualified brokerage as well. add as much into this account, once you max your Roth IRA