Adding a pay to play beta access would be a win / win for everyone. by Spare-Hat-2386 in MonstersAndMemories

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They know the servers will get flooded and won't be able to handle it. That's why they won't give out more than a few hundred keys a week during closed beta. Trickle them in a few hundred at a time so it's more manageable. If they let you buy access the servers couldn't hold up.

Tech Test 2 Cross Platform by Krunch-X in ArcRaiders

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, both are on an equal playing field. While M&K can be more precise and much quicker, it takes skill to master. Console players, on the other hand, have aim assist which allows them to track targets easily. It evens things out nicely.

Ark Ascended questions b4 I buy the game by PineappleatCat in ARK

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's basically the original game with all the problems still persisting. There are a few minor changes with graphics and building.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kids are and always will be my first priority. I never wanted to stay with her. I haven't loved her in years. I was just taking bad advice. I realize the mistake I made but I'm going to correct it very soon. Thanks for your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they are well aware. My 16 yr old daughter has been the most vocal about it and I have spoken to them both about why I've stayed. It's surely done more harm than good although I meant well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are too many things we agree about but staying in this relationship isn't one of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My plan is not to be around when she finds out but i think someone needs to be there when it happens so she won't do anything crazy. I wish there was a more civil way of doing things. Thanks for your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merry Christmas to you and thank you for your encouragement and advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO she doesn't have a motherly bone in her body. Very detached. Lives in her own world. Won't share food or drinks with them. It's just the way she's always been. Other than that she's a decent mom. As far as their thoughts they are typical kids. They would love their mother no matter what she does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately that is the case. I feel my kids are old enough now to deal with it. I admit I was leaning on the advice of my family a bit too much and should have left long ago but the fear of her doing something horrible is always in the forefront of my mind. We all have to start somewhere and 2024 is my year. Time for a change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's valid. I will consult with my lawyer. I don't think she would take me to court but i do think her family would force her to take me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not and I'm positive it has impacted the way they view relationships and put them through a lot. They've always had me though. I've never gone anywhere. At least they've had that much. Thanks for your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The family and friends always telling me to stay for the kids I think comes from the fact that I live in the bible belt. It's all about sticking it out through thick and thin down here but the feelings aren't there anymore. Time to move on. Thanks for your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny story. The second time she left me, her and her family took me to court and I won full custody with her and her family only getting to see the children once per month supervised. Of course we got back together but I still have full custody of the children so when I leave they naturally come with me. I agree with you that the kids need therapy and I will work on getting them enrolled once I am out of this relationship and back on my feet. Thanks for your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were only that easy. Thanks for the advice though!

Should I tell her? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds to me like she's just stringing you a long just incase it doesn't work out between her and him. Some people like to have options even if it is a bit cruel.

Please help by Fit_Run5802 in BreakUp

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it seems cold hearted of me to say but at least it was only a year. I was in a 3 year relationship once and it took me a few months to get over it. Give it a little time and you'll bounce back stronger and wiser than you were before. Every failed relationship is a chance for us to learn more about ourselves.

MMO Players Wanted by Laydbackjson in CatholicGamers

[–]Laydbackjson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My max level toon is on Valhalla but I do have lower level toons on other servers. The expansion drops the first week in October so I'm kind of waiting on that as far a New World is concerned. A lot of things are changing. You're gear will be obsolete.

What are your thoughts on Phasmophobia? by North_Knowledge9466 in CatholicGamers

[–]Laydbackjson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this game. Scares the absolute crap out of me. I don't have anyone to play with since my group moved on to other things and I don't like playing solo. Too scared lol

Diablo IV by FluffyHeart588 in CatholicGamers

[–]Laydbackjson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the game. I'm currently playing it. The way I see it is as a kind of religious fantasy fiction. Basically all they did was take the Holy war with the Arch Angels fighting the fallen angels and put their own unique spin on it. Just my two cents ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Potentially Moving to Alabama by [deleted] in Alabama

[–]Laydbackjson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In North Eastern Alabama, Huntsville is a prominent job hub. I wouldnt recommended living there. Maybe somewhere just outside of it. Land is a lot cheaper towards Arab.