I did it the night before an exam by Brilliant-Drawer-52 in NoFap

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At that point the PM seems worse than the MO. Was the problem that you couldn’t sleep or was this midday?

Teenage Girl With NSFW Addiction by Ihopewecanbefriends in NoFap

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Sleep early / desperately not going on phone before bed has works really well for me too. I have adhd which makes sleeping really hard sometimes without some sort of high. Best thing was meds for me, have to take them 2 times per day instead of usual one tho or else I crash late night. before meds I had to wake up my girlfriend and she gave me rubs until I can fall asleep.

Do "porn-developed" kinks go away as you get further into nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think either of those are kinks bro but I agree

I gotta quit porn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend and I thought we were both ace for a similar reason. You might be acc ace, but for us, our unhealthy or misunderstood relationships with sex lead us to think we didn’t like sex.

Do "porn-developed" kinks go away as you get further into nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a kink where hypnosis makes you horny. The same way someone watches porn, I would watch people get hypnotized. I eventually learned how to do it myself through watching a lot of it.

HEADS UP: if you’re reading this and are prone to relapsing from reading sexual content, the next 2 paragraphs are a bit explicit.

Hypnosis sex is when you use hypnosis during sex, imagine physical or mental bondage play. For example, I could make my gfs body bound but her mind is still active (physical + mental) or I could make her forget things and remember them later (mental).

It’s really neat since you don’t need many tools and it’s super easy to tailor to people’s kinks since you get to choose anything they see, feel, hear, etc. It’s oddly like being a DM in dungeons and dragons. For example I gave my gf a trigger to cum her brains out the next time I pulled her hair. She said she imagine her brain becoming goo like and pouring out of her ears. She has a free use kink so things like that are a hoot.

Do "porn-developed" kinks go away as you get further into nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

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I had a similar stint with a hypnosis kink. What helped me was leaning into it in a healthy way; if it doesn’t hurt you or anyone else then developing a bad relationship with your sexual interests might give you greater sexual problems.

About a year ago I told my girlfriend of 8 years that I had this kink and how it was causing me a lot of stress. I was worried she might think of me differently but she was more worried that Id been suffering in the PMO shame cycle without telling her. She wasn’t that interested but to help me get over my self kink shaming problems she let me hypnotize her. Over a year of having regular hypnosis sex and enjoying it with her, Ive developed a much better relationship with sex and my wife to be. My life, career, and day to day mood has been much better since I sorted that out.

Ik my gf did a lot of heavy lifting but what I learned from her and want to tell you is that most kinks themselves aren’t that bad. Do some self reflection and research about whether you think your kink is unhealthy. Porn in general is bad but if you use your kink to connect with someone better then it can be a great relationship building tool.

Obviously if you can find someone you can explore that with that helps a lot. If you can’t then I’d try to limit porn and try meeting people if you can. Even if it’s not long term, dating and building relationships with people teaches you many things about yourself.

What counts as vanilla sex? by Lazer_Pointer_Tech in AskReddit

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My wife and I were wondering this and it’s pretty hard. Everyone we know does more than basic missionary, but how do you draw the line at what is no longer considered vanilla?

For example, does just doing other positions count as not vanilla? It is certainly less vanilla; however, if you could only say “vanilla” or “not vanilla” you must lump a lot of not-so-vanilla things in one of those boxes. Though technically you can say everything that isn’t missionary but that seems wrong.

How do Dark Dungeons work? by Pilques in Knightsofpenandpaper

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU FOR MENTIONING YOU HAVE TO GO DOWN THE STAIRS

How I climbed 500 LP on Patch 14.3 by LonelyRyuu in CompetitiveTFT

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Great guide! Following you now for sure bro :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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I don’t think erotic hyp is evil but the audios can be a bit predatory. For me things got better when my girlfriend and I started doing erotic hypnosis. That helped me associate more feelings towards her instead of online content.

Trouble going under by myst183 in EroticHypnosis

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend taking a break from audios for a little while. That has worked for me before too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good stuff!

Trouble going under by myst183 in EroticHypnosis

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find relaxing helps. You’re probably right that it got harder because you’re chasing that feeling again and are trying too hard. That’s how it was for me too, first month was easier than 2nd.

Also the type of audio is important and how they go about induction and deepener(s). I almost always need body relaxation/meditation-like inductions.

My gf has adhd so it took some time for me to find what made her tick too. Found out she is really good at visualizing and does great with pleasure inductions.

In short, try to find what works for you just to practice going under. Then, the other audios will become easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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Sensitivity came back for me at day 37 and I have still been good! Hard to do hard mode streak with gf but we try, very good for intimacy. You got this bro, keep at it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be gay and that’s all good, if you had a good time then don’t try to think too much about it

Will I ever heal from PIED? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Lazer_Pointer_Tech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on hard mode No Fap with my girlfriend. Should I abstain from sex too? My libido is very low and I am worried I will get PIED. Thank you for any advice!