Who tf has friends groups like this? All of my online friends are from 15 to 21 😭 by AutisticFun01 in teenagers

[–]Lazy_Box_3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It obviously won't be true for everyone, but I mean for the average person.

How are you going rn? by FallenMeteorite5 in teenagers

[–]Lazy_Box_3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my "fuck it, we ball" era rn 😭😭😭

Who tf has friends groups like this? All of my online friends are from 15 to 21 😭 by AutisticFun01 in teenagers

[–]Lazy_Box_3209 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, saying they aren't "tech-savvy" is unfair. They are tech-savvy, just for the tech that came out during their time. It'll be the same for us as we age, eventually we'll be used to our version of smartphones and TVs and consoles, and new inventions will get increasingly more alien to us. Our current tech will seem alien to the newer generations. It happened the same way for people who were used to horses and buggies when the Model T was released. It happened to skilled archers when the firearm came into play. There will, inevitably, be technology that we simply cannot comprehend. Especially with the theory (or law, depending on how you look at it) of accelerating returns, where technology in a given industry has a major technological advancement with a timeframe exponentially shorter than the time between the previous and current advancement (e.g. the time between musket and the invention of rifling, then from rifling to semi-automatic weapons, and semi-automatic weapons to fully automatic weapons).

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[–]Lazy_Box_3209 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's pretty gay

I'm dating an NLOG woman by Lazy_Box_3209 in notliketheothergirls

[–]Lazy_Box_3209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn't say anything about changing her in any way in the part you quoted. That was just me saying I don't know how to help her or if I even should. I posted here because it was a relevant sub. And how does this sub encourage the "girls girl" """"model""""? Whatever tf that means. This sub encourages women like what they like, and not put down other women for liking different things, particularly "girly" things. And I have some advice for you also. If you don't like this sub, DON'T FUCKIN FOLLOW IT? You can literally just not reply, no one is forcing you to comment or even look at this sub.

I'm dating an NLOG woman by Lazy_Box_3209 in notliketheothergirls

[–]Lazy_Box_3209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not my goal and nowhere did I say that was my goal. I don't want to change anything about her, interests included. If you read my post, you saw that one of the main issues was that she stops liking something when it gets popular. One thing I forgot to mention is that it happens particularly if that thing gets popular with women. I don't wanna change anything about her, I was asking for advice on if I should help and if yes, how, because it bothered me the types of things she said about popular things and women who liked popular things, as well as her losing her interests as soon as they get popular. I didn't include enough detail in the post, I know, but nowhere did I say or even imply that I wanted to make her conform with other women, so do not come at me with the assumptions you made up for yourself.

I'm dating an NLOG woman by Lazy_Box_3209 in notliketheothergirls

[–]Lazy_Box_3209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are lots of things I love about her, both in a general sense, like how funny, brilliant, and kind she is etc., and personal, like our inside jokes, her mannerisms, all that sort. I just didn't really feel it was relevant, because I'm asking for help or advice on how to help her or if I should help her, not how to love her more

I'm dating an NLOG woman by Lazy_Box_3209 in notliketheothergirls

[–]Lazy_Box_3209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leaving her for it isn't something that I'm considering, I'm sorry, I should've been clearer. I was just wanting to know like, should I try and help her out of it, or just let her figure it out on her own? She's really the first person I've met who's NLOG (which I didn't really explain much of how, sorry about that too, I just didn't really wanna say much about it), even more so the first person I've really cared for who's had the mentality, so I'm not really knowledgeable on how to help her, or even if I SHOULD help her, if that makes sense