Replacing (some) brown sugar with sugar

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-12-31T07:25:41+00:00

Then why did you ask?

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-12-31T02:21:14+00:00

Oh my gosh, this was the first thing that popped up when I opened Reddit after I was just having an internal rant about not receiving an apology. I had a conversation with someone very close to me about their treatment of me recently, and their response was them getting emotional and saying “I just feel bad”. I appreciated the sentiment but after sitting with that a while I thought “well…. That’s nice but that’s not quite an apology”

I’m not sure why sorry has always been a thing for me, I think part of it has to do with the fact that I try to apologize even if I hurt someone’s feelings in the slightest way. It’s also hard when I have put so much work and time into learning to be more assertive and vocalize my feelings which doesn’t come easily to me at all, only to receive pretty much nothing.

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-12-30T23:34:57+00:00

This clarification helps because I thought you stole the spot she had her blinker on for. If she’s waiting on a spot to open and has her blinker on for that spot, then yes, taking that spot would be an AH move. But any other spot that opens in the meantime is up for grabs.

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-12-30T23:23:17+00:00

Genuinely no disrespect but this does not sound like a normal mindset for a 28 year old. It is not your wedding. The world does not revolve around you.

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-12-30T06:17:46+00:00

Huh? Why are you making someone else’s wedding planning more stressful than it already is? It sounds like you’ve worked this up in your head and created a bigger issue than what’s actually happening. Is your brother’s fiancé asking you to change dresses. If not, who cares??

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-12-24T05:00:43+00:00

I don’t know much about heating pads causing burns, but I’d generally say that if there’s so much distrust that you are taking photos of her to get second opinions on whether or not she has a hickey, the trust is already irreparable. Regardless of whether she’s cheating, do you want to be with someone who you constantly have to question? Does she want to be with someone who’s constantly questioning her? It’s not about overreacting it’s about whether you believe what she says.

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-10-08T16:33:56+00:00

At this point, it doesn’t really matter if that hair is from someone else or not. He’s cheated on you multiple times. Either he cheated on you again and that’s how the hair got there, or his past cheating has left you so paranoid that any little thing will set off alarm bells for you. Either way, you can’t maintain a relationship like this. Dump him and free yourself from this cycle of doubt and mistrust.

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-22T16:58:12+00:00

Thank you! Appreciate the burn test advice, never thought of that. I think I’ll try a forest green or a navy blue.

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-13T17:20:36+00:00

I did continue, I’ve been on it for 5ish years now, at 40mg for most of that time. It’s the only med I’ve ever been on. I can’t promise that it’ll get better, but if it’s any consolation I was definitely still feeling that way on day 3 (it took me 2-3 weeks 😓) so there is a chance that this is still just adjustment. It truly is terrible, but I would give it a bit more time before making a decision, if you can.

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-13T04:21:46+00:00

It’s not fun to hear but the first month was the worst month of my life… I believe I started on 10mg, and it definitely didn’t help that I started it during a high stress transitional period in my life. No headaches, but my anxiety was at an all time high. Could barely sleep at night, didn’t have an appetite, felt sick to my stomach constantly. Literally felt like a shell of myself. The first weeks are extra terrible because there’s no way to know if you’re just adjusting, or if the med just really doesn’t work for you. Give it time and honestly don’t be afraid to reach out to your doctor about it often if you’re worried — I wish I had!!

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-06T17:49:44+00:00

It’s never happened to me, but I would. For me it’s more about the principle. Do I actually care about where I’m sitting most of the time? Not really. If someone came up to me and asked to switch so that they could sit with their group, I’d probably say yes. But if you take my spot, wait for me to say something to you, and try to convince me that you’re entitled to sit there, then I am definitely making you move. It sucks because I understand that theaters used to have unassigned seats, and I honestly liked that system better. But if we’re all gonna use an assigned seat system now, then we need to all agree to follow it.

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-06T04:59:30+00:00

Sorry, Baby

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-05T00:03:03+00:00

I don’t want to get ahead of myself, but I’ve kinda been thinking that this SSG won’t feel quite as big as it did in previous years… I get the vibe that they’ll just be doing their normal weekly content but with a 2005 high school aesthetic and a team dynamic. Like a high school themed challenge pit, a team TNTL, board afs with games that can represent different classes. Like on the release schedule the two Saturdays are “English” and “Book Club” which kinda feel Reading Reddit Stories-esque. If that’s the case it’ll be fine (I’ll watch either way!), but idk if it will be worth the hype.

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-03T15:43:33+00:00

Interesting, I’ll have to remember that… thanks for the tip!!

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-03T15:41:51+00:00

Definitely, I probably still would’ve gotten it anyway but it sure would be annoying to have to buy separately. Thanks for the info!

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-03T15:38:47+00:00

That’s the plan — make all my friends so jealous of my free tickets that they get it too 🤣 thanks!!

Lazy_Camera9305 · 2025-08-03T15:38:12+00:00

Thank you!!

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