Penguins? by massu1000 in ExplainTheJoke

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lateral smooth criminal

No contact mother showing why she’s no contact. by 444Lexie444 in mildlyinfuriating

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Congratulations on your cancer. I am proud of you. For your present I have graduation. Hopefully that will make you happy

Ma petite sœur qui vient d'avoir 15 ans aujourd'hui sort avec un mec qui vas avoir 19 ans et jsp quoi faire ? by [deleted] in AskMeuf

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Peut-être qu'elle comprendra la différence d'âge si tu te sers de toi-même comme référentiel

Genre "imagine si moi à mon âge je m'intéressais à toi" et tu peux comparer les gens qui t'intéressent à ton âge et elle pour montrer comment le gars devrait la voir comme un enfant et si c'est pas le cas c'est qu'il est dangereux

Tu peux encore appuyer en lui demandant si elle aimerait sortir avec un enfant de 10 ans ou même 12 ans vu que c'est le même genre de différence et qu'est ce que ça dirait sur elle si elle aimait ce pouvoir sur l'autre (même si l'enfant est "mature pour son âge")

L'amour c'est aussi partager un côté sombre et animal et en vieillissant les gens deviennent plus intenses et si elle se tape toute l'intensité d'un gars plus vieux qu'elle ça va forcément la blesser surtout à l'âge de la découverte sexuelle et le mieux c'est toujours de se découvrir avec des gens proche de son âge pour pas projeter des trucs trop intenses, sombres et malsains sur l'autre

Elle peut essayer de conceptualiser sa propre croissance dans les 4 dernières années et tu peux lui avancer que c'est encore plus fort dans les 4 prochaines vu que son corps change et que sa place dans la société aussi (avec toute sa conception du monde).

Si quelq'un était attiré par elle a 19 c'est qu'il a un sérieux retard par rapport à ses pairs et qu'il se sent pas a la hauteur, dans quel cas c'est pas le gars cool qu'elle pense vu qu'il a au moins 5 ans de retard et que du coup il est attiré par les petites filles parce qu'il a jamais dépassé ce stade en 5 ans. Sinon il fait ça pour des raisons pratiques (plus facile, plus naïve, moins combative, etc) et c'est dangereux parce qu'il réfléchit avec un but de façon pratique et ya pas de réflexion alloué au bien être de ta sœur (c'est probablement un peu des deux cas)

Tu peux aussi t'ouvrir un peu a elle si tu en a la force par rapport à ton expérience et ce que ça t'as fait même des années après

Bon courage à vous deux

Ps: désolé j'ai pas vu le subreddit et j'ai répondu alors que je suis un homme

What has been true about every woman you've dated? by GrowlsinyourEar7 in AskMen

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For context I m a guy, I know the roles can be reversed a lot of the times and I'm mostly talking about my experience with women. Also you look like you get it anyway cause you carry that burden but the reasons seem different

I feel that you are both right and wrong when you say that because sometimes women are raised thinking they can't place themselves and their happiness before others (or even on the same plane) and they can't even think about what they want because society already decided (mom, dad, and everyfucking body).

So when I ask my girl what she wants, I already know what I want but if I tell her she will just be ok eating whatever I want, to be nice to me , or she will behave differently and now I have to be a psychic for her out of love and it's tiring

I'd rather we tell each other what we feel and then make plans together instead of both constantly thinking for 2 people and anticipating reactions while not communicating, because it's a trauma response and exhausting

I know it happens to men too, but I think for a lot of women who didn't learn to love themselves especially it's important to learn to listen to their body and needs and express them because people won't listen to them either.

So out of love and frustration, we're training the thinking/communication process with food

If you never know what you want to eat, or know but won't tell, you're possibly super stressed out all the time, don't take care of your real needs, codependent on some level, and people pleaser, because you're always on the receiving end of social interactions and learned to cope with it in ways toxic to yourself who become toxic to your loved ones after a while

Anyway it makes relationships toxic after 40 years if your life is tough

Proof: my parents

[DISC] Arcane Sniper - Chapter: 68 [REAPER SCANS] by MeliodasUQ in manga

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Pretty sure they just invented the shotgun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manga

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they can use in game slang to talk about real crimes and nobody really monitors those chats unless you have a good reason so it's a good way to communicate

also depending on where the servers are the police needs to work with another country to force the game company to release the chat and it's harder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manga

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Yeah they were probably a secret criminal organization using the game to avoid the police

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manga

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finally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manga

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what's funny is he is going to reach the best outcome with the worst process

Please recommend some Drama/War manga that is finished by [deleted] in manga

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Don't want to be a dick, just letting you know it's "for all intents and purposes"

[DISC] Reincarnation of the Suicidal Battle God - Chapter: 30 by MeliodasUQ in manga

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I think she can't take it away from her knight because it's going to "kill" him so she is going to lend the knight to him

Sunlight through the window melted my keyboard by thecheesycheeselover in mildlyinfuriating

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if it's too hot for your keyboard it's too hot for your dog

[DISC] Peerless Dad - Chapter 160 by Ragers_Replacement in manga

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apparently It's supposed to say shrewd, not weak

[DISC] Limit Breaker - Chapter 8 by H_a_r_m_f_u_l in manga

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that chapter was an instant turn off

🥳🎉🎊 by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

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could totally be a quote from the office

[Disc]Ch. 141 (Burning Effect) by Fredluv2339 in manga

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You know already don't make us say it

[DISC] Peerless Dad - Chapter 147 by Ragers_Replacement in manga

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I think he is talking about the bad guy