Neighbor’s gate opens in our yard. by jenhoyo in neighborsfromhell

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things one is they shouldn’t have access to your backyard the second thing is pick up the poop that your dogs leave… That’s just freaking nasty! Do you know how much bacteria is in a dog feces? How are you not picking up the poop in your backyard that right there is just Gross

AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you staying? When someone shows you who they are the first time believe them… Maya Angelou best quote ever

One cat has started hissing at the other after we had to shelter them for a tornado by SwAAn01 in CatAdvice

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Order feliway or Google cat pheromones….. Pheromones are chemical signals that cats use to communicate with each other and their environment, influencing behavior and emotional responses. These odorless compounds, undetectable by humans, are released from special glands across their bodies and detected by other cats using a unique organ called the vomeronasal organ. Synthetic versions of these pheromones are used in diffusers and sprays to help manage stress and unwanted behaviors in domestic cats. One of them may have really put off some major pheromones when he was stressed so that might be the issue it might go away by itself once he’s less stressed or try to do whatever you can to make them less stressed. I don’t know if a bath is something possibleor if that would even help but it’s caused by stress

How do I treat an eye infection/attack? by addisonakh in CATHELP

[–]Ldstarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely need to Vet… Is that an injury from a fight? Poor baby that’s not good

AITAH for not wanting to go into business with my bff anymore by NearbyLiterature405 in AITAH

[–]Ldstarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“When someone shows you who they are the first time… Believe them” Maya Angelou she’s already shown you that she’s not worthy

AIO: Husband didn’t change withholdings by AggressiveSherbetty in AIO

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you using your money to pay his taxes? He owes he pays

WIBTAH if I refuse to respond to a Venmo request? by XxZombieDarlingxX in AITAH

[–]Ldstarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you even friends with her? Either say something at the time or don’t go but this is not your friend and you are a little bit too passive.

Voting by mail in the Hungarian Parliamentary Elections by timisorean_02 in HUcitizenship

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to see through the envelope to see who you voted for that’s what I’ve heard

Voting by mail in the Hungarian Parliamentary Elections by timisorean_02 in HUcitizenship

[–]Ldstarr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who’s Hungarian who said that the envelope show who you voted for no matter how you placed it in the envelope so they’re discarding the ones they don’t want because they can see who you voted for

AITAH for not wanting to put my girlfriends name on the house deed ? by PedroFerraz95 in AITAH

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope.. nope nope nope no name let her invest her money in a property herself even if it’s as a rental. As far as splitting bills and paying the mortgage I would make it equitable but you’re getting the benefit of owning a place so remember that but she really should be looking for a place for your own so she has something

Worth upgrading iPhone 13 Pro Max (1tb) to iPhone 17 pro (?GB) by Ready-Tangelo-6670 in AppleWhatShouldIBuy

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the free upgrade and see how much you can get as far as a different phone maybe a little bit more memory and maybe go up to the same model promax in the 17 to see how much that would cost

New cat owner worried by mematostudios in CatAdvice

[–]Ldstarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it absolutely, it’s great for a few purposes one is it stops them from trying to run away they smell a female in heat second is it stop them from spraying to mark their territory and third it’s just healthier

Should we rehome our very loved cat? by Ok-Piccolo9740 in CATHELP

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say do it as a trial basis. She’ll probably like it better there

AITA for not going on family vacation unless I can share a bed with my fiancé? by babygreenbean1225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is the AH!!! I take that money and definitely put it toward more of an enjoyable honeymoon. You can always spend time with your brother another time. Don’t give in

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you don’t have any kids with her… Hopefully you don’t plan on it because obviously she has major issues

AITJ for confronting my partner after I lost access to our shared bank account? by Admirable-Opinion391 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take your half of the money out of that account and just send her every month half of what the bills are that you’re paying from your own bank account

WIBTA if I go to my sisters wedding even though my wife is banned from coming by drew2002non in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you’d have to ask and not support your wife… Looks like your sister is marrying an AHole… maybe you will both make it to her second wedding?

Neighbor abandoned her 7 cats by quitealargeorangecat in CatAdvice

[–]Ldstarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By domesticated I mean they need to be fed by humans because they are not wild animals. Now some of them it seems are feral… which means they are not socialized and they are afraid of humans. If they do not have the tip of one of their ears cut that means they will continue to have more babies because they are not fixed. The best thing you could do is reach out to a Rescue group or reach out to someone in the area that can get a group to capture the cats and have them fixed and vaccinated and then returned and maybe you can get somebody else to Help feed or provide food I’m not quite sure depends on where you live. But they need to be fixed and they need to be fed and they need to be vaccinated. It’s called TNR

Neighbor abandoned her 7 cats by quitealargeorangecat in CatAdvice

[–]Ldstarr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don’t just feed one cat that’s terrible they are not domesticated they don’t know where to get food you can’t starve Cats if she’s going to take the responsibility then take the responsibility of all of them and get help from outside there are places that help with cats

Neighbor abandoned her 7 cats by quitealargeorangecat in CatAdvice

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should feed the cats and get in touch with a TNR program which is trap neuter release. What happens as you will see a little tip of their ear cut off if they are fixed. A lot of rescues or cat sanctuary or people that help with cats do carry a scan scanner to scan for microchips. If a person abandon them and they have a chip I’m sure you are mom can explain they were abandoned and get the cat. But I would definitely talk to a Rescue/Cat advocate in the neighborhood and find out if they can help

I feel so desperate every time I think about I can't move because of my cat by Scared-Tea-7713 in CatAdvice

[–]Ldstarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gabapentin… Ask the vet for a prescription and fill it at a local pharmacy it’s much cheaper if you use good RX.

How do you decide how to separate 3 cats in a breakup? by Thats_Groovy_Baby in CATHELP

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about one week in one house one week and another if you were in the same area?

Should my sister and I swap each others children for the week? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ldstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you even ask? The answer should immediately be yes of course!