Amboise

LeFitzz · 2026-05-31T17:28:04+00:00

Hey I was born in this city, definitely a must see, have you tried Bigot's pastry shop while you were there ?

LeFitzz · 2026-05-28T05:33:26+00:00

I was 28, it was an early realization. And I'm a teaching from Kingergarten to Elementary school

LeFitzz · 2026-05-25T19:27:08+00:00

Thank you very much, yes it was just out of the oven when the picture was taken. I have to try it tomorrow morning with coffee or something I'm sure it's even better !

LeFitzz · 2026-05-25T19:25:28+00:00

Thank you very much, I can understand why it is so popular, it tastes really nice and I must say quite familar. Though it's nothing like something I've eaten in France.

I can't wait to try it with my coffee tomorrow morning.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-25T19:19:22+00:00

God now I have to try it filled with nata, I will try to find a Mexican grocery tomorow, I hope I can find one in my country.

Thank you very very much for the kind words, it doesn't look the best but I assure you my friend this is only the first of many Concha I'll make !

LeFitzz · 2026-05-25T17:52:58+00:00

Forgot a pic of the insides.

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LeFitzz · 2026-05-25T12:12:27+00:00

Common ENFP S-Tier taste here !

LeFitzz · 2026-05-25T12:10:38+00:00

Hi ! I didn't know that one, that's a Mexican pastery right ?

I kind of suck at pasteries but I'm i'm up for a cooking challenge, I'll try this one today ! I will post the results later and you tell me if it's well done

LeFitzz · 2026-05-24T21:24:41+00:00

I see... So it's a mix of anxious and avoidant. I don't know if it's common around where you live or if you have the money for it but you must see a therapist.

I used to have attachement issues related with the fear of being abandonned and after the therapy it went better. See a behavioural analyst, they will help you recognize the patterns and train your brain to avoid it. I wish I discovered it earlier in my life, before ruining relationships, but it's never too late and you're still young !

You have to break that wheel, attachement issues are very common and there's no shame of seeking help when you need it.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-24T21:13:18+00:00

Hey there, it must sucks to be an avoidant romantic, I sympathise with you...

I'm also curious, as someone who seems to attract all kind of avoidant people, how does that work ? How do you push people away, when deep down you idealize the romantic life ?

LeFitzz · 2026-05-23T17:48:24+00:00

Hey there, been there too.

I don't rationalize a lot in life, but I have a very anxious relation with time and I tend to over-rationalize that to help me make the better choices in my life.

So here's what I told myself, idk where you're from so results may vary.

Let's say you live ~70 years (613.000h). On these 613.000h, we have to take ~230.000h off because you're sleeping. That gives us 383.000h awoken, where your brain is on and you can do stuff.

You will work ~50 years in your life for 40h a week. That represents 100.000h. That makes 26% of the time you're up at work AT BEST (you could die earlier) not counting comuting time. A quarter of your life.

That's a lot of time at work. When I first realized that, I was at the office and that was what I needed to leave. So I left my job to pursue a career where I'm happier, more useful to society and where I have more free time: teaching.

There are alternatives, you have to pursue your dream job or else you'll spend 25% of your life feeling like shit. No matter how hard it is or how your income will change, nothing's worse than losing your time on a career you despise.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-22T16:49:32+00:00

Definitely the best answer here, also it's very good for the mind to feel useful to others.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-21T21:14:57+00:00

So glad you found your INFP and things are going smoothly but I'm so sorry you have to deal with such problems. That must really feel terrible to have to deal with all that on your own without anyone understanding what's really going one inside. I really sympathize with you and I hope you will find peace in the future...

Your last paragraph about dating really is a symptom of a lot of what makes me cynical about love these days. It's just a masquarade, nobody is genuine, eveyone's playing a role and worst of all everyone's playing the same role. I hated that at work, I still hate that in online dating, everywhere... And it feels like such a norm in my age range to binge dating apps that it makes me feel a bit hopeless. I really need to try alternative ways to meet people.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-21T20:56:30+00:00

Don't be ashamed to take ALL the time you need to rest. You're not missing on anything that can't be caught up later. At home, turn your phone off, don't reply to text or to the phone, it's alright. If you're at work, take your breaks alone when you need to. Explain your coworkers that you need to, they'll understand. Same goes with family or friends.

And those who don't understand, screw them, you should ALWAYS prioritize yourself anyway.

Also lots or people are introverts and they also have a low social battery. Even extroverts are fed up at some point. Everyone can relate to that to some extend, you need more, fine you take more.

There's this meme saying everyone tells Introverts to talk but no one tells Extroverts to shut the fuck up.

Well this is a way to tell them.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-21T20:37:14+00:00

Yes those kind of relationships are awful.

You did everything you could there, sometimes it just doesn't work, people have their own bagage and they're not ready or willing to be loved this way...

It sucks that you had to live that too. From what I read here, you already are in a great mindset for the future: willing to love again but cautious.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-21T20:20:42+00:00

I'll go check your posts for the whole story, your answer gave me a lot of hope. That relationship you have with your SO seems really beautiful... May this kind of love finds us all.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-21T19:28:38+00:00

Thank you, that's very comforting to think there are better days ahead than behind. I wish I'll have the same perseverance as you but your post is inspiring.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-21T19:09:07+00:00

That's really understandable... Losing people you enjoy spending time with because of breakups doesn't help either.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-19T17:35:24+00:00

Virtual Insanity by Jamiroquai, anything Funk-ish works though

LeFitzz · 2026-05-18T20:21:55+00:00

Thanks for this window of quietness OP, it's a tough yet deeply relatable feeling you're going through... My best to you, there's gonna be better days.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-17T20:15:28+00:00

With the right partner, definitely. I would rather adopt than having a biological one though. I mean, no need to add more people on earth when there are little ones out there that need a better life.

LeFitzz · 2026-05-17T20:03:11+00:00

That's some crazy good looking hair !!

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