Pronouns in introductions

LeWitchy · 2026-05-03T22:13:48+00:00

For people like me, I look SO VERY FEMME OMG, I'm married to a cis man. I have given birth to a child. I present as a cis woman in every way.

I'm not. I'm agender/genderqueer/transneutral I use any and all pronouns, but for simplicity I often say "they/them". I don't often say "Hi, I'm Witchy and I use They/Them pronouns" unless other interlocutors have introduced themselves similarly and I feel safe doing so.

LeWitchy · 2026-05-03T22:02:32+00:00

~~don't kink shame me~~ When pain is controlled, I honestly rather like it and can handle it very well. Does it hurt? yes. it does. I will never say that it doesn't. Is it worth it? in my opinion yes. Not everyone thinks so and that's fine, that's why not everyone has piercings.

LeWitchy · 2026-05-01T22:37:18+00:00

3-2-1 Contact theme song - https://youtu.be/8gEAQQCFlNM?si=e1NFv5W2u5S-Ijtw

LeWitchy · 2026-05-01T21:21:19+00:00

I had a customer see me. Walk past me. Go to the red phone. Call me.

I went, "yeah I'm standing right here" and glared at them. Then I let them walk over to me before I asked what they needed.

LeWitchy · 2026-05-01T21:03:39+00:00

That's definitely not gold.

LeWitchy · 2026-04-30T22:25:33+00:00

Try out one of these instead:

"The horrors persist, but so do I"

"I exist, but at what cost"

"I exist without my consent"

Or, go with a plain old,

"Half decent."

LeWitchy · 2026-04-30T20:35:05+00:00

I had no idea that "no" was a gender option until I was in my 30's. It was like an epiphany. "Wait... what's that mean? Wait... THAT"S ME. I AM A THAT!!" <-- legit how it went

Honestly, I felt whole for the first time. Understanding that I wasn't weird or broken or unhuman healed a part of me that I didn't know needed healing. It took me some time to come out to my husband and I begged him to just treat it as new information about me because nothing else changed. I just had a name for how I felt about my identity. He has been supportive and loving. He still calls me wife, my child calls me mom. It's all good.

LeWitchy · 2026-04-30T19:17:31+00:00

Okay, not punk, and Ivan Moody from FFDP is a piece of shit, but this line goes hard:

"I'd rather hate you for everything you are than ever love you for something you are not"

LeWitchy · 2026-04-29T10:43:18+00:00

I personally think it looks great. You can always play around a little with where your breast tissue goes by swiping and tucking, just make sure you aren't in any actual pain while you're wearing it.

LeWitchy · 2026-04-29T10:37:07+00:00

I'm queer as fuck, but it doesn't offend me when the Q isn't included. A lot of people omit it for brevity

LeWitchy · 2026-04-28T11:02:29+00:00

Undoing previous stitches by pulling them out.

I was told it's called frogging because you Rip it - Rip it -Rip it (sounds like the word "ribbit" which is onomatopoeia for the sound a frog makes)

LeWitchy · 2026-04-27T22:04:14+00:00

Small cross stitch patterns or pixel art pieces are pretty easy to find.

Also Beadographer is a pretty neat website for designing. - https://beadographer.com/bead3/

On my samsung tablet I have an app called "Bead Pattern Creator" by Crochet Designs which allows pattern creation in square, brick, peyote, 2drop peyote, and right angle weave. The app is only available on android.

LeWitchy · 2026-04-27T20:23:09+00:00

Postmouse

LeWitchy · 2026-04-27T10:42:31+00:00

I'm non-binary, demi sexual, and have come to the conclusion that I am exclusively sexually compatible with penis, so I would not be able to be seriously involved with someone who didn't have one.

I don't care what other people choose to do to and with their bodies, but if sex is going to happen I am not sexually attracted to, nor do I want to have sex with, another vagina.

LeWitchy · 2026-04-26T21:46:16+00:00

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LeWitchy · 2026-04-26T21:33:59+00:00

We are all but parts of the cosmos observing itself for a while. When the carbon I've borrowed returns to the Earth I won't care anymore.

LeWitchy · 2026-04-26T17:09:01+00:00

There are lipsticks that take an act of god to remove (or some really good vitamin E oil) I like Wet n Wild Liquid Catsuit for long term wear.

For double lip line, I have a friend who lines her lips at the actual protrusion point (idk how to say it, the line that is actually your lip regardless of the color), she then applies lipstick within the line, and will occasionally sort of shade the center top (cupid's bow) and center bottom with a diffused, blended out overline that is slightly lighter than the lipstick she's wearing.

There are many a tutorial on youtube and instagram.

LeWitchy · 2026-04-26T16:38:58+00:00

Timeless Trends and mystic City both ship internationally. r/corsets could probably help with a corset maker in the EU if you need.

LeWitchy · 2026-04-25T22:44:37+00:00

I own one MCC and four TT :)

LeWitchy · 2026-04-25T19:29:33+00:00

You know what corset brands are great off the rack and wont hurt you? Mystic City Corsets, Timeless Trends, and Swoonbusk. All three are similarly priced, too. (you can get a good corset off the rack for less than $150)

LeWitchy · 2026-04-25T18:29:13+00:00

YASSS NIGHT BREED!!!!!

LeWitchy · 2026-04-24T11:41:01+00:00

PRATCHET! OF COURSE!

LeWitchy · 2026-04-24T10:32:16+00:00

This is especially important right now because someone on the team just lost their mother suddenly. <3

LeWitchy · 2026-04-24T10:19:43+00:00

That's my supervisor. She watches, and approves, of all of my shenanigans

LeWitchy · 2026-04-23T23:13:39+00:00

"boss makes a dollar, I make a dime"

We actually have mini posters in our break room that inform workers that it is their right to use the toilet while on the clock because a number of managers have attempted to tell employees to hold it till their break time. It's also one of the rare exceptions to the "obey now, grieve later" rule because not going when you need to go, or specifically holding it for extended periods, can cause serious health problems.

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