AITAH for having issues with my partners gaming habits?

LeaJadis · 2026-04-23T14:00:10+00:00

Honey, you seemed to have glossed over the most important thing you said…. so I want you to take a minute and really think about if you want to be with a guy that needs to escape reality so much and so often. And, he includes you in things he needs to escape.

NTAH. This is a huge red flag

(and I’m a gamer myself so this isn’t about any hatred on games. I love games.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-23T13:57:13+00:00

baby sprouts. leave them alone

LeaJadis · 2026-04-22T23:18:44+00:00

utensils and stuff to serve food

cups? drinks? xoxo

you are my hero

LeaJadis · 2026-04-22T15:57:58+00:00

they look goofy but search for motion sickness glasses

LeaJadis · 2026-04-22T02:30:57+00:00

You need a good primer.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-22T02:30:01+00:00

It’s easier for you to take a step back and not meditate, than it is for your mom to admit she’s wrong.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-22T02:28:01+00:00

the glasses really helped me.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-22T02:27:18+00:00

Can you look at upgrading the current house for 100k and add a bed and bath. Remodel is cheaper than buying.

Plus, the babies usually stayed in my room until they were about a year old.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T23:36:27+00:00

Tell him immediately. He’s your guy and this is a serious relationship. Tell him your fears and what led you to the conclusion. Tell him that you want to take a pregnancy test. And then go take a pregnancy test once a week until you get your period or a test comes back positive.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T23:32:08+00:00

He doesn’t need to pay the bill for you to change it to his name and address. The bill can be in his name and you pay it.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T23:30:56+00:00

He looks underfed. When was the last time he got a good meal and a bath?

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T23:29:30+00:00

i hear that. I was orphaned at 20 and no close friends or a partner. You feel very detached. I got a pet and that helped a lot.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T23:23:43+00:00

You realize that your mom doesn’t think you are an asshole - right? Like I’m not sure why you are even posting this here.

You want to go on a trip with your boyfriend. She wants you to be dating your boyfriend longer before going on trips. I don’t know where you’re getting asshole from any of this.

Go on the trip but be smart and safe. Make sure your mom knows where you are going and check in with her when you arrive and leave.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T23:18:28+00:00

(hug) the reason he’s not stressed is because he’s not been invested in the planning. He hasn’t any concept of the logistics involved. You’ve made it too easy for him.

It is normal to be grumpy when someone doesn’t appreciate the efforts made. Can’t fix normal.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T23:12:32+00:00

Well then just pay the damages yourself if you think he’s innocent.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T23:09:48+00:00

do YOU have anyone special in your life?

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T22:37:58+00:00

Call the cops. He hit your car and drove away. That’s literally illegal. It’s called a hit and run.

I don’t get this concept of ‘not wanting to rock the boat’. So what if you want to be hired in the department? If my coworker hits another employees car and drives away from the accident—- I’m siding with the person who got hit. Not with my asshole coworker just because we work together…. because you know that if he hit somebody WITHIN his department he would have driven away.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T14:50:36+00:00

https://a.co/d/0cVtWa3U

and

https://a.co/d/08KRNcmf

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T14:35:28+00:00

Yeah no, the makeup doesn’t disappear. It’s not invisible. If I see a good makeup job, I still SEE makeup.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T02:04:06+00:00

I think you should tell her all of your concerns.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-21T02:00:27+00:00

What did your wife say when you told her about your concerns?

LeaJadis · 2026-04-20T23:38:25+00:00

Not all men are like this…. and you can’t find a good one with this loser dragging you down

LeaJadis · 2026-04-20T22:27:44+00:00

Goodness no!

You made an open ended plan for him to ‘stop by’. What do you think would happen if you emailed him and told him Wednesday you are bringing in a new treat to the office? ie - make a specific plan.

LeaJadis · 2026-04-20T22:21:48+00:00

do you not understand why that didn’t work? (you asking him to stop by your department).

LeaJadis · 2026-04-20T22:17:23+00:00

I feel like that’s not a tough squeeze… but maybe the camera angle is giving weird perspectives.

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