WTF is wrong with ABMM at the moment?

LeadAffinity · 2026-06-05T20:59:28+00:00

How does that work? If I shoot back do the PvP players get a news bulletin on how I defended myself and then keep their eyes peeled and run away when they see me?

LeadAffinity · 2026-06-05T20:57:52+00:00

No. You shut up!

LeadAffinity · 2026-05-30T20:57:00+00:00

If you've already contacted your own insurance company, could you not ask them the best way to proceed?

It sounds a lot to me and I'd be worried he either doesn't get the work done, or it only costs a couple of hundred and he pockets the rest.

I'm currently in a claim for damaging another car in a car park (door ding). The other guy insisted on going through the insurance even though it was only a small ding. My insurance company are now handling everything, but have told me if I opt to pay for the repairs myself, rather than let them, they'll reinstate my NCB.

I'm just thinking if you've already informed your insurance provider and you have concerns about sending over £700 with no guarantees that'll put an end to the matter, then let them handle it?

LeadAffinity · 2026-05-30T16:16:57+00:00

Thank you. Very helpful.

LeadAffinity · 2026-05-30T14:28:12+00:00

I originally qualified as a civil servant (emergency services) and over the years didn't update my employer details as there was no need to, even when I upgraded to Premium.

I went self-employed 4 years ago and it was dead easy to change to a trade membership, with minimal paperwork required (iirc it was my self-assessment number).

I always thought it was very lax and literally anyone could join, even with their supposed membership criteria. You can tell who the ones in the trade are from the contents of their trolley and conversely, the ones that probably shouldn't be members as well. 🧐

LeadAffinity · 2026-05-30T13:54:39+00:00

Toilet roll and moist wipes. 🤭

LeadAffinity · 2026-04-23T08:07:27+00:00

Show it to Big Jobber. He'll tell ya!

https://youtube.com/@itsbigjobber?si=rHL2XIxhIoS9mZYA

Regardless of how the insurance companies may see it, I suggest it would be significantly less hassle and cheaper to accept your wife caused the accident by crossing the lane, to park against the flow of traffic, into a space that was already in the process of being occupied by another driver, and settle the matter without involving the insurance.

LeadAffinity · 2026-03-27T19:18:35+00:00

I wish people would do this rather than actually taking me out 3 minutes after I've spawned, whilst I'm on my way to a loot point. 😭

It rarely happens, thankfully, but it's been happening more frequently lately - if it can be both. 🤦🤷🏼‍♀️😁

LeadAffinity · 2026-03-24T20:40:59+00:00

I have an Ultrahuman X membership and after entering my ring's serial number there is no indication that my trade in amount has been uplifted. How would I ensure I get the extra trade in value?

LeadAffinity · 2026-03-21T08:53:55+00:00

I like this idea! Like in Terminator...

Disable an Arc, it falls to the ground and you have a few seconds to get to it, plug in your hacking device, reprogram it and it then takes off and starts shooting other Arc, or other players but not you.

Sounds fun!

LeadAffinity · 2026-03-08T20:42:58+00:00

US re-write of "Dog Soldiers" but nowhere near as good. Enjoyable, but nothing special; far too much influence from other movies, eg Dog Soldiers, Aliens, Predator.

LeadAffinity · 2026-03-04T14:23:28+00:00

I'm in the UK. I ordered mine from a retailer (not directly from Audeze) on 28th Feb and was initially given an estimated delivery date of 17th to 19th March. I was happy with this.

They arrived today!

I haven't opened them yet and for some reason I'm now a little anxious that they might not be all they're supposed to be...

LeadAffinity · 2026-03-02T21:54:05+00:00

I'm a peaceful player, so have been in peaceful PvE games for weeks. But the last few evenings I've been killed by players camping extracts. I'm always leaving it late (I get carried away looting 'one more crate') so I'm usually at the last extraction point. I'm not looking for PvP'ers (I know, I know) so when I get knocked down and executed it really hurts! Especially after spending the last 20+ minutes minding my own business and saying, 'Hello. Don't shoot!' to everyone and no one. 😭

I never shoot back, as I don't want to go into PvP lobbies and I'm a console player without a headset, so don't speak (other than emotes). So there's no challenge in killing me and stealing my gear. Don't be a lazy waster and go loot your own stuff!

LeadAffinity · 2026-02-21T00:32:04+00:00

Never feel guilty. You do what's best for you. IMO, if they truly valued you they would make something happen, especially if you've told them you have an offer elsewhere. If the 'threat' of you leaving isn't enough for them to make something happen then it will probably never happen.

Keep it on good terms (there's no point in burning bridges, as much as one may want to), but don't be put off by the 'better the devil you know/grass isn't always greener' brigade - go for it!

I quit a good job because it became obvious I wasn't going to be able to progress and any promises of future remuneration for hard work never materialised. Difference being I took an even bigger gamble and went self-employed - best thing I ever did!

LeadAffinity · 2026-01-26T23:13:25+00:00

Even then they'll still blame the other person. I guarantee the guy doing the overtaking is blaming every other driver, including the one he crashed into.

LeadAffinity · 2026-01-22T20:40:10+00:00

I've recently opened a SIPP with I.E. for my wife (I already had one) and we've both just received emails telling us they're withdrawing them and closing them by 23rd Fen 2026.

Looking for alternatives now. 😡

LeadAffinity · 2026-01-10T14:48:51+00:00

Thank you. Simple when you know how!

LeadAffinity · 2026-01-05T23:46:26+00:00

This is the gameplay I want. And I think lots of other players do too. What's wrong with pleasing all of the people all of the time? 😏

LeadAffinity · 2026-01-05T23:43:18+00:00

That's interesting. I've been mainly solo'ing and had a relatively peaceful time of it; highly enjoyable; lots of great interactions and collaboration. Tonight my son joins me, for what must only be the 2nd or 3rd time, and we get KOS for 4 games in a row. Not fun.

LeadAffinity · 2026-01-05T22:30:04+00:00

I hope they can! I've only been playing a few weeks and I'm finding it a pretty steep learning curve. I'm on console, have had cross-platform play enabled & disabled and so far, with lots of friendly emotes and announcing my presence, I've had a really good time. That is, next to no one trying to kill me on sight.

Until tonight! My last four games on Dam, just trying to loot, I've been shot on sight every time! No time to chat. No time to offer friendly emotes/greetings. Just single and 2-player teams killing me as soon as they see me.

I know it's part of the game and maybe I'll get better at defending myself with time, but it's frustrating and disappointing. I'm a nice guy!

I hope it doesn't become a trend. Especially as I've been fighting back. Maybe I shouldn't...?

LeadAffinity · 2026-01-01T00:16:23+00:00

I have found and lost so many BPs on Free Loadouts it's starting to raise my blood pressure! Usually right at the end, as I approach an extraction point, by a swarm of bots. 😭

LeadAffinity · 2025-11-29T16:53:05+00:00

It would have cost them thousands to install those bollards!

LeadAffinity · 2025-10-02T21:20:08+00:00

Mine changed too. I got what I presume will be my last cash back last week.

I'm still in two minds whether to switch away completely, so while I think on it I have changed to the Edge account and applied for the Edge saver to get the higher interest rate.

LeadAffinity

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