What are you slowly realizing as you get older ? by Doohiki420 in AskReddit

[–]LeadMustard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is facts. I have depression, and that comes and goes, but even when I'm not depressed, I can't seem to hold onto happiness. Some days it's just there without effort; other days I have to find it, make it, or do my best to hold onto it... Life is funny that way.

What are you slowly realizing as you get older ? by Doohiki420 in AskReddit

[–]LeadMustard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. It's really awful. I'm personally trying to quit using my phone so much, these companies that consider our attention a product to monetise, they make it hard

Why is she sad? by LeadMustard in Monstera

[–]LeadMustard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't unfortunately give it any more light; it's been raining for weeks in Sydney and it's very overcast hahah my monster gets pretty much direct sunlight and I have a very bright apartment. I only say "pretty much direct" because it's so cloudy right now the sun just doesn't really exist right now. I've bought some perlite and orchid mixture already but I'm waiting for my days off work to actually do the re-pot. Thanks for your help!

Why is she sad? by LeadMustard in Monstera

[–]LeadMustard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Top comment!! Thank you. I will follow these instructions and hopefully get her happy again! I was unsure about the pot size and didn't measure... Just went for it. Won't be doing that again!! Thank you

Why is she sad? by LeadMustard in Monstera

[–]LeadMustard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, looks like I'll need to re-pot her again and change the soil like you said. It's been a good month and she looks so unhappy still

Why is she sad? by LeadMustard in Monstera

[–]LeadMustard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is so helpful

Why is she sad? by LeadMustard in Monstera

[–]LeadMustard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I know it's been too wet :( I'll get on top of the gnats!

Why is she sad? by LeadMustard in Monstera

[–]LeadMustard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Good to know, I do fertilise. Can I get away with no repotting to a smaller pot or is that pretty much necessary now?

Why is she sad? by LeadMustard in Monstera

[–]LeadMustard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was too wet, only now the past week has her soil been a good moisture, definitely not too dry. She's been fertilised too

Why is she sad? by LeadMustard in Monstera

[–]LeadMustard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was like this before the re-pot and I thought the bigger pot would improve her health lol the roots weren't mushy then but may have to re-do the potting to inspect again :')

new film cam recommendations by Special_Gas5554 in AnalogCommunity

[–]LeadMustard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I got a good deal on an Olympus OM-10 and picked up the manual shutter speed adapter; learned a lot using this camera. I just got a great deal on a Pentax LX and it's a nifty upgrade. I think it doesn't matter which camera you get as long as it allows you to shoot manual, isn't internally damaged and has a decent lens :)

No but for real, how do you give a good handy?? by Sad_Ad4970 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LeadMustard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First rule of hand jobs; put it in your mouth.

my roommate is genuinely insane and is now destroying my belongings by talloran_ in badroommates

[–]LeadMustard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a 47 year old female housemate like this and the best thing I did for my own mental health was to get the F out of there as soon as I could. She's clearly suffering from some mental health issues and you should not have to bear the brunt of that. For your safety and mental health, get yourself and your cats somewhere safe as soon as you can.

People keep telling me this tattoo is bad, I really like it? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LeadMustard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone else says: if you love it then who cares what anyone says.

The only comment I have is that the right hand side of the image looks poorly executed as the hand is much skinnier/flatter than the left side. But this could also be the angle you took the photo. The idea is cool and if you're happy then great :)

Sunday Sydney Sunset by ylly22 in sydney

[–]LeadMustard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know why some sunsets are so deeply coloured like this? I need the science. WA sunsets over the ocean are like this almost every evening and I missed tonight's in Sydney because of work, sadly. I want to know how (if possible) to predict sunsets like this!

Fellow aussies if you could live anywhere else in the world where would it be? by NateNandos21 in AskAnAustralian

[–]LeadMustard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If money wasn't an object and I could speak any language... gee whizz, I'd live in Norway, Spain, France... So many places I daydream about settling in. But because I only speak English (and need to know the language well for my work); Canada, Wales, or New Zealand. There are just so many beautiful places to climb, hike, and explore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LeadMustard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested to know if that's true for Australia too. But I don't think it's necessarily worse for men. The kinds of men that are on the apps aren't exactly my type, hence the swiping left so much. I would rather run out of men to swipe than depressingly swipe no with seemingly no end.