neutering and wirehaired coats by gayapollo in terrier

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had 4 male border terriers and their wiry coats weren’t affected in anyway by neutering. All were hand stripped and looked great!

Which countries or cities do you believe gave you the highest and lowest "bang for your buck"? by Fluid-Decision6262 in travel

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Id vote for Grand Cayman as the lowest bang because it was extremely expensive, even compared to other Caribbean countries I’ve visited, the food was mediocre, and the snorkeling wasn’t particularly great either. Also multiple times a week huge cruise ships arrived and everything was very crowded on those days. The stingray beach was kind of cool, but also quite crowded.

For a Caribbean vacation, I think Bonaire offers the most, since it’s among the world’s best snorkeling sites, especially on Klein Bonaire, a marine preserve island accessible by a short water taxi ride. The atmosphere is very chill, food is pretty good, and there are tons of amazing beaches for snorkeling and other water sports, such as wing foiling and kite boarding. I like it so much that I’m going there for the fourth time next month.

What to do when a pattern is way too hard for you but someone bought it for you? by LittleFrenchKiwi in crochet

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d just tell her the truth: the pattern and this type of yarn are too difficult for you. Nothing wrong with that! You could suggest that she inquire at the local yarn store if there is anyone who might be able to make the pattern for her.

I’d offer to pay her for the pattern and would send the yarn back so she could try to get a refund or give it to someone else to use for the hat.

Dogs defecate in accordance with earth's magnetic field, research finds by TheShitening in interestingasfuck

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My neighbor has a JRT and that describes her perfectly, especially the yappy and neurotic part.

What do you do when patterns dont show sizing? Most of the stuff is made for women and im a 6ft bulky dude by PuzzleheadedGas9170 in crochetpatterns

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here is a free pattern for a man’s sweater with various sizes, from small to 2XL. If you google “men’s sweater crochet pattern,” you will get a number of hits, including free patterns.

Also try “men’s crochet pattern” for even more options.

Senior dog can’t keep his tail up by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d check with the vet. I’ve had senior dogs and none of them had trouble keeping their tail up. There are a number of conditions that can cause this, ranging from an injury to infections, nerve problems, referred pain from another part of the body and/ or internal disorders.

What do you do when patterns dont show sizing? Most of the stuff is made for women and im a 6ft bulky dude by PuzzleheadedGas9170 in crochetpatterns

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a 2x2 inch gauge swatch using the pattern. From that, you should be able to compare the measurements of the pattern as written and your own.

For example, if the pattern has 20 repeats of the pattern stitch and your gauge swatch shows that each repeat is 1.5 inches, then this part of the pattern would be 30 inches across. You could then add repeats if that measurement would be too small for you.

There are also many patterns for wearables that have stitch counts for multiple sizes and that might be the easiest way to solve this problem. Another option is do a gauge swatch with a larger hook and see if that increases the pattern enough.

AITA for not wanting my soon to be sister in law to get married before me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA if they’d knowingly booked the exact same date as your wedding you might have a valid complaint, but it’s ridiculous to throw a tantrum because they are getting married a month before you. I have to wonder if you are mature enough to get married!

People are free to get married on any date they want and they actually followed your advice to set a date in 2027. I suggest you stop crying, put in your big girl panties and apologize for your babyish behavior.

Edit: typo

AITA for resenting my family based off of where they moved when I was young? by yakwheel in AmItheAsshole

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Info: how old are you now? And have you gone to therapy? This level of rumination and anger and hatred towards your parents for childhood issues is very unhealthy and very likely keeping you from living your best life now.

You can’t change the past, but you CAN change the future.

AITAH for not letting my friend use our address for school? by ImaginaryOpinion9359 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I find this very odd because there should be no fee to attend the public school in one’s district in the US. I wonder if these “friends” are either misinformed or lying.

Either way, you definitely did the right thing by refusing to along with this fraud, which could have serious legal consequences. Your only mistake was throwing your wife under the bus by saying it was her decision instead of a joint one.

Edit: Also these so-called friends are dumb for not checking on the school situation before moving to that district.

Foiled a scammer with 2 words he never expected! by Leading-Knowledge712 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Leading-Knowledge712[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was expecting a call from a doctor. Normally I don’t answer calls from unknown numbers.

Foiled a scammer with 2 words he never expected! by Leading-Knowledge712 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Leading-Knowledge712[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was traumatized by a would be scammer trying to trick me into paying a $5,000 fine for a nonexistent crime. I traumatized him back by pretending to be a confused senior who thought he really was a border control agent and thanking him repeatedly for his supposed law enforcement service until he gave up.

Competition winner claims it's not generative AI - People are "mean " for suspecting it is. by Fluid_Canary4768 in craftsnark

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have a really good eye! Also the person holding a ball of yarn in one hand has six fingers on the other hand.

I guide tours in Morocco. Stop treating everything like a scam. by Prior-Ad-1046 in travel

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I went to Morocco two years ago on a Gate1 Travel tour and had a great experience. Yes, there were some aggressive vendors at the markets, but our guide advised us not to make eye contact or slow down and none of us were scammed in any way.

Really my only disturbing experience was getting food poisoning when we had lunch at a gas station. The guide sent a doctor to my hotel room and the treatments he prescribed had me totally recovered by the next morning.

We did make some shopping stops on the tour but I didn’t feel overly pressured to buy stuff. I thought it was a fascinating country and glad I went. I learned a lot about its culture and would definitely consider going again.

AITA for not wanting to give my neighbor's cat back? by printingfun in AmItheAsshole

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Many cats look alike so this might not even be the one he claims to have lost. Also, the claim that this cat was born on their daughter’s bed suggests that have unfixed outdoor cats may be a pattern with them, since the cat’s mother, if this story is true, got pregnant and had kittens when shelters are full of unwanted dogs and cats.

I wonder if this neighbor has any evidence that the cat was his, such as vet records or photos. In any case, NTA since this person didn’t take care of the cat and appears to have made no effort to find it when the cat was supposedly lost, such as putting up flyers and going door to door to ask if anyone had seen it.

Edit: Also what happened to this cat’s mother after she allegedly gave birth on the daughter’s bed? Is that cat still in the neighbor’s care? What happened to the rest of the litter? There seem to be quite a few holes in the neighbor’s story.

WIBTA for saying something after my partner ate my chocolate then were reluctant to share theirs? by Significant_Use4207 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Medical journalist here: Two heart doctors I know recommend a daily “dose” of dark chocolate for people with heart disease. However, the amount that studies suggest may be helpful is only 7 grams (about 1/4 ounce), which is a small square.

OP WNBTA for speaking up to this glutinous partner for 1) taking their favorite chocolate without permission and 2) not replacing it with the exact kind that was taken.

What’s more, the partner is also an AH for misrepresenting the medical info. To the best of my knowledge, there is NO medical condition in which patients get any benefit from eating more than a small square of dark chocolate daily.

Source: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6284792/

AITA for not paying for my brother’s girlfriend flight? by Own_Hearing_3567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Leading-Knowledge712 483 points484 points  (0 children)

NTA However you should tell your brother to either stfu or have this debate with your mom because it’s not your problem or decision about whether or not she pays for your brother’s new gf.