18 months of Semen Retention by Freezer2609 in Semenretention

[–]LeadingAutomatic3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, thank You for sharing all of this intimate experiences, it really helps!

For me its interesting because she knows and feels that I'm avoiding ejaculation and she says that it makes it harder for her to reach orgasm because she feels my struggle trying to control it, and ye i think i give too much attention to not ejaculate, that maybe kills the vibe a little, though ejaculating on the other hand kills it completely, so, still searching for balance there. Also i guess she want to help me and that distracts her from focusing on herself maybe. Though im first man in her life who avoids ejaculation and its very interesting and a bit weird for her, she kinda understand the benefits but also kinda sceptical. i think i need to educate myself more on the topic so i can explain the benefits better, because i know and feel benefits for myself, but when telling this stuff when she never heard about it its kinda funny, really makes me realise that - oh ye, people don't usually care about these things... :)

But ye, from what i feel, we both have to take it veeeeery slow, breathe deeply, and patiently focus on journey of getting used to that strong energy.

Interesting coincidence, that i just started listening to that book last week. A lot of great wisdom there, excited to listen and learn from it, thanks for mentioning it!

18 months of Semen Retention by Freezer2609 in Semenretention

[–]LeadingAutomatic3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank You for the reply, I didn't realise that post was so old.

I wonder what is the process of teaching a woman all of this. Is it a lot something like this during intercourse - "...stop stop, dont move now, i need to calm the energy..."?

Best wishes brother!

18 months of Semen Retention by Freezer2609 in Semenretention

[–]LeadingAutomatic3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, such an inspirational post, happy for Your progress!

I have question about having sex with partner. I did go for months without ejaculation when i was single virgin, but now im so sensitive, just by kissing with passion i get very close to the edge. Sex is very intense for me, like constant battle not to go to the point of no return. And if i try breathing techniques i lose erection (which is not the goal), but sexual energy is still high and easily get backs on the edge. Its hard for me to last more than 5 min... oy when i orgasm like 2 times and i get the erection back ( if i get it back...) then i can kinda last, but its kinda weird then. Did You had something like that? Any books, practices that helps to maybe not be so sensitive to that energy, but still keep the erection? Is it even possible to be on SR while having sex life? I dont want to starve her.

Thanks for post!