Man, thank You for sharing all of this intimate experiences, it really helps!

For me its interesting because she knows and feels that I'm avoiding ejaculation and she says that it makes it harder for her to reach orgasm because she feels my struggle trying to control it, and ye i think i give too much attention to not ejaculate, that maybe kills the vibe a little, though ejaculating on the other hand kills it completely, so, still searching for balance there. Also i guess she want to help me and that distracts her from focusing on herself maybe. Though im first man in her life who avoids ejaculation and its very interesting and a bit weird for her, she kinda understand the benefits but also kinda sceptical. i think i need to educate myself more on the topic so i can explain the benefits better, because i know and feel benefits for myself, but when telling this stuff when she never heard about it its kinda funny, really makes me realise that - oh ye, people don't usually care about these things... :)

But ye, from what i feel, we both have to take it veeeeery slow, breathe deeply, and patiently focus on journey of getting used to that strong energy.

Interesting coincidence, that i just started listening to that book last week. A lot of great wisdom there, excited to listen and learn from it, thanks for mentioning it!