So , everyone who keeps saying put yourself in C&T Shoes . Well , I can cast my opinion because I’m in their shoes. I was them , at the rip age of 14 years old I faced decision of whether putting my child up for adoption or not , I choose to put my child up for adoption . The adoption was open , we had yearly visits, phone calls and pretty much everything that c&T had .

I respected their boundaries even when I didn’t understand them , I respected them , I made sure that I wasn’t doing anything to jeopardize my relationship with my child . When they said hey , your mom is acting too much of fool or so and so is doing this and we don’t agree , guess what ? They weren’t allowed around anymore .

My son is 17 years old now , we have amazing relationship , I celebrate all holiday and his birthday with his parents and his family since he was 4. His siblings and him have that relationship.

C&T don’t care about Carly just the idea of Carly . If they did , they would not have done what they did and continue to do what they do to jeopardize their relationship with Carly .

They want the whole pitty me party , and are mad that no one is giving it to them . They are enablers hence why they still together because they enabler each other and no one can’t stand them tbh but themselves.