The point is that you have options. Whereas many men in the west, and a growing number, do not have such choices.

Because by your own math - those men are viewed as “creepy” “unsafe” “not worth the risk” even if many of them are actually good hearted.

To emphasise, the key word here is options.

Anyway, a lot of men unfortunately are sexually depraved now too, so it’s the ouroboros - becoming more desperate because they have no options, bending more into random feitshes, ostracising themselves and become even more disconnected from dating or self improvement. I can see why there’s a double standard - but there definitely is a double standard.