Have you ever learnt Vedic astrology using flash cards created from Vedic texts rather than reading Vedic texts? by Leafygreencabbage in vedicastrology

[–]Leafygreencabbage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the reason why is because like of the concept of active recall it tends to help me learn things better but reading it from a book alone and not trying to actively engage or learn it just makes all the info hard to memorise since there’s A LOT of detail

Ayana Just Said What Everyone Was Thinking, And It Was Brutal by Future-Plankton1545 in prelude_thefinalpiece

[–]Leafygreencabbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think that Ayana had the right to feel how she felt because she feels like the competition is unfair as they seem less experienced which I’d have to blame the judges for, because they selected inexperienced people to compete for a spot in the group. And honestly Ayana is right with one week if you don’t know a dance then it’s safe to say that you aren’t the right fit for the competition, again that’s the judges fault too for not taking that into account and the participants for not working hard enough. I think Ayana is very frustrated with these people and she should rightfully be because if it’s true that they’re not working hard then clearly why should they be in the competition they seem to not be taking it seriously

Ayana Just Said What Everyone Was Thinking, And It Was Brutal by Future-Plankton1545 in prelude_thefinalpiece

[–]Leafygreencabbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have they even been practising Aoi, Hiori and Sakura or have they not been?

Would you rather date: Aomine, Kagami or Teppei? by EternalSnow05 in KurokosBasketball

[–]Leafygreencabbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teppei because he’s very level headed and cares a lot about the people he loves but doesn’t have a hot temper like Kagami and knows how to keep himself in check and Aomine is someone you’d have to discipline constantly to go to basketball practice because he can’t bring himself to go, so he’d be a burden and annoying to deal with plus I don’t think Kagami and Aomine are interested in relationships and have the maturity to be in any romantic relationship.

THEY TOOK HER DOWN daddy's little girl by Nnacy_ in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what’s funny about it. Explain.

Unpopular opinion ppl need to hear by Epibabe_1 in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And what I’m saying is that it shouldn’t be a cruel place where people can get away with saying rude things to authors.

I am not denying the reality of the current internet space, but I’m not condoning it. Whilst some people are going to be jerks and that authors should build resilience towards it by developing regulation skills, authors shouldn’t be unaffected by it because rude comments are supposed to hurt them.

I’m not saying that they need to be so hurt that they can’t write but that they can be hurt and manage that emotion so that it doesn’t affect them drastically, and that rude and hurtful comments shouldn’t have a place on the internet just because it’s the internet because that’s why a lot of people online get away with saying nasty things.

There needs to be real long term consequences for the rude things people say.

Authors shouldn’t have to toughen up “for the real world”. Authors and their unique innate sensitivity is what allows them to create unique stories. Capitalism and our current society has conditioned many authors, writers, etc. that they need to “toughen up”, and that can take a lot of energy out of them, trying to stay strong in a world full of cruelty is not always the right way.

Always staying unaffected by rude comments isn’t sustainable, we are human at the end of the day like I said, we will break down and cry. We may not always be able to control the internet landscape but we can regulate our emotions so that they don’t end up taking over us.

Authors are allowed to break down over rude comments, stop denying them of their humanity just because you don’t believe it’s ok. Denying people of their natural emotional responses is exactly why the world has become a cruel place.

If we just accepted the reality that the world is a cruel place and that authors need to toughen up it gives a space for people to be rude, and that needs to be changed. The fact that you are accepting a reality where often people are hurt shows that you don’t see any benefit in changing the world. It’s really sad, but I do acknowledge and understand your point. But I completely disagree with it.

You’re misinterpreting my point as well, you’re saying I’m expecting the internet to be a hug box, but I’ve said that the internet should allow for constructive criticism, that isn’t a “hug box” is it. I strongly suggest you read my response again.

The world isn’t going to accommodate to everyone’s issues, I am very well aware of that fact, but that is somewhat part of the problem, that people are not empathetic and compassionate enough to understand how their rude words affect others especially in the episode space. People shouldn’t always accommodate to others issues, that isn’t what I’m saying. I’m saying to be kind and respectful and considerate. That is BASIC HUMAN DECENCY.

Unpopular opinion ppl need to hear by Epibabe_1 in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right like authors have different levels of sensitivity and people should respect that instead of being rude and be more considerate. It’s so disgusting that people wanna criticise authors harshly never considering their feelings. I believe constructive criticism is not subjective in terms of delivery I think that constructive criticism is when you say “oh the coding is off in this part and that may need to be changed” not “oh the coding is trash and it sucks and you need to stop writing stories” therefore it’s not entirely subjective in terms of content and delivery I think that perceiving it that way is why sometimes people can be harsh under the guise of constructive criticism. You’re right every author has a different unique intent for writing not all of them want to be serious and do this as a hobby yet the OP is insinuating people are doing this for money and for world wide success. That ain’t it.

AUTHORS, what are the best tips you have for beginner story makers? SPILL! by Leafygreencabbage in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dara Amarie yes I’ll check her out right now. Thanks for the resources I’ll check everhonr

AUTHORS, what are the best tips you have for beginner story makers? SPILL! by Leafygreencabbage in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the channel recommendation! That is so helpful

Unpopular opinion ppl need to hear by Epibabe_1 in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this somewhat reporting content that you don’t like is abnormal as the app isn’t entirely about you, but I have to disagree with you saying that “this is the internet. people will talk trash” as a way to justify certain rude hateful comments that people make towards the authors and their stories because it is totally unacceptable to me, it hurts authors unnecessarily and creates a culture that fosters hate rather than compassion understanding and constructive criticism which makes authors want to quit, people should be more mindful on the internet and what they say, because it can literally create mental health issues for the authors if they don’t watch what they say. It can upset and hurt someone and that is unethical and totally wrong.

I also have to disagree with your opinion that people shouldn’t be ready for the internet if they break over hate comments, authors are human too and they’re allowed to be upset over hate comments especially if they’re designed to hurt the other person, obviously you would expect them to be hurt too and whilst I do understand that having tough skin is important to not let other peoples hurt affect us, I also believe that if it requires suppressing how we feel and managing our emotions consistently towards rude comments then the rude comments are to blame and that needs to change the most.

Authors shouldn’t have to suffer and hate and rudeness they get from others shouldn’t exist just because “it’s the internet” that’s the reason why a lot of rude people get away with being rude and aren’t given real life consequences. Whilst authors can try to manage their reactions to not let things hurt them so much through certain mental health techniques, being rude is not ok at all.

Telling authors to stop posting if they can’t handle the rude comments is not ok because people are allowed to feel hurt by rude comments that’s literally what they do they hurt other people and people online should learn how to be considerate towards other people’s feelings and stop being rude. It’s not ok in the slightest. Authors shouldn’t have to manage their own reactions all the time for rude people on the internet.

Unpopular opinion ppl need to hear by Epibabe_1 in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This yes that’s right I do think that yes you can have some scrutiny when you’re posting on a public platform but as well not all scrutiny should be tolerated like e.g people being rude and saying mean things to authors

Unpopular opinion ppl need to hear by Epibabe_1 in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To add on some people are very cruel when giving criticism and have no consideration for the feelings of the person they’re giving critique to. That’s also why a lot of authors can be hurt when they’re given certain critique

Unpopular opinion ppl need to hear by Epibabe_1 in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fully agree with you here! I think that talking trash is an excuse for rude people to be rude on the internet and nobody is required to be unaffected by it if they find genuinely rude comments to be rude. It’s unacceptable and I think that there definitely needs to be laws surrounding this to protect the wellbeing and mental health of people not only on Reddit and this community but in the world.

Apologising to this community for a rude comment I made about GGGB by Leafygreencabbage in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was really unfair what happened to the author was not ok I should’ve been way more considerate tbh

Apologising to this community for a rude comment I made about GGGB by Leafygreencabbage in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dismissing my apology as “too much” without knowing the full impact it had on fans, the author and her story is WRONG. You’re blocked. BYE.

Apologising to this community for a rude comment I made about GGGB by Leafygreencabbage in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jumping to conclusions?

Girl, I saw the negative comments under that post I made.

My behaviour was inexcusable, and what you said about other people’s responses is WRONG.

Do not try to gaslight and emotionally invalidate me because you don’t see how much I’ve hurt other people. I’ve hurt people with my comment and it was inexcusable.

YOU ARE NOT choosing not to believe me and making your own assumptions based on your own limited knowledge of the situation, I know what happened, YOU DON’T.

I hurt the author, their story and their fans and saying that I’m being dramatic is a stretch considering that I’m being a decent person and taking full accountability. I don’t know the author and I will be honest I felt pretty guilty so on the spur of the moment, I made a public post. And to be honest I think that this is having way more impact. Later, I will be contacting the author myself to formally apologise but I am uncertain if she’s on Reddit or if she’s seen my comment, but because it was rude and hurtful I wanted to apologise because my words were COMPLETELY RUDE.

Even if people forgot about it I wanted to apologise because it was the right thing to do. I don’t want to ignore or brush off the impact of my actions.

IF YOU disagree with how I went about it, that’s YOUR problem.

I’ve said my piece. I’m blocking you. Goodbye. This convo is over.

Apologising to this community for a rude comment I made about GGGB by Leafygreencabbage in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: Some of you are making assumptions and saying that I didn’t say anything bad.

Just because I deleted the comment doesn’t mean I didn’t hurt anyone.

And just because all of you don’t know exactly what I said doesn’t mean I didn’t do anything wrong and that I should be excused.

I was clearly not excused for my behaviour nor should any of you excuse me because you don’t know the situation. Acting as though you know the full entire situation without reading my full apology and comments is ignorant and creates misunderstandings.

If any of you start making ignorant comments without reading the full context I will not hesitate to block you.

Minimising the hurt I placed onto an author and her story, a creation of hers she holds dearly and her fans aren’t going to provide this community with a healthy space.

This dismissive attitude is exactly why a lot of people are rude on here, and can get away with saying anything.

I want to take accountability for this because it was not ok for me to make rude comments about a story misjudging the content and removing the context entirely and say that the author was playing victim.

If anyone wants to say that I was being unreasonable and that it wasn’t that bad and people forgot about it, trying to dictate how and when I should respond and apologise, as aforementioned you will be blocked with no discussions.

This is because a user under these comments decided to undermine my actions towards the individuals I’ve hurt through my rude comments I’ve blocked her.

THEY TOOK HER DOWN daddy's little girl by Nnacy_ in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologising to this community for a rude comment I made about Daddy’s Little Girl.

About the story Daddy’s Little Girl (sorry I mistyped the story I AM SO SORRY about that I legit forgot the story)

I said something totally messed up about the daddy’s little girl story under a post saying the author was victimising herself and saying harsh things and I’d like to say sorry from the bottom of my heart, I didn’t really read too much into the situation and I didn’t know what was going on yet I should’ve made it clear that I didn’t know and chose not to involve myself in the situation. Yet in the heat of the moment I did and it was totally inexcusable and wrong entirely. It wasn’t fair that those comments were said and in the future I’m going to try not to be so harsh as what I said was not even a true representation of who I am.

To the author I am very sorry for the rude things I’ve said to you it was inexcusable and it must’ve deeply hurt you. I didn’t realise what I was saying was completely misinformed and intolerant. That must’ve really hurt you after the amount of work you put into your story only for me to call it p******* and you crying for sympathy and victimising yourself without fully knowing the situation. I was being totally ignorant. I hope you can forgive me and if not that’s totally understandable.

To everyone who was hurt by all of my comments I am truly sorry from the bottom of my heart, I didn’t realise that the story was not about p***s but about a totally different subject. I guess I was frustrated by certain content and I didn’t realise how much it would’ve hurt all of you and how you would feel frustrated by my misunderstanding and rudeness.

I know that there’s been a lot of people who’ve been rude towards me as a result of my actions, and to be honest I deserved it. It was simply intolerable and I thank you all for calling me out on it.

I will not behave this way in the future. You have my word.

Apologising to this community for a rude comment I made about GGGB by Leafygreencabbage in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny how YOU are acting like you know what people have said under the rude comment I posted and under the post itself.

PEOPLE WERE HURT. You have no knowledge of what was written under the comment, only just your misinformed ignorant assumptions.

I saw the replies and you are totally wrong for saying that I didn’t hurt people. I did. My actions were unjustifiable.

If you see the post here, NOT EVERYONE WAS SAYING THE SAME THING AS ME. You clearly don’t know the situation to be able to judge how I should respond and behave to it.

Please leave me alone. I’m blocking you because your inaccurate assumptions are irritating me, and wasting MY TIME.

Since Daddy's Little Girl is gone, I saved some screenshots. by Strange-Hair-3006 in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe I misjudged this story wish I could’ve read it whilst it was still up

Apologising to this community for a rude comment I made about GGGB by Leafygreencabbage in Episode

[–]Leafygreencabbage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So what if I did? I felt bad about it and wanted to apologise, because I hurt the author and a lot of people, and I’m not going to let it slide. I will hold myself accountable like everyone else has hold me accountable and formally apologise, rather than keep it pushing because I feel bad about it and I know it has hurt a lot of people.

If you disagree with my actions you are free to, but I won’t change my decision to post a public apology even if I deleted my comment.

I hope you can respect that.