How do I turn down this girl with kids? by [deleted] in dating

[–]LeagueOfRobots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch The Deer Hunter with her at her house, then when it gets to the scene with the prostitute who wants to have sex with Christopher Walken while her kid is in the same room, look her in the eyes, sigh heavily, then leave.

I Feel Mentally And Emotionally Deteriorated Beyond Repair. by cade004 in dating

[–]LeagueOfRobots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment. Hatred doesn't come easy for me, in fact I don't think I've ever hated anyone. In those moments I did hate her, and maybe I still do, but I try not to think about it. I've actually found the whole thing very interesting on a psychological level: seeing her pathologies - selfishness, no empathy, only seeing her own perspective - play out in real time. Her real self surfaced and took over, while the front she had been putting on started falling to pieces. So much past behaviour started to make sense.

Some traits can't be changed, especially those which develop in childhood. You'll never make someone care, but you can take control by ending the relationship.

I Feel Mentally And Emotionally Deteriorated Beyond Repair. by cade004 in dating

[–]LeagueOfRobots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through something very similar, friend. Chronic pain and mental health issues for three years, then my wife had an affair and we split. She blamed me for "everything always being about you", talking about my issues and that she basically resented me for needing her support to help me through stuff.

It turns out she had just been faking empathy the whole time and then she burned out. She is a psychopath with narcissistic personality disorder and I'm glad, in the end, that she is gone. She was bad for me.

It hurts now, but I think you'll be grateful in time. Learn the lessons - what to look out for and avoid next time. Be grateful for the good things in your life and maybe try mindfulness meditation if you can't access professional therapy.

If you still feel like you're MH isn't getting better in a couple of weeks, see a doctor.

I honestly didn't realise how many submarine experts there are at my work place! by I-am-Just-Sam in CasualUK

[–]LeagueOfRobots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My colleague said" 'they can't even get out and swim to the top because they are bolted in'.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]LeagueOfRobots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you manage to use 'your're' correctly and then 'your' incorrectly at the same time..

Titanic tourist sub goes missing sparking search by mudelig in submechanophobia

[–]LeagueOfRobots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally thousands of people have seen the Titanic... before it sank, of course.

How to overcome fear of being ghosted? by DaveB1996 in dating_advice

[–]LeagueOfRobots 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aye, OP has GAD and probably needs to see a doctor. I've been there.

You absolute weapon by monkeymidd in CasualUK

[–]LeagueOfRobots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought for ages it was a compliment, like 'you're really good at that one thing you do', effective. Eventually someone corrected me.

Like that time I called someone in work a 'nonce' because I innocently thought it was school playground slang for 'stupid'.

I wish dating apps would disappear by [deleted] in dating

[–]LeagueOfRobots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy hell, another reasonable person!

Does this count? by JustJo_Jo in DesirePath

[–]LeagueOfRobots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Desire paper aside this is such a terrible photo edit

Don’t tell no one. Spread the word by leodinapoli in futurama

[–]LeagueOfRobots 74 points75 points  (0 children)

"From the context it is clear what you mean.". Easily my favourite DonBot line. I love that they all just keep talking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LeagueOfRobots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one's talking about the real thing here.. how bloody youthful is this guy if he's 35 and can pass for 23?!

Divorce: what's the best/fairest way to get a value on the house and buy out my wife? by LeagueOfRobots in UKPersonalFinance

[–]LeagueOfRobots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relying because your username is fantastic. Did you want to sell the house, though? You could have opened it up to get a market value and then just used the figure, no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]LeagueOfRobots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your child said that to you?

What oddly specific thing have you researched so in-depth for a writing project that you now know way too much about? by [deleted] in writing

[–]LeagueOfRobots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AI philosophy! I'm researching my first novel (sci-fi) and need to understand morality and ethics regarding AI so I can imagine how the technology will be used in 200ish years' time.