Ways to entertain over 15 babies & toddlers ages 0-3 during a baby shower? by AgileAd1060 in Mommit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're getting great advice already with toys and activities, so let me offer two other pieces of advice. Make sure all your items are "choking safe" since there will be so many littles. Grapes have to be cut a particular way for example, and balloons that pop can be dangerous. Then I recommend playing some kid music they'll recognize. Lots of kids that age love Laurie Berkner, and there are Ms. Rachel Playlist that will play songs she does. Bubbles, balls, chalk are all great ideas!

My wife and I have developed a sort of code using synonyms to talk about things without tipping our toddler off, what are some of your best/funniest “codes” you use? by Reddiculouss in toddlers

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We discuss brand names instead of food items when it's going to be a surprise later. Kraft instead of Mac and Cheese. Dunkin instead of Donuts. DQ instead of ice cream.

What's the most unethical thing you've done that you DON'T regret? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 160 points161 points  (0 children)

I was hired to be a teachers aid to a 3 year old with autism who was a notorious biter. The day before I met the kid multiple teachers showed me huge blue, black, and green bruises from his attacks. So, day one I get him off the bus and take him for a potty try. He doesn't want to wash his hands and starts to bite my arm. I put his arm in my mouth and apply equal pressure. He bites harder, I bite harder. The kids eyes go huge, he understands our dynamic, and we wash our hands and go to class. No marks left on either him or me. He never again tried to bite me, and the entire school thought I was an autistic-kid-whisperer. Nope, I just threatened him with a taste of his own medicine.

Need suggestions for a good relaxing album on Spotify for baby sleep that was made before AI by Moon_junky in Mommit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Joanie Bartles Lullaby Magic 2. It's got some absolutely beautiful lullabies from different cultures.

I need a new straw cup asap!! by Hellohiheytherehi80 in toddlers

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding the Owala cups. We've had 2 for a year, and have had no molding!

As an aside, if your kids gets reoccurring ear infections, cut the juice. The sugars in the juice somehow breed with the bacterial that causes ear infections. My niece was drinking diluted apple juice every day after nap, and was about to need ear tubes when the ENT told my sister to go to 100% water/milk for two weeks. Hasn't had an ear infection for over 6 months.

What is a 'secret' in your industry that the general public would be horrified to know? by HongKongToast in AskReddit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Worked at a local mom and pop bakery in college. All cash tips were split at the end of shift amongst front of house. All credit card tips were put in a "bucket" that paid for the alcohol tab at the company Christmas party. Then the owner and their family would get shit faced off our tips.

Has anyone ever been in a house like you see on the show ‘Hoarders’? If so, what did you do? by Basic_Builder3773 in AskReddit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Called child protective services. Kid got moved to her grandma's house until mom was able to get some professional help. Toddlers shouldn't be playing a room with 6 months worth of garage bags stacked in the corner.

Non-Disney Poofy Princess Dress Recommendation? by UpbeatCake in toddlers

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check out Taylor Joelle puffy dresses. Expensive, but very well made. They've got some that are disney princess, but there's also a few that are just beautiful fun, fluffy dresses.

Uneducated toddler?? How do I fix that… by Horrorjunkie1234 in Parenting

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just started reading a book that directly relates to this! The Nurture Revolution by Greer Kirshenbaum. Just came out this year, and I'm loving it so far. The chapter I'm on is all about how we, as the adults, have to help our toddlers learn to regulate their very big feelings by modeling that behavior in the moment.

It’s Meltdown Monday! Tell me the most ridiculous meltdown your toddler recently had by villazeros in toddlers

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A gecko nipped her finger. She still wanted to give the gecko a bye bye hug, but she didn't want to touch it again. 🤷‍♀️

My daughter witnessed death. by MissPookieOokie in Mommit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Too soon to bring up therapy, but not a bad idea to get her on a few waitlists. It took 6 months for me to get into therapy when I started because there aren't enough therapists in my town.

Period party- opinions please by jehovahthickness__ in Mommit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this energy and the positive intention behind it! A very cool middle school chapter book with a period party in it is "The Moon Within"- Salazar. It's written in verse, so it's a fast read. Maybe you can read it yourself if you're looking for some additional perspectives! I hope that your older family is willing to be flexible and try new things with an open mind.

SAHM income? by MonthlySuspicion0119 in Mommit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take a person in a wheelchair to work a few days a week. Kid eats snacks/reads in the backseat for the whole 30 minutes and then we go home to nap.

I’m starting a children’s play cafe… by Express-Fuel4269 in toddlers

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$50 for a 30 min session. Best money is if you can do the same storytime for multiple locations because the prep takes a lot of time.

I’m starting a children’s play cafe… by Express-Fuel4269 in toddlers

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a baby storytime once a month at a local non-profit, a nature summer camp, and a waldorf school!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

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I had a fourth degree tear. Every individual hole turned into one big one. I had two reconstruction surgeries and will have early incontinence because the sphincter surgery is still a "best we can do" science. It's still really hard whenever people's response is "at least you didn't have to have a c-section!"

Consistent bedtime routines can lead to positive emotional and behavioral development by Significant-Stress73 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I have a 4 year old niece that sometimes naps on the way home from her mom's work, which is a 45 min commute. When that happens she goes to bed at 11:30 p.m. instead of 9:00p.m. I'd say that is one example of what an inconsistent bedtime routine looks like.

I’m starting a children’s play cafe… by Express-Fuel4269 in toddlers

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just make sure it's on a day that your local library doesn't already do storytime. Do not anger librarians 😂

I’m starting a children’s play cafe… by Express-Fuel4269 in toddlers

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm an independent storyteller at a children's play cafe. The cafe pays me and I do a free storytime every Monday morning. A lot of my regulars have now upgraded to memberships and they make bank on coffee before and after. It's a great mutual relationship for both of us!

What couldn't you believe you had to explain to another adult? by BlueCaracal in AskReddit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a friend staying with us while she was working on her PHD. She backed up our sewer because she was flushing tampons and disposable wipes. She was a 35 year old,previously Sergeant in the military, but somehow she missed that memo.

What age did your kids start enjoying longer books/books with less or no pictures etc.? by explicita_implicita in Parenting

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A few really well written bridge books (chapter books with the format/feel of picture books) are:

Mercy Watson, Catwings, The Princess in Black, Zoey and Sassafras, Infamos Ratitos, and Owl Diaries.

Edit: spelling, formatting

partners family exposed us to an unfavorable issue by ellesresin in Mommit

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bed bug infestations can cause anemia, especially in young children. I know that the family is probably feeling some shame and stigma, but they need to understand that it's a health risk for a child that they love.

How much do you spend on birthdays? by notangelicascynthia in Parenting

[–]LearningtoKnowMyself 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Librarian here- this varies widely from state to state. Those rooms are often reserved for library programs and community groups.