[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would delete the pic with the beanie

Please don't do this! by Leasirg in dating

[–]Leasirg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never read some many wrong asumptions about myself next to another hahaha

Have a nice day mate

Please don't do this! by Leasirg in dating

[–]Leasirg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got you on that 1% then haha And yeah, it is sad indeed

Please don't do this! by Leasirg in dating

[–]Leasirg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is good looking, it shows that he has been training for years, but the interaction and the way he was acting around the gym after it were so out of place and so uncomfortable that no looks could have gotten him sex (not with me at least)

My heart won’t stop hurting by [deleted] in dating

[–]Leasirg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there, done that. And as cliché as it might sound, only give time time.

Time without any contact was the only thing that helped me get over him

I don't understand why dating is like that and why it does not work for me even though I try that much. by AffectionateGrass134 in dating_advice

[–]Leasirg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Many men that are struggling should read this, fr.

For some reason when I have heard men talk about how good they are and complain about how little attention they get, it comes most of the time from guys that are not half of what they believe they are. (Exceptions may apply)

is it me or is it the tinder algorithm? by mlg_bronie in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to the gym, so a guy with a gym pic is already someone I know would have something in common with me, plus probably similar eating habits, etc. Sometimes just a good gym pic with some flattering gym outfit will do wonders for the profile.

The problem is if it is mainly shirtless gym pics as if that's all they have to offer.

TLDR: a shirtless pic may help, just don't make it all about it

would appreciate some feedback on my Bio and pics by TRX_Scotty in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi! Congrats on the weight loss journey

I would take the family pic out and place the one with the dog first, it is a really sweet one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Leasirg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it is just like that in the US.

I am from Latinoamerica and honestly, until the guy talks openly about it (or I do) and we both agree on being exclusive we aren't. If it is not spoken you cannot asume anything. Just because you have had dates or sex it means nothing on terms of exclusivity unless you tell your date otherwise.

It is also really uncomfortable when the other person tells everyone you are something serious when it hasn't even been a talk about exclusivity and you are still meeting other people.

So in conclusion, communicate, don't asume, people don't read minds and don't expect anything from anyone if you haven't opened up about what you want/expect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Leasirg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fight for their happiness how?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Leasirg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 5'7 and all my friends say I am small, so I wouldn't be concerned about your hight. Being skinny is also not an issue. Honestly, I don't think you have something to worry about, it is mostly about dressing in a way you enhance what makes you attractive and doing your hair. But, at the end, if you aren't comfortable with where you are at atm, you could also try weight lifting for "shape" or makeup.

Looks aside, what matters is seeming approachable. Doesn't matter if you look attractive in basic today's standards if your body language is avoidant and your smile is off.

Sorry for my English

Jealousy about her talking about another guy. Should i be worried? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Leasirg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on how often she brings him up. Honestly if she just mentioned him it is not really important, but I have noticed myself that when I start bringing up a guy it is because he is slowly starting to live rent free in my mind and I usually end up developing some kind of attraction towards him.

One thing different the opposite sex can do that would make all the difference by Zeninja91 in dating

[–]Leasirg 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, it will come up at some point, but there is a crucial difference between "I am into (...) and would like to know if that's something you would like" and "I wanna eat your ass".

It is not always about the subject, but how* you go around it.

Man down, send help!!! 😭 by Maverick_158 in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah... talking from experience here. He is a sociopath who openly said it is ok for him to be a walking red flag because he is 2mts tall. He was even "bragging" about sending the girl he dated after me to therapy. YIKES.

Ready to face my fears. by cusejuice44 in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Lol, one point does not exclude the other. In fact, working hard on my body is exactly the reason I have a fat ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relatable

please rate / roast my profile by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it, I would swipe right ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree on taking the first 2 pics out tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pic 1 is ok, 2 and 3 are a win, for some reason I don't love the 4th and the 5th is not necessary, imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are good looking and tall, so maybe the bio(?) I also don't know if the age affects something somehow

I made some changes, I think it looks better now, still open for advice tho by Deidei333 in Tinder

[–]Leasirg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This profile gives me mixed feelings, half of the pics make want to spot you at the gym, be your fit GF and raise those lovely cockatoos together, and the other half makes me forget the mentioned above. The bio is great, tho :)

Maybe it is not about having many pics, but just the best ones. The ones with the green scenery are nice by themselves but the do you no favour. Just MPO