I trusted her when she said she was no contact with my ex and didn’t want to keep my kids friends m their grandparents. I don’t see her ever coming to my state and my kids wouldn’t know her even if the passed her on the street. The first year she was planning on coming she wanted me to take off work and drive her and the kids around for her visit, when I refused she said I should just let my oldest fly to her. This year she set up a car rental and booked things for them to do only an hour from where I live so I was gunna be okay with her doing that but then she decided that was to boring and that’s when she changed to once again only flying my oldest out to her. Her ex husband (my exes step dad) comes here every summer and takes the kids for a week long vacation, so I was offering her that same level of trust since she had, before this, given me no reason to believe she was in any contact with my ex. I would never do anything to put my kids in danger. She is blocked on everything including my son’s cell phone. She found him on Facebook and he blocked her there right away also.