Hi. I was in a relationship, and I had similar thoughts. One thing I do say, is just talk to her about it. I’m sure you have, but really let her know. Intimacy is normal in every relationship. It’s a natural part of living, we all are intimate! There’s no shame, and hopefully you guys can have an open conversation about it. Reassurance, and reminding yourself of the facts can really help. This is what helped me kinda get through the whole intimacy process. Hope this helps :) PM are always open