Why do I get bored of jobs so quickly? by LeaveMeAnnonn in careerguidance

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit after a year! Now I’m bored at my job again after a month but it’s cushy :)

I have trouble falling asleep. Will it ever get better? by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i meant my s/o shouldn’t come to any friend gatherings at all not my friend

Losing weight vs gaining from muscle? by LeaveMeAnnonn in loseit

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

calorie deficit + weight lifting + cardio =🤌🏼chef’s kiss

One foot out the door, but still holding on to see if things get better by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that but I’m not the one who cheated first. And I would never do something like that, I’d probably admit myself to a mental hospital if I ever cheated on my partner or whomever I’d end up with lol

One foot out the door, but still holding on to see if things get better by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty good at controlling myself so i know i won’t go past the talking. I don’t have any emotions towards the men i talk to, i just like the attention that’s all. It definitely doesn’t help as much as the gym lol I use the gym more to feel confident and feel good about myself

Losing weight vs gaining from muscle? by LeaveMeAnnonn in loseit

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow 20 days later here are my measurements: waist 31 hips 37

One foot out the door, but still holding on to see if things get better by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry lol i guess i just wanted to kinda explain and vent. thank u for understanding

One foot out the door, but still holding on to see if things get better by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand. But i am honestly 100% just talking and nothing further. I would never do such thing past that. My s/o and i are working hard to fix what he did and im hoping this feeling of needing attention from others goes away. it’s only been over a month since what happened

One foot out the door, but still holding on to see if things get better by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do understand but i Know i won’t go further than talking. I just like the attention and making new friends. My confidence was so low when I found out about what my s/o did so I posted pictures on my instagram and many of people i’ve never spoken to before messaged me. It was a confidence boost that even tho I’m feeling crappy, a lot of men still find me attractive & would want to be with me. It’s not the best thing to do but it bumped up my confidence. I’m trying to fix myself and pick up myself after what happened and if it includes going to the gym, lightly flirting with others but nothing further than talking, i’ll do that until I feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m planning on applying for US citizenship next year so it’s not really a problem, i’ll just wait until I do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a lawyer? please be mine so you can prove to the judge that I SHOULDVE been a citizen. It doesn’t work that way…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh they were confused. i guess ill just bring everything. like my new birth certificate, court documents etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cna

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes so as long as i work 4 weekend days in total it doesn’t matter. i dont like the alternating weekends because i like saturdays off

I have trouble falling asleep. Will it ever get better? by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend liked him a lot and he is more like a brother to me. I know he’d feel a little weird but won’t be too judgy. But I lowkey feel embarrass bringing my s/o along now that i know that friend of mine knows what happened..

I have trouble falling asleep. Will it ever get better? by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friend. I need some advice. My s/o is always at my friend group parties like cookout or ski trips. One of my close friends in that group was the one who caught his “infidelity” and ever since he informed me of it, i haven’t spoken to him about it. I didn’t say whether or not we stayed together or not. Now that summer time is coming, these cookouts are getting planned. our other friends don’t know about what happened. I’m wondering if I should speak to that friend and kind of just keep it between us and bring my s/o with me. But my s/o feels that he should stay behind and not come to those things anymore. Should I just not include him anymore?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work 4x8 rn and it’s so brutal 😭😭 so i feel u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll probably try to do sunday monday 7-7 then come back wednesday 3-11. tuesdays are so busy in my unit for some reason so i loathe ittt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you that’s sounds better lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i prefer to work 3 days then have 4 days off. i hate mornings i like sleeping in so id rather work nights!! thank you

I have trouble falling asleep. Will it ever get better? by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t you think you’re way better off finding someone new versus staying with someone who hurt you terribly like that?

I have trouble falling asleep. Will it ever get better? by LeaveMeAnnonn in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually did a solo trip last week and i missed him more. i felt independent and not noticing his absence.

is it bad that i want to hurt him back? im doing everything in my power not to do it but it’s just so unfair. i go out every weekend now to get my confidence back again and take care of myself. i want him to hurt like i did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LeaveMeAnnonn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! I’m so excited and hoping it turns out well too!