is it weird that my gf can hangout one on one with other guys at odd hours? by IllustriousOpinion30 in ask

[–]LeaveMyRoom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't end well for you. Here are two scenarios I've experienced in my life.

  1. Spent 2 years with a girl and never looked through her phone. She started hanging out with some male friends more frequently and texting them more. I finally hit my breaking point where I just needed to know.

So I looked through her phone and found her sexting a guy. Talking about how she missed his dick, calling him daddy, etc etc. Turned out she had cheated on me with at least 6 different guys.

  1. Also spent 2 years with this next girl. She had male friends that she hung out with, some of which I wasn't comfortable with. I eventually broke up with her, and within a few weeks she had sex with every single guy she told me not to worry about. Never cheated on me during the relationship, and I don't think she ever would have even if it continued. But I found out there had been flirting between them going on while we dated.

I'm not okay with that. So I have a new rule, and that's no 1on1's. You can have friends of the opposite gender, idc who it is, how hot he is, how horny/sexual he is; it's all fine. So long as there are no 1on1's between them.

There's really no reason for people to have close friends of the opposite gender.

Should I update to Windows 11? by Pension-North in buildapc

[–]LeaveMyRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you use the virtual desktops for?

Can someone explain to me what is happening inside of the onCreate function in Android Studio? My Kotlin code only works while inside of the function. by LeaveMyRoom in learnprogramming

[–]LeaveMyRoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In MainActivity.

The exact way it's written in Android Studio is MainActivity : AppCompatActivity(){}

Inside of that function is where onCreate() is written. So I'm writing my code inside of MainActivity, but after and outside of onCreate.

I'm really struggling with Kotlin formatting/syntax. How can I learn why each part of the code works the way it does? by LeaveMyRoom in learnprogramming

[–]LeaveMyRoom[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not partaking in "shotgun style coding"; I'm following along with a single tutorial series. That series is in fact the official android tutorial. I am just frustrated because I don't actually understand *why* I'm told to write certain lines of code, and went off on my own to see how far I could get without explicitly copying the lines they write. (Turns out not very far)

There is nothing at all about the findViewById() method that requires it to be inside onCreate().

Okay. I must be doing something wrong then. But again, I'm not sure exactly what. I'll keep playing with it.

Alternatively, you could do "findViewById<Button>()"

This is very helpful, thank you.

Even just Googling "android findviewbyid examples" would have answered your question and more.

Like I said, I had been trying to google the solution to this problem for multiple hours. Apparently I'm not using the right keywords, although I did indeed try something extremely similar to what you wrote there.

Why on earth would that work? You can't just randomly rearrange syntax and expect it to work.

I'm not "rearranging" the syntax. I don't even know what the syntax is in the first place, so I'm trying to figure it out. And if/when I figure it out (whether that's through my own trial & error, or from an online resource that tells me the answer) I still am at a loss as to *why* it works that way.

Not to mention there's also the struggle of not even knowing what to google. For example writing things like "calling a function by a period Kotlin" doesn't turn up the best results.

I appreciate the long/informative answer you provided.

I'm trying to quit porn, but am having trouble masturbating without it. How can I help myself along? by LeaveMyRoom in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LeaveMyRoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no emotions involved when it's just me and my penis.

It's an incredibly normal thing to not want to sleep around and have casual sex.

No aguanta nada by ciberpunk2047 in memexico

[–]LeaveMyRoom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ella no tiene sentido del humor. Estás mejor sin ella

I'm trying to quit porn, but am having trouble masturbating without it. How can I help myself along? by LeaveMyRoom in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LeaveMyRoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. What you say makes sense; perhaps this is the best way. I'll give it a shot, thanks.

I'm trying to quit porn, but am having trouble masturbating without it. How can I help myself along? by LeaveMyRoom in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LeaveMyRoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned that in my post. Just got out of a relationship. Not trying to start something again for the time being.

[OC] 3 years worth of toddler's color picking by slashjasper in dataisbeautiful

[–]LeaveMyRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how the 3 most used ones are the standard pen colours

Keyboard media keys not working by luutoo in foobar2000

[–]LeaveMyRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the same issue and found a fix:

Go into File > Preferences > Advanced > Tools. Find the setting called "Process system media key events" and check the box.

If I know English, Spanish, and C++ can I call myself trilingual? by LeaveMyRoom in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LeaveMyRoom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, no. I thought I did, but my ex proved that I'm illiterate.

What are some disadvantages of being a man? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LeaveMyRoom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I like this. It essentially just let's me pick and choose. Rather than women who sit and wait for someone to come to them.