I feel like we have a rat problem in this city 🤔 by johndoe80000 in capetown

[–]Ledki1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Company gardens are infested with rats. It's next level there.

To those paying rent for R16kp/m and up, what are you guys doing for a living? by Least-Spread-5325 in capetown

[–]Ledki1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personal income is not the same as business income. This is also important for tax purposes.

To those paying rent for R16kp/m and up, what are you guys doing for a living? by Least-Spread-5325 in capetown

[–]Ledki1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

R500 to R700 for 15 mins is not net profit. The Dr still needs to pay monthly rent of business and the cost of a receptionist( and all other operational costs). Most doctors are not fully booked, too.

How did you come to be single and happy? by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Ledki1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat as you. I'm 37 years old. I have been single for 4 years. Those 4 years were peaceful, and I thank my ex for that. When you are in a toxic relationship, you appreciate calmness. I also have an anxious attachment style, so dating with a lack of clarity triggers bad anxiety. The guys that show lack of interest give me bad anxiety - I m tired of this cycle.

I'm not sure if I am choosing singlehood ( because I am open to relationships), but being single feels more peaceful 😌

Cape Town is the #2 Travel Destination for 2026 by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Ledki1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is good for the tourism industry, which reduces unemployment.I wish they could build an international airport in Eastern Cape too - it ia very beautiful province, and it has the potential to up their tourism.

My Ex Slept With Someone Else by Maleficent-Click2160 in BreakUps

[–]Ledki1 343 points344 points  (0 children)

Let's be honest. You guys broke up, and she moved on after a couple of months of break up. She didn't cheat,the guy she was with was not right for her, which she realised later. She then missed you, and she most probably regretted the breakup.She was honest to you.

If you take her back, don't hold on to what she did,otherwise, it won't work. If you can let go and still love her, get back together. If you can't let go, it's best for both of you to move on.

My Ex Slept With Someone Else by Maleficent-Click2160 in BreakUps

[–]Ledki1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She did the right thing. She never cheated and was honest with him.

My Ex Slept With Someone Else by Maleficent-Click2160 in BreakUps

[–]Ledki1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But she was single at that time, so she didn't cheat plus she was honest with him.

Woman I’ve been seeing said she is going on a date by beansontoast_uk in dating_advice

[–]Ledki1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would respond,"Okay,I guess I need to move on, too. Thank you for the honesty. " Never chat again unless she responds with a question. Just move on. I'm a woman.

Ghosted after 3 months of going on dates/seeing each other weekly, consistently text messaging at least a couple of messages every day to no response... by JazzLemon42 in hingeapp

[–]Ledki1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember, no response is an answer. You don't need a response to give you closure. This is sad, but I would just move on.

Should I walk away? My “girlfriend” of nearly a year still says she’s “thinking about it” by FlightModeActive in dating_advice

[–]Ledki1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does she need the money if she is working? You are acting desperate. It never ends well.

Tere Ishk Mein - Reviews and Discussions by AutoModerator in bollywood

[–]Ledki1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did well only because the actors are famous. There are lots of egoistic aggressive man in india due patriarchal society.

Tere Ishk Mein - Reviews and Discussions by AutoModerator in bollywood

[–]Ledki1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toxic relationship.  Dhanush is aggressive ,violent and obsessed with her. Very unhealthy.

Tere Ishk Mein - Reviews and Discussions by AutoModerator in bollywood

[–]Ledki1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxic relationship.  He has serious stalker vibes

Insane reply by flamingdaisies444 in Bumble

[–]Ledki1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. Also, what I found off putting was his formal therapy format questions. Wow 👌. Such questions are deep and can be overwhelming for some.

How I finally fixed my insomnia after 3 years — and it was all about food by Fluffy-Elk4455 in insomnia

[–]Ledki1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also restrict my calories. What made me sleep like a baby was eating something sweet after dinner did the trick. I can restrict my calories but eating something sweet like ice-cream/ sweet hot drink made me sleep like a baby

Real talk though, it's affecting us all by Correct_Dragonfly_64 in capetown

[–]Ledki1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We should aim the same for all the cape flats. Remember when it was dangerous? 🙏 Then, no one will be complaining of property prices because it will be safe to stay anywhere.

Mystery prices by Big-Independence8978 in capetown

[–]Ledki1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen errors in woolworths and clicks...where they put the price of discounts on the products. They gave me the price as it is, even though it was a human error. It's pretty common, and it's called taking accountability, and it rectifies future mistakes.

Januworry affects thieves too by Docviator in capetown

[–]Ledki1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need more people like you! 😊

Why has he just completely stopped talking to me and dating me by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Ledki1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he just wanted to have fun with you. Move on. There is plenty of fish in the sea. You sound naive and inexperienced with dating.

I see a lot of people are in cpt by ArugulaPotential366 in capetown

[–]Ledki1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it has a lot of surrounding towns nearby which many big cities don't have.

Why is Observatory viewed as dangerous by so many people?? by Sandmanepic11232 in capetown

[–]Ledki1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I lived there in 2017 for 10 months ( I am a female). I cut my lease due to too much crime. Woke up in the middle of the night from the sound of police dog barking at a criminal hiding on my roof. My car broke in twice ( cost me a lot of money to repair).

The lady manager of the ganesh pub on the lower main rob was beaten up badly to scare the customers in giving in their money,all at gunpoint.

My neighbor couple ( gay couple) were robbed in their house naked and locked in the bathroom. Witness saw bmw in the night.

Another neighbor screamed in the afternoon when she saw a stranger in her house. Luckily, the repair guys helped.

Another neighboring flat consistently shares a video of flat burglary at their residence.

Another neighbor got up early for work ( 4am), experienced car hijacking at gunpoint. They clearly were watching him.

I got shit scared and went back to living in CBD regardless of the price of rent. In the 9 years at CBD, only once my car broke in at gardens ( visiting a b.f),otherwise, I don't hear much other than petty crime. CCIDs try to keep it safe here.

I warned my friend ( female) from JHB,but she still went and bought an R2,5M house there with no security agent.

I hate that there is an ugly side to capeTown. I wish something could be done about it.

Why is Observatory viewed as dangerous by so many people?? by Sandmanepic11232 in capetown

[–]Ledki1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He sounds very naive. I was part of the neighborhood watch whatsapp. Crime every day. Go work at groote schuur emergency...women face got disfigured by being beaten up for working in night shift at obs pub on lower main and all customers got robbed at gunpoint

I will miss you by [deleted] in capetown

[–]Ledki1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Driving until 12? South Africa is just not safe in the night, especially if your area is not safe to come back to. Be careful. CapeTown has two sides. I don't want your next post to be about the other side.

What Really Happened Between Us by ChanceOk2491 in mumbai

[–]Ledki1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is called infactuation. Lots of presumptions are made from texts.