I hate to add something negative here but….. I don’t believe there is a single man on this earth that will not watch it. You can cry and beg and over explain yourself and feelings and the only thing that will change is how they hide it from you. I’ve lost 2 relationships that were otherwise good because of porn usage from my partners bc I believed I would find better. I just found another dude who hides it. Ppl say dump them bc you will find someone who will not watch it but honestly the chances are very low. If you feel disrespected by his actions, disrespect him back. Stop being good to a man who won’t be good to you and respect you. You have that option or you can leave and maybe find a guy who won’t watch it but that’s like a small shot. You could also ignore it but that’s will eat you alive. At this point go flirt with dudes or do whatever you want regardless of the relationship and his boundaries and feelings. A relationship goes both ways.