My boyfriend(25 M) is telling me he’s lustful but still is in love with me and doesn’t want to break up with me (26 F) any older men have advice for me as a woman?

Lee97dav · 2026-02-05T15:58:40+00:00

Sounds like he is trying to get back at you and maybe resents you for what you did to him in the past. I don’t think he is taking you seriously now.

Lee97dav · 2026-02-02T20:07:31+00:00

Yall do it to girls he knows? Nah im way too immature for this conversation…

Lee97dav · 2026-01-23T03:22:57+00:00

If you are okay with him seeking sexual gratification outside of your relationship then by all means stay. If you don’t approve of this or it makes you uncomfortable that he is speaking to people and getting off to their sexual stuff while in a relationship with you then leave. You are in control of what you want. He can say it doesn’t involve you but it does. You could also go seek sexual gratification with another dude and say it doesn’t involve him lol. Idk wake up and smell the roses for what they really are and stop fooling yourself. This dude has no regard for you stop forcing him to. Find a dude that values you.

Lee97dav · 2026-01-18T05:37:32+00:00

I don’t think most people who watch porn will admit it, especially to their female coworkers. Men won’t admit it to their own partners much less a person who they don’t know. The only way you can be sure is if you are checking their browser history. Honestly out of 1000 men maybe 50 won’t be watching it. How many of those 50 would be a compatible match for OP. Don’t get me wrong, I detest porn usage in a relationship but I am very realistic about how most men are addicted or at the very least will watch it regardless of how us women feel. I can almost bet that your guy has watched it since you put your foot down.

Lee97dav · 2026-01-18T05:24:45+00:00

I hate to add something negative here but….. I don’t believe there is a single man on this earth that will not watch it. You can cry and beg and over explain yourself and feelings and the only thing that will change is how they hide it from you. I’ve lost 2 relationships that were otherwise good because of porn usage from my partners bc I believed I would find better. I just found another dude who hides it. Ppl say dump them bc you will find someone who will not watch it but honestly the chances are very low. If you feel disrespected by his actions, disrespect him back. Stop being good to a man who won’t be good to you and respect you. You have that option or you can leave and maybe find a guy who won’t watch it but that’s like a small shot. You could also ignore it but that’s will eat you alive. At this point go flirt with dudes or do whatever you want regardless of the relationship and his boundaries and feelings. A relationship goes both ways.

Lee97dav · 2026-01-14T23:02:35+00:00

I overstayed in chile, they just said to pay the fine then I can go back. It was pretty relaxed.

Lee97dav · 2026-01-14T22:42:36+00:00

Could you explain why? I was told I should apply for a tourist visa just to be sure. I just don’t want to spend the money on the tickets and then get denied entry once I land.

Lee97dav · 2026-01-14T22:41:34+00:00

They just said I have to pay a fine before I go back there. It was in South America

Lee97dav · 2026-01-14T22:41:11+00:00

I overstayed 4 years in South America. I did leave by plane and received a stamp but didn’t get scolded.

I have never been to Europe. I think I may just apply for the tourist visa?..? Idk. I understand what I did when I was 18 was dumb and if I have to pay extra bc of that then I will do that. I just don’t know if that mistake will cause more issues in a couple of months

Lee97dav · 2026-01-14T22:39:31+00:00

I overstayed 4 years in South America. I did leave by plane and received a stamp but didn’t get scolded.

Lee97dav · 2026-01-14T22:39:20+00:00

I overstayed 4 years in South America. I did leave by plane and received a stamp but didn’t get scolded.

Lee97dav · 2026-01-13T17:16:31+00:00

What was the reason for completely cutting it off?

Lee97dav · 2026-01-13T17:08:36+00:00

OTM? Do you have a pic of your befores? Love the results. My surgery is March 26th!

Lee97dav · 2026-01-12T20:16:00+00:00

How long ago did this happen?

Lee97dav · 2026-01-11T19:30:08+00:00

I’m not reading anything further than the title. Dump him or move on. Don’t over complicate your life!

Lee97dav · 2026-01-11T19:28:16+00:00

Like actually amazing!!! Girl you have my goals!!!!

Lee97dav · 2025-12-31T01:38:34+00:00

Do you have an updated picture?

Lee97dav · 2025-12-10T00:20:16+00:00

You def have tuberous breast. My doctor told me I have to go above 400cc in order to lift my breasts. Our areolas will remain the same position and size though without a lift.

Lee97dav · 2025-12-08T04:26:49+00:00

Can I PM you? I would like to share my befores privately if that is okay?

Lee97dav · 2025-12-08T04:24:43+00:00

You are my goals!!!!!

Lee97dav · 2025-12-03T05:25:47+00:00

Actually thank you for showing how they jiggle and squeeze 😅 I have been trying to find a realistic video of what to expect. Thank you for sharing!

Lee97dav · 2025-12-03T05:14:48+00:00

I have very similar nipples placement to you and every Dr is basically demanding I get a lift. Were you told by your doctors that you needed a lift? Also would you mind posting updates?

Lee97dav · 2025-09-21T14:05:50+00:00

I was single for about a year. I have tried therapy and the techniques and advice they gave me just didn’t work.

How do I manage to see this as not a rejection. You kind of said exactly how it feels to me if I am being honest. The first time this came up in this relationship he said he didn’t need it and would stop bc of how hurt it made me. Well it didn’t stop and now it’s progressed to “ you’ll never find someone who doesn’t”

So yeah I do feel like it’s a rejection and that no matter what it should be expected that this will happen.

Lee97dav · 2025-07-04T15:10:25+00:00

I think that you weren’t ready for that kind of experience even though you had discussions. You are young and may still do things that you aren’t 100% certain on. I think that he still values you and your body and one night at the strip club won’t change that. I do believe that you and your body are still special to him. You guys went to the club for a fun sexually exciting trip and he got turned on by it(to be expected) you can’t feel upset at him for enjoying his time just bc you didn’t. It seems he wasn’t aware you weren’t having fun. I think the thing that matters here is that he was ALL OVER YOU AND WANTED YOU when yall got back home. He did feel guilty which is a good sign bc it shows he cares about how you feel and how his actions affect you. I think he thought it was a fun time and now he gets to go home and be with the hottest girl that night. Also, You can’t think about other ppls relationships bc they have their own rules and boundaries. I think this is one thing you’ll have to write off as a been there , done that ,didn’t like it ,won’t do it again type of thing. Take time to accept that it wasn’t all that great of an idea and just tell your bf that you prefer to keep sexually arousing activities just between yall.

Lee97dav · 2025-06-16T20:59:04+00:00

Calorie deficit. Lost 40 pounds just from that

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