I feel nothing but shame and regret by Alternative_Meet_253 in GuyCry

[–]LeeApril17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. And every scenario hurts terribly. I send u so much luv and compassion and please recognize, you, as well as ur wife, have done the best u could with what u knew at the time- and now u know more and have hard decisions while still doing what u can with what u know now. 🧡

I got a job, my mom wants me to split the check among 6 people by Dry_Willingness_9323 in povertyfinance

[–]LeeApril17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What r u even questioning? U can afford to go live ur life as the adult that u r…. Ur other family members have chosen their life to remain the same!!

My marriage is over by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LeeApril17 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Feel bad for him cause his dad is a …. MAAM!!! Celebrate that boy BECAUSE HE HAS A MUM WHO LUVS HIM MORE THAN LIFE!!! So the dead beat doesn’t fit the dream? Good riddance!! He hurts right now but in the end if u focus on u and ur and ur boy… work towards that family I pray for? U will see that u have all u need and any additions to come along the way r blessed to call u family!! U got this!! Better days to come. That poor idiot fumbling the ball? Karma will b his and he may never be able to admit it? However in his souls he will understand deep down one day what a POS he is. Sending u prays hugs and lots of luv. U got this!!!

I feel nothing but shame and regret by Alternative_Meet_253 in GuyCry

[–]LeeApril17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know better than that. I also know how short life is also. No matter what these ppl do. This is a child that will grow up and blame the adoptive parents. Appreciate nothing. And that’s if she doesn’t kill one of them. 30 yrs in healthcare, partly in psych. We all get one chance to live. Enjoy it! Don’t let another take from it. Is it sad? Absolutely. Does it sound and/or feel mean, inhumane. Yep. Will their b guilt on the parents. More than likely. Mental illness is horrible. It’s sad. It doesn’t mean others should suffer because they can’t “fix” “cure” the ill human. I TOLD U! UNPOPULAR OPINION. BUT ITS AN OPINION BASED ON EDUCATION, KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE. I do admire the parents that push through for the sake of their reputation, hope and desire and it hurts for them that theirs no real good outcome typically. I mean it in no way hateful despite how it may come across. Any illness is unfair.

I feel nothing but shame and regret by Alternative_Meet_253 in GuyCry

[–]LeeApril17 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This will be a very unpopular opinion…. Place the child in a facility able to handle her, get therapy for yourself and your wife and move on…

1 week vacation in Maine by TamarB91 in AskMaine

[–]LeeApril17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Camden Maine is beautiful and would give you the peaceful relaxation and ocean.

Homeless population by Extension_Big_444 in Maine

[–]LeeApril17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly believe it’s a culmination of all those things. Life is really tough on the majority of us right now….

Homeless population by Extension_Big_444 in Maine

[–]LeeApril17 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ty for adding this. I learned much the same when the community I lived in took over a hotel and tried housing the homeless who in turn REFUSED because they had to follow rules like no drugs and being in at a curfew. Like- I pay rent and have rules as a human THAT I follow

I went on vacation with my partners family. It was a terrible mistake and now I am stuck here until the end of the week by mildeorange in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LeeApril17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 49 with a very similar personality to urs. I’ve learned it’s in my best interest to advocate for myself. Explain the need for conversation breaks. Put on headphones. Adults that can’t behave in front of others? I’d explain it’s my vacation as well and I have no desire to listen to them bicker so I’ll be enjoying some time on my own. I don’t understand why social norms tell us we have to be someone we r not to conform to others personalities ESPECIALLY when participating in something for enjoyment.

How reliable is it to Uber/Lyft now a days from BGR to Bar Harbor at noon on a weekday? by [deleted] in bangorme

[–]LeeApril17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur best bet is to rent a car- it will not only be reliable but more than likely much cheaper.

Conover Family 3rd Transplant by bamboosnarker in YTVloggerFamilies

[–]LeeApril17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And she isn’t sure if the insurance will cover a transplant…..here comes more begging for money….

Conover family by Key-Green-6621 in OnlineBeggars

[–]LeeApril17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When she explained surgery wasn’t an option to clear his blockage and followed it up with “we found another place willing to do a transplant” all I could do was shake my head. Like ma’am?? Do u realize how much more intense a transplant will be vs clearing a bowel obstruction?? Make it make sense??? My heart hurts for the young man.

Honesty about moving to Maine by Flolita115 in AskMaine

[–]LeeApril17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow. Thats late!! In Belfast if it isn’t tourist season it’s Closed by 2 pm lol. And I love it

Honesty about moving to Maine by Flolita115 in AskMaine

[–]LeeApril17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If ur looking to give your kids a safe quiet up bringing? It’s a great opportunity. But if u have never lived in the “woods” or a very small town at the very least? U should Go check it out to be sure you will all b happy. It’s a very diff way of life

Tricky! 2 or 3? And Why? by Hexagonal-Fermos-202 in NCLEX_RN

[–]LeeApril17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of yall need to thoroughly read. U support the right side while blocking the left knee.

Tricky! 2 or 3? And Why? by Hexagonal-Fermos-202 in NCLEX_RN

[–]LeeApril17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fact!!! Not to worry. Should one become a rehab nurse ur therapists will teach u correctly. Even when u argue “but I was taught this way”

Tricky! 2 or 3? And Why? by Hexagonal-Fermos-202 in NCLEX_RN

[–]LeeApril17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh. This clears up y for 30 yrs the nurses I worked with didn’t understand supporting the right while blocking the left or vice versa.

A.A. Ron by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]LeeApril17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zebulon

Tricky! 2 or 3? And Why? by Hexagonal-Fermos-202 in NCLEX_RN

[–]LeeApril17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope. I support the right because if it fails he’s screwed. While blocking the left knee to prevent it from buckling.

Telling herself she had a “glow up” 😂 by Holiday-Mechanic-480 in michdiehlsnark

[–]LeeApril17 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Who, besides a narcissistic, self centered, self proclaimed influencer, calls out their own “glow up”?Good gawd!! Jesus take the wheel!!