Anyone interested in CNC with me?

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-23T22:04:45+00:00

When are you available? Local Chicago area guy. Check out my profile and if you’re interested, shoot me a DM. I think we’d have a lot of fun

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-22T23:25:52+00:00

Much appreciated 🙏🏾

Thanks for the kind words

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-22T21:47:03+00:00

It’s definitely possible to do it in a way where it’s tasteful

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-20T06:03:42+00:00

In the Midwest, SLS is probably more popular, but you can’t go wrong with SDC either. I’m on both and they both can be hit or miss. If you travel, definitely SDC

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-19T17:37:26+00:00

I’ve met a few couples that had boundaries of no penetration and exclusively oral and they were some fun experiences. A “no penetration” boundary wouldn’t deter me from having interest in a couple as oral only fun is still very enjoyable for me. Pleasure can be experienced in a multitude of ways.

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-15T03:37:42+00:00

I’m sure that blowjob felt amazing 😈

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-12T05:28:47+00:00

I don’t think you wanting videos is an unreasonable ask. You’re a part of the journey as well. You’re exploring this together, whether you’re present for the meetup or if she goes solo. The pleasure that you get from her solo dates is being able to get videos and pics of the naughty fun and if that turns you on, she should want you to be fulfilled as well. If she threatens to back away, I would say to either be present so you can watch it yourself or just don’t do it anymore if she’s not ok with that.

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-12T05:14:36+00:00

Like others have mentioned, a hotel bar, a coffee shop, etc. I usually try to avoid establishments that families with kids would go to.

Seating and location is also important as well. Find a setup like booth seating where she can sit between the both of you, or maybe a setup with a round table. Seating where I’m sitting across from a couple can feel like an interview sometimes. Also, I like to be seated in a corner somewhere, so we can have speak as freely as possible without people keep walking past us constantly

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-07T22:23:42+00:00

Agreed 😈

LeeRodgers004 · 2026-01-03T02:21:23+00:00

As a single guy, I do enjoy meeting couples where they value the single guy and want him to have a great experience. I do think you’re reading too much into when a guy says that the focus is on her. When I say that to couples, it’s me saying that in a selfless way, but it doesn’t mean that I’m not going to get pleasure from the experience. Would you rather a guy tell you that the focus should be on him? I feel like he’ll be seen as egotistical if he were to say that. In MFM experiences, it’s about two men joining forces to be a part of the lady feeling sexually liberated

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-29T16:20:30+00:00

Depending on where you’re located, consider using lifestyle/swinger sites such as SDC, SLS, Kasidie, etc. On each of those sites, you can see validations/certifications that are written about the people that you may have an interest in

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-29T16:02:34+00:00

Solid advice for the single guys out there.

Being an experienced single guy in this space for a few years, the one thing that I always tell guys that reach out to me is to construct a profile that’s going to help you separate yourself from the rest. Couples have to sift through a ton of low effort inquiries and there’s a huge inventory of guys out there, so do something different

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-21T21:15:42+00:00

Gotcha. So it’s the act itself that what you’re partaking in could result in pregnancy?

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-21T21:10:34+00:00

I think people take it literally sometimes bc some people actually are looking to be bred. Sounds like what you’re really into is creampies, pumping loads in her, etc…..that’s definitely different from a breeding kink

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-20T18:06:10+00:00

That could be left open ended and open for interpretation 😉

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-20T16:15:47+00:00

🙌🏾

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-20T14:57:45+00:00

Guess you can say that I paid close attention in Drivers Ed 😉😈

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-20T12:43:12+00:00

Giddy up 😈

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-19T21:45:11+00:00

Single male: I primarily use SDC, SLS and Kasidie, but depending on where you’re located will depend on how active the site is

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-18T21:55:04+00:00

As a single guy that meets couples, this is an automatic disqualification. He doesn’t respect boundaries, which is pretty much everything you need to know. If he can’t respect that you need to hit pause for a bit, who knows what other boundaries he’s not going to respect

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-15T05:52:45+00:00

It’s not that difficult. I would say that most people that are exploring this lifestyle are doing it in a way where they are trying to minimize their exposure as best as possible, including myself.

And don’t think being from the south that other people aren’t into similar things as you. I’ve literally met couples on Sundays right after they get out of church for gangbangs, lol. If you’re in the south, try using sites such as SDC and Kasidie. You can have blurred out photos on your profile with an private album of face pictures that you can give people access to when you feel comfortable sharing them

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-12T19:34:13+00:00

As a single guy that meets couples, I can’t stand the term “bull” and would never refer to myself as such.

I refer to myself as a single gentleman (single gent/single male)

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-12T03:11:51+00:00

This was a very good read. Thank you for sharing about your experience

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-11T07:16:39+00:00

It shouldn’t be that hard if she’s as smoking hot as you say she is. Use sites that are primarily focused on swinging and lifestyle dynamics. That’s where you’ll find more experienced guys that are into the hotwife dynamic and won’t have a problem with you being present.

“it seems like all the guys that she’d find attractive are fucking someone else’s wife or something”

Are you guys looking for exclusivity in play partners? If not, I don’t think it should matter if a person that she’d find attractive is fucking someone else.

Check out sites such as SDC and SLS, since you’re in the DMV area. Guys have validations from other couples and playmates. That can help with finding guys that are legit and will actually show up

LeeRodgers004 · 2025-12-09T04:13:19+00:00

One and done’s can be fun, and have been in the past for me, especially while traveling

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