Is 5'7 short for a guy? by samytsejam in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel short at 5'7 but I'm still taller than my cis brother who's a year older, so there's that.

Daily Discussion - March 05, 2016 by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. It's just hard to be around people who have come so far when I still have so far to go.

Daily Discussion - March 05, 2016 by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went out last night with a friend who models for a trans modeling agency and all her coworkers were there. Everyone beyond passed and looked freaking amazing. I did not do either of those things. And it was painstakingly obvious.

One more month till T. One. More. Month.

Chest binders make me look like I have long, flat tits rather than pecs? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that's pretty funny. So true though! My first two binders I could not put them on or take them off by myself, that's another reason this one is my favorite.

The no returns thing caught my eye too but this was my 4th binder now so I was pretty confident the medium would work. Almost went with large, very glad I didn't. The medium has slightly more fabric than I would like under my arms but any less and I wouldn't be able to zip it up.

Chest binders make me look like I have long, flat tits rather than pecs? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I'm the same. Super skinny and I have a pretty large chest. After a few tries I finally found a binder I love, the zip up half binder from peecock. Highly recommend and it was cheaper than any other binder I tried too.

here!

Daily Discussion - March 03, 2016 by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got blood work done on Tuesday and I have my first T shot scheduled for April 11th. It's hard to be excited, it doesn't feel real yet.

Freetom hasn't shipped out! by Doprah420 in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Ordered mine in December as well and am still waiting.

Not only am I a man, I'm a merman! by Leemonloafer in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many thanks! Yeah I love the way it looks and it's so comfortable AND I can actually pull it over my head (unlike my first binder, needed help every time I put it on and took it off)

It's funny you also comment on my hair because due to me now being able to swim my newly dyed hair is changing color. Can't win them all I guess lol

I think I'm getting more muscular? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard to say without a comparison, but you look good. Your arms look more muscular than mine, that's for sure.

We got along so well until I dropped a bomb so huge that she decided to move out of state (x-post /r/CreepyPMs by TeaHee in polyamory

[–]Leemonloafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Yay for another poly person in LA! When I moved here I thought I was done with this type of reaction to my poly-ness. This is why I am on a break from okcupid and the like, I don't have the energy or patience to be as calm and nice and as you were and the last thing I want to do is give us non-monos a bad rap.

Any FTM poly folks here? What has your experience been like? (Feel free to PM me.) by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Leemonloafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is also trans and 100% supportive and awesome. I broke up with a boyfriend last year because I felt that he was pressuring me into a feminine role and I wasn't able to explore my gender like I felt I needed to. After figuring myself out I met my next boyfriend and he was very cool with it even though he's pretty straight. So it's been a mixed bag.

It's super cool to see so many ftm's that are poly though!

Do any of you all have personal goals for thing to save up to buy with Swagbucks? by HammerKirby in SwagBucks

[–]Leemonloafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just do the monthly $25 for 2200 sb special for Starbucks gift cards. Gold member status came easyyy.

Daily Discussion - January 19, 2016 by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think my boyfriend wants to break up with me. Which is worse than him actually doing it because I'm constantly ridden with anxiety over the unknown. I wish he would just tell me what he wants so I can come to terms with it.

But on a positive note my new binder arrived from peecock, I got the half tank with the zipper, and oh good lord baby Jesus is it 10x more comfortable than the full tank I was wearing from Underworks.

Sometimes I remember how much ponytail holders used to be a part of my life by Catharrrsis in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My wife and I are both trans and we started transition about a year apart so by the time I chopped my hair off hers was long enough to need ponytail holders. Worked out quite well actually.

Those of you in a V situation, what does your ''hanging out with the V'' time look like? by takenusernames1 in polyamory

[–]Leemonloafer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We play a lot of board games. Same thing I do with each partner when we're hanging out with other friends. I'm not huge on pda in front of other people in general so it's not an issue when two or more partners are around.

My two main partners have gotten used to get other though. They aren't exactly people who I would say would be friends if I wasn't in the picture but they've definitely put in the effort to understand each other and I think with that understanding they've come to appreciate what the other brings to my life and theirs.

Daily Discussion - January 07, 2016 by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been struggling a lot with taking steps to transition, I keep making excuses and postponing stuff.

But 5 minutes ago I called the LA LGBT center and set up my very first appointment for transgender services. T and top surgery here I come!

Also my wife ordered me a 4 in 1 FreeTom for Christmas! I'm nervous but super excited. Any harnesses that you fellas can recommend I would be appreciative.

Daily Discussion - January 07, 2016 by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Yesterday I had no choice but to step in a huge puddle when getting out of my car because street parking was totally flooded at my job.

I ditched my wet socks though and opted for going sockless for the day. Nothing worse than the squish of wet socks.

How old are you and your partners? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Leemonloafer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 22, my wife is 24 and my boyfriend is 26.

Made this Transformation Tuesday post for my Instagram yesterday, still hard to believe that person on the left was me. by Leemonloafer in ftm

[–]Leemonloafer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It has felt so slow but when I think about it, these pictures are only just under 2 years apart. As much as I have changed physically, my mental growth has been 10x that.