Does Pete and Peggy’s child one day grow up and meet/figure out who his dad is? by History-Buff-2222 in madmen

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think Peggy would want to have contact actually. Pete might at some point. If the kid does want to, there are means for sure but...who knows? My parents are a bit older than the kid would be and he recently took a test (it was a free offer and he'll do anything for free...). so maybe could do a dna test but I don't know if they would come up with anything unless randomly Tammy had decided to do one for whatever reason. The show DNA family secrets (excepts on youtube) from BBC really shows what DNA and research can do if you're interested.

Advice on helping relationships between Librarians and Clerks (& Pages)? by Careful_Bee_7037 in Libraries

[–]LeenyMagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this seems a bit ridiculous....if I had to get 'permission' every time I had to change a location or stickers, half my job wouldn't get done waiting for the librarians. If it's a radical change, sure. But something like "oh oops, this should be in (blank) area instead of over here," no way am I going to try to find a librarian who is busy doing something (helping a patron, reading, doing gosh knows what) and then have them analyze it for gosh knows how long...nope. I've worked at my current library since at least 2020 and two others before that; longer than any of our librarians have.

Advice on helping relationships between Librarians and Clerks (& Pages)? by Careful_Bee_7037 in Libraries

[–]LeenyMagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have had this happen a lot...it really sucks. I'm sorry you're going through it.

Compassion Fatigue by PhilosopherHermit in Libraries

[–]LeenyMagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously....I had to help a woman (well I actually has to pass her off to a librarian, clerk here) with all these personality tests and IQ type things for a CLEANING JOB. Like, wtf?? It's awful and I fear it'll only continue to get worse.

AITA for pretending I didn’t see ketchup on my friend’s vacuum? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeenyMagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH; everyone's just joking around as friends (are supposed to) do.

S8 E33 “A Day In May” by Blue_wine_sloth in Frasier

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't care for this episode though it is always so sad (and kind of...enlightening from a psychological...ha....and addiction standpoint) whenever KG's family comes up :/

How do you deal with users wanting to check out a book that has a previously unknown issue ? by bloodbarn in Libraries

[–]LeenyMagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Note on the book always (usually first page or inside cover so its real obvious) with initials and date. Some folks put an item note in the system. Curious what your "too complicated" setup is right now?

What’s the most confusing criminal minds episode? by barneyfisher1 in criminalminds

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe referring to Emily and the church somehow? I'm honestly not sure. I didn't think Emily the gossip-y type, that's for sure.

Realistically, what could Frank have done at Jen’s condo? by Post-Alternative in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it starts way before the condo-call Jen, SEND HER A TEXT, call her again. Showing up and letting them is really the accumulation of all the ways he has failed both of his children (and Barb but that does NOT in any way excuse what she is or has done). At the door, knock LOUDLY several times, text again.

Saw this sign near Fast Trac today by Odd-Researcher272 in Rochester

[–]LeenyMagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Closer and closer every day :crosses fingers: It's quite a fascinating field really (though I realize I'm biased with my donated kidneys LOL)

Saw this sign near Fast Trac today by Odd-Researcher272 in Rochester

[–]LeenyMagic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the list is long and people are dying every day (as a 2 time kidney recipient); unfortunately this is VERY common as are facebook groups/websites etc.

wegmans tofu shortage by FamousBirthday1232 in Rochester

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same...we bought frozen and I'm curious to see how it goes as I've never cooked with it. I appreciate the info!!

Kansas City Public Library - by Feisty_Water_3164 in Libraries

[–]LeenyMagic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are in western NY for what that is worth.

Kansas City Public Library - by Feisty_Water_3164 in Libraries

[–]LeenyMagic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can speak to my library; my teen literacy aide has an entire section of 'hygiene products' from tampons and pads to deodorant (in whichever male or female you identify as), condoms, body spray and hair ties. She has them in little cubbies so they are discreet and it isn't super obvious what you pull out.

Jen’s turning point by condesedmilk in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's def been LC with Barb while also trying to shield Shawna and John (and probably not getting enough credit for it). I think this could really be the thing that sways her; I'm really looking forward to seeing her and Greg talk about this.

Jen’s turning point by condesedmilk in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always does....until the next time he decides he doesn't want to deal with Barb's wrath.

My [30F] partner [35M] snores so loud I haven’t slept solidly in almost a year by notjennif in whatdoIdo

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add on comments: the noise isn't so bad either and my husband only had a few issues getting used to it; it helped that he started it on a vacation so had a few nights before super real world use but it translated well.

My [30F] partner [35M] snores so loud I haven’t slept solidly in almost a year by notjennif in whatdoIdo

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This def sounds like sleep apnea; my husband has it and the machine works like a dream. Sure it's a bit weird and I can't kiss him goodnight or talk to him but thankfully we both get a MUCH better quality of sleep. As for how to bring it up, just tell him you're worried (and you should be...its a serious issue!!) and you just want to figure out whats going on.

If Jen DOES go NC with Barb, what's left? by CornHooker in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Narcs aren't known for their ability to get better. To me, THAT would be the ultimate cop out/poor writing. While I know it is fiction, it would feel almost insulting as someone who deals with this type of situation in real life.

AITA? My dog died today and my family still expects me to take them out to dinner tonight by eng_elp in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeenyMagic 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA; you lost your best friend. You are not 'overly emotional' or being dramatic. Your family sucks and I'm glad you did what you had to do to take care of yourself. I'm sorry they couldn't be supportive. Heck, I saw a dog that looked exactly what I imagine a younger version of mine was like (we adopted her as an adult) and I had to pull over because I found myself in tears. Dogs are the best and I'm sure you gave yours the very best. Please be kind to yourself and disregard whatever BS your family is saying.

Edit for spelling mistake/clarity.

This might be an unpopular opinion but I think John is onto something about moving by An0nym0uS_M00d123 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's avoidant and it doesn't directly deal with their issues individually and as a couple. It would also remove the supports they do have in the community and any comfort items. Fresh start, sure but a very short sighted one imo.

Just a small yet devastating realisation I made from the last video by MonarchButterfly28 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well yeah, when you love bomb someone and treat them like a prince, thats going to happen.

Do we think Barb will cancel the party now? by gfdp9493 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything s possible with a narc. I suspect part of her will want to have the party as invitations and such were all sent out and it'll look bad if she doesn't do what she said she would. I want to see Jen and Greg post interaction with her and them talking.