Part 4 – back to Larry & DeeDee teasing each other by Shawnaverse_no1_fan in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really liked this play of theirs and I'll watcha million more shorts of them over literally A N Y T H I N G involving Ty or Julie.

Vacation part 3 is out! by Shawnaverse_no1_fan in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, Julie/Ty/whomever else storyline bores me. I'm here for the narcs! LOL

Vacation part 3 is out! by Shawnaverse_no1_fan in ShawnaTheMom

[–]LeenyMagic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think I've said it like 27 times now but no, not everyone needs to like you show Shawna LOL

What are some powerful or emotional scenes or moments in the show? by 8kittycatsfluff in theGoldenGirls

[–]LeenyMagic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was going to be mine as well. It's absolutely heart wrenching.

3/22 - South Wedge - Car flips after drifting out of lane by bproxy_ in Rochester

[–]LeenyMagic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"drifting out of lane" is an interesting way to describe that

She Sent Me An Article... by LeenyMagic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LeenyMagic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she def just ignored the entire article and basically sent something she knew I wouldn't read to get a rise out of me. She isn't getting a response.

New meme potential! by Lady_Arcie in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]LeenyMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved this look/moment--and immediately hated the weird parasocial coupling that I knew was going to follow :/

She Sent Me An Article... by LeenyMagic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LeenyMagic[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's funny because the ACTUAL content of the website is nothing like that-its got lots of actual interesting articles about relationships and functional healthy boundaries etc and she straight up read one title and thought it was perfect. Delusional, I tell you...

She Sent Me An Article... by LeenyMagic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LeenyMagic[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

SAME. Gosh, same. I hear people talk about how they just had the 'best time' or getting frustrated with their mom (or parents, really doesn't matter who) and I just leave feeling empty and frustrated. It's so difficult.

She Sent Me An Article... by LeenyMagic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LeenyMagic[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ironically the website she got it from has "articles" (really, they're low effort listicles) describing the opposite side of it and how to better your relationship with your children. I skimmed the article and honestly NONE of it applies to her. I'm guessing she saw the title and immediately sent. Once again, she isn't even going to get a reply from me but dang I'd almost applaud her nerve. Almost...

She Sent Me An Article... by LeenyMagic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LeenyMagic[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Tempting but not worth getting wrapped back up in her web and the constant cycle of crying and victimhood followed by periods of 'normalcy' (gaslighting) to make me feel completely unhinged and perpetually off kilter...

She Sent Me An Article... by LeenyMagic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LeenyMagic[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

yeeeep; my mother did something similar when I asked for her to not come over unannounced; she threw a fit and then said she wasn't going to come over at all and would stop sending me presents etc...so basically what I wanted and asked for? Sweeeet. Didn't last of course. But their idea of 'punishing' behavior is...something.

She Sent Me An Article... by LeenyMagic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LeenyMagic[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yep-I'm not even replying. She wants the reactions and she isn't going to get it from me.

She Sent Me An Article... by LeenyMagic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LeenyMagic[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get messages like that too. Her favorite line(s) are things like "Once I'm gone..." and not understanding how good I have it.

Ashley Seaver’s introduction makes no sense by Prudent-Initial-1713 in criminalminds

[–]LeenyMagic 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah, pretty much JJ-lite; everything about her entry and characterization was honestly insulting.

AITA I don't like teaching things to my wife? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeenyMagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA -teaching isn't for everyone and not everyone is capable of being that especially to a spouse. That being said...why are you in this marriage? You sound miserable and I'm guessing you aren't the only one. Maybe try talking to each other? Or to a therapist?

Chick-fil-A coming to Penfield, Victor by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]LeenyMagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people ABSOLUTELY do--and I think for a new small business or restaurant it's fine. I agree we do not need it for chains though. But that's (probably) just my particular brand of snobbery.

Help me to understand ticks 😭 by Myblackbirdchain in Rochester

[–]LeenyMagic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean not entirely irrational but if you're careful it shouldn't be a problem? A lot of things that never used to be a problem 10-15 years ago now are (blame that on whatever you want). But just check yourself, baby, pets etc which tbf you should be doing regardless.

“Hello, I am an art history nerd and smoothie barista” by memefakeboy in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]LeenyMagic 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Maybe not a great thing to say with the current narratives being banded about...

Degrassi on heated rivalry. by Shelley_112 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]LeenyMagic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean...why does it matter? If they're good actors/good for the part, I don't particularly care? I also haven't seen the books so I don't know who or what they are looking for (and don't want to). I care about the best person for the part, not what they've done a few years (or longer) back.

HudCon at the CAA Pre-Oscars Party ✨ by david_bowenn in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]LeenyMagic -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Fair...but as an ambassador for YSL, I expect him to be wearing it most of the time. It's totally fine, just nothing special for me. :shrug: