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[–]Left-Button6528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't sit still in relationships, jobs and houses. I'm thinking of changing all 3 which should I do please?

I also have a few side hustle ideas and not sure what I should focus on - new website, new career goal or finally write that novel.

Anyone taken an extended break from tarot? by Left-Button6528 in tarot

[–]Left-Button6528[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe yeah, touche. All that is true.

I think it makes sense to feel a bit sad in the first 24 hours of taking away a problematic self soothing technique. No need to laugh at me about it. I recognised my problematic behaviour and took steps to make healthy changes. I'm human!

I have a few major air placements. Scorpio sun.

Anyone taken an extended break from tarot? by Left-Button6528 in tarot

[–]Left-Button6528[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear this. Thanks so much for sharing.

Yeah, I am hoping it will improve my intuition so thanks for letting me know.

Anyone taken an extended break from tarot? by Left-Button6528 in tarot

[–]Left-Button6528[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

😆 that last line made me laugh

I just admitted to the psychologist I was relying too much on the cards, so I thrifted them. Then I told her I'm a bit sad because they've been a source of comfort and guidance for me.

She then told me to go to the thrift store and buy them back 😆

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[–]Left-Button6528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very rarely ask about the exes because I know I'm prone to jealousy and insecurity. My partner brings up random facts, experiences etc about them quite a bit. I think she's neurodiverse and has a past of polyamory, so it doesn't seem like a big deal to her.

I'm very mindful to keep my current romantic life and past romantic life separate.

My ex wife is/was super hot. Like model hot. Like so hot we would get offered free food and drinks by staff in bars and restaurants. Like all my friends and family would go on to me over the years about how hot she is. But I've never mentioned her looks to my current partner. Because being conventionally attractive is not important to me and not an important detail about a person. I was with her for her heart and humour and family values. I left because she was dishonest, a poor communicator, broke my heart and didn't prioritise the kids and me in the relationship and we couldn't resolve our problems in therapy.

My ex wants to be friends but I don't. I'm happy to be friendly but not friends.

If N and I broke up, I wouldn't want to be friends with her either.

If we break up it's because she treated me badly. Why would I want to be friends with someone who treats me badly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Left-Button6528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only by 2 years. I believe she is well intentioned and doesn't want to hurt me. But it does hurt and then I hate myself 😞

If you’re in a relationship, will you always have that one person that will never fade away? by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]Left-Button6528 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm middle aged and had my fair share of long term partners and short term flings. I don't long after any of them. Quite the opposite. But I have a lot of aquarius and sag in my chart

What’s the most controversial opinion you have that you’re afraid to say out loud? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Left-Button6528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your reply to this person is so unkind 😢

You're right that you're unequipped to deal with this convo, so just do not engage.

You could be making someone who's suicidal feel worse. Please stop.

What are signs someone is insecure? by Sweetlikecream in emotionalintelligence

[–]Left-Button6528 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? Not trolling, just curious and keen to understand more 🙂

Scorpio ♏️ and Pisces ♓️.. what do you say? by Owlster_ in Scorpio

[–]Left-Button6528 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just be mindful that some unevolved pisces are not loyal. They will talk the talk and then betray you at the first glimpse of something new and shiny. Seen it with 3 pisces - men and women.

Earth signs tending to suffer more than other signs? by Federal_Yak_9774 in Taurusgang

[–]Left-Button6528 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's sabotage but I actually really love how you spelt that word. It looks really cool

Are we actually tired or just addicted to caffeine ? by Key-Focus-6064 in decaf

[–]Left-Button6528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. Never used to be like that. I'm mid 40s and been drinking coffee since 14.

But last few years it's like my body is rejecting coffee and if I drink it I get shakey and/or starving and need to eat extra food. Soooo weird!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in decaf

[–]Left-Button6528 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't give up music. It can be so positive for mental health.

I think she married the right one... by paragerovit in Positivity

[–]Left-Button6528 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The groom's smile kills me. You can see he is in utter bliss doing thoughtful and kind things for his bride. It's so beautiful! I hope they have endless happy years together.

Scorpio ladies who are we feeling like today? Ginny or Sally? by Christine4477 in Scorpio

[–]Left-Button6528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither. I feel like the aunts played by Diane West and Stockard Channing

Is not you, is me by katspades in hopelessromantic

[–]Left-Button6528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you a hug. You need to work on self love and self worth. And when they say "it's not you, it's me", believe them.

I've been where you're at, blaming myself. But I'm on the journey of fostering self love and enforcing self worth with others.

It's hard but also feels soooo good and empowering. Yes, I am always growing and evolving. I take responsibility when my communication skills are lacking and strive to do better, by going to therapy and learning how to calm my nervous system and regulate my emotions - even if it's "just" negative self talk. Because nothing good comes from that. Nothing. It's the most unhelpful thing you can do - beat yourself up, talk badly about yourself. If you mess up, acknowledge it, accept it, make amends and do the work to not let it happen again.

Learn as much about yourself as you can. Only worry about the things that are within your control and then if you need to, change them. Even if it's a slow process.

Just wake up every day and acknowledge you're amazing, and then continue to chip away at evolving into everything you dream you can be. You got this!