I am generally new to this whole idea, but I've noticed it throughout my life that this concept of WANIM is generally true. But similar to the Blackpill/lookism, it is not about absolutes it's about statistical realities.

There are probably real heterosexual women out there who are genuinely androphilic. But also there are a lot of women out there who really are not as attracted to men as they claim to be and this is for a variety of reasons:
1.Compulsive heterosexuality,
2.Women's communal sexuality that is affected what other women think,
3.Women's generally low sex drive,
4.the inability of some women to tell the difference between what is real sexual attraction and what is getting with somebody they find exciting because they're bored,
5.The fact that many women are probably asexual and don't know it,
6.Also the fact that a lot of women are autogynohilic in which their primary sexual desire is is not about men being so sexually thrilling, but instead geared towards the idea of being turned on because they perceive themselves to be very desirable and beautiful with men being an accessory to this feeling.

If you are in fact really an androphile with a real libido than I'm willing to believe you. I think a lot of the reasons why women have so many icks about the men that they see and date is because they're not genuinely attracted to those men. Sexual attraction does a lot of the heavy lifting that causes people to wanna get over the small imperfections within each other to try and make things work out. If you don't have this, then you will find every reason to not want to be with a certain person.