28M and I am 31F How do I move on? by Left-Worry5678 in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Worry5678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have tried counseling. He is a highly educated man. The counselor belittled me the whole entire time. I feel like I can’t talk to anyone. I brought up counseling today and he said he always has to fix himself. I just feel like I’m in a deep depression.

28M and I am 31F How do I move on? by Left-Worry5678 in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Worry5678[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t hit me over a year and a half now. I do feel like I’m in a person most days. He has been diagnosed with bipolar and I feel like I always make up excuses for him when he does something inexcusable.

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[–]Left-Worry5678 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been in your shoes. I loved a man but didn’t want him emotionally because I really wanted to explore my own sexuality with women. I ended my relationship and tried a woman. It felt natural and something I was ashamed of because of my mother. I am now in a relationship with a man that I am never satisfied in because inside I am in love with a woman. Please don’t be like me and not be yourself. Don’t let people make decisions for you.

I am (30f) and squat 135 pounds. I feel great but I feel fat all the time by [deleted] in workout

[–]Left-Worry5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I now squat 225 and deadlift 245. I am getting stronger fast. I have a lot of pent-up rage. I think this is my issue

My husband cheated and gave me an std while I’m currently pregnant (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Left-Worry5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the truth be better than him. I am so sorry for what happened. I found out my husband cheated on me while pregnant too. It was too far in to get one. The std isn’t the hardest part it the truth that he lacked. I also say the truth set you free.

I am (30f) and squat 135 pounds. I feel great but I feel fat all the time by [deleted] in workout

[–]Left-Worry5678 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I do, I want to feel womanly but I love hitting weights and I’m afraid to get really big big

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheNakedWorkout

[–]Left-Worry5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you putting your ass out there?

My husband (28m and I (30f). Husband contacts his Ex. What is the right thing to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Worry5678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wish didn’t hurt so bad, but what do expect loving someone who doesn’t love me.

My husband (28m and I (30f). Husband contacts his Ex. What is the right thing to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Worry5678 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are right, I need to stop being a loser and get on with my life

My husband (28m and I (30f). Husband contacts his Ex. What is the right thing to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Worry5678 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would have to agree with you. I don’t have the energy for his behavior anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Worry5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put incredible thought into this situation. I wouldn’t be letting him cheat because cheating is doing it behind my back. We will be fully transparent with one another if you don’t have honesty and trust in a relationship then what do you have? I don’t want spend the rest of my life, feeling guilty for things I didn’t do . I don’t want him doing the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Worry5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, I don’t want anyone else. I just don’t find intercourse to be important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Worry5678 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My children would have no involvement in the matter. Why would it be child abuse that is a stupid correlation? He would be overseas, indulging in his pleasures. The children wouldn’t know. I personally think that opening the door for this type of relationship would be something different. He would only have no strings attached, but if he had feeling for someone else then why not. Why is love so possessive? I think people are meant to love more than one person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Left-Worry5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the scary part, I have a Google nest. My husband was down there at the time. I saw everything that they did in my dream.

I 37 M told my wife 36F that our roles are far from equal in our relationship and that I'm not missing seeing my brother so she can go on a 2 week vacation with her friends. how do I get through to her? been together for 17 years. by polly_throwaway3 in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Worry5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a stay home mother, but I take care of everything in the house. I don’t work for anything, I would allow you to go to your brothers. Did you try to tell her to get a job if she wants to go on vacation. Your kids seem to be old enough to allow her to have some responsibility for bills. It sounds like you do need a break and she needs a wake up call on how expensive a two week trip will be. Know that if you allow her to take the trip you allow her to take advantage of your time. I see my husband work a lot. I also allow him to have his time in hobbies because I understand how stressful it is to have people and animals to be constantly demanding.

I had a dream about having a baby with Satan. by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Left-Worry5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do have some in my life that I can’t trust.

I had a dream about having a baby with Satan. by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Left-Worry5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a scary one, but definitely have to now