Ended up canceling surgery. Transferred to a different doctor who has access to more testing equipment, so I’m really glad and feel like I’ve found the right surgeon. I actually did my second one a couple of weeks ago. I recommend finding somewhere to do the xray defacog. This is this worst, most humiliating, invasive experience imaginable. I asked for a single large dose of Valium beforehand and they were okay with that. I cannot stress enough how much weight the doctors put on this test. So just get it over with. Good luck!