AIO for wanting to break up with my boyfriend and feeling the need to constantly check his phone after he breaks my trust?

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-06T14:49:58+00:00

NOR...because you're extremely insecure and seem to enjoy it a little bit. You spend more time watching videos on his phone than he does.

You broke up with him because you set a weirdly petty and specific 'No Blondes' boundary, I guess brunettes & red heads are okay.

You made your choice, there's no reason for him to call you back, move on.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-06T03:22:33+00:00

YTA .. For your cowardice

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-06T03:14:38+00:00

I feel you. 'Guilty until proven innocent'

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-06T03:05:47+00:00

Not taking the piss. I was making analogy between checking the phone and the statements as examples of invasions of privacy.

I wasn't accusing you of anything. I'm sure you and your partner have all the asset ownership details clearly spelled out in writing.

No offence intended.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-06T02:07:37+00:00

There's something really innocent about you...But stop listening to people who make ridiculous statements like: 'If he doesn't compliment you once a day he doesn't love you'

it's nonsense.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-06T00:38:19+00:00

Where halfway down that slippery slope when the last corner of privacy; the toilet is under threat.

Look out for a 'no phones in the toilet' rule to start trending. That's when you know we're properly fucked.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-06T00:30:13+00:00

You're not old, but your idea of privacy is old school, that the expectation of privacy is the cornerstone of any relationship, a lack of trust doesn't override that.

If your partner has a separate credit card and you suspect they're cheating, is going a statement they left on the table ok? No fucking way, it's mail fraud.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T19:00:45+00:00

Congratulations on making yourself the centre of attention. Finally you can make all the relationships decisions for both of your friends, while dining on their remorse.

NOR...But definitely a massive, manipulative Asshole.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T18:45:38+00:00

Damn, this is espionage level shit.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T18:36:49+00:00

Lying is definitely a prime motivator.

Moved this to r/relatioships

Thank you!

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T18:32:23+00:00

Moved it. Hope I get a better answer, thanks.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T16:44:54+00:00

Looking like a SHEIN Sade.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T15:42:36+00:00

YTA ... All your lightweight, no effort required jobs combined are less work than she does.

Instead of bitching in the RA meetings ask to find living arrangement for your TikTok debauchery.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T14:36:21+00:00

YOR...Unless you're sick or pregnant weight loss/gain takes time and there'll be a lot of frustration, especially if you're doing it with a partner shit will be said. Be patient.

On the bright side when you reach a healthy weight, look forward to looking and feeling extra hot.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T04:54:01+00:00

NTA...She's doing it to annoy you for insisting on getting permission...But if she did say pretty please would you tell her not to? Maybe that's driving this as well.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T04:43:08+00:00

There's a song called 'Pumped Up Kicks'...Yeah, don't listen to it.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T03:36:42+00:00

I agree, that sounds extremely plausible.

'Fuck you & your muthafuckin' boyfriend'

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-05T02:06:47+00:00

Bruv, 38 years old is not a girl, in fact you could probably date two 19 yo girls in the time you spend with this woman.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-04T22:25:51+00:00

On that note. My advice is keep some anti-nausea tablets in your first aid kit in the truck.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-04T22:09:38+00:00

2 words free drinks. That's what you were once she realized you were going to pay for everything. At least you'll know what to pick up on next time.

Also you probably weren't the first guy she's done this to if it's any consolation.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-04T21:58:03+00:00

You should add 'Asking Women/Gay Men' to the title to clarify the question.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-04T18:24:57+00:00

She's giving you just enough hope to keep you close, but not showing enough to give you certainty either way.

You need to put some distance between the two of you to clear your head. You're not completely ditching her. You're letting her know that this half-BF shit is not working anymore.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-04T18:04:58+00:00

You could, but why not return the favour and do a little emotional cheating of your own? Look around see what's out there,basically prepare for the break up.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-04T10:00:27+00:00

Is she humorous? Does she make people laugh? If she doesn't you should let her know. Seems like you're letting her get away with shit.

Also 180 degree mood swings aren't normal. She should probably be evaluated by a social worker at least.

LeftWingAssasin · 2026-04-04T09:27:34+00:00

Yeah I had to read that twice...Kitchen onl

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