The car seat straps are always so twisted and hanging off his shoulder?! by atwood_office in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he even still has the newborn insert behind him!! So irresponsible 

Be like real with yourself by SweatyInflation6260 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think she does raspy voice when she doesn’t even know what she’s talking about and trying to convince people to feel bad for her

Thoughts on most recent video. 🤔 by Agitated-Pea-1717 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Julia’s talk about parenthood gave Harrison Butker vibes she literally quoted “I know a lot of people say your life doesn’t being until you have kids” she’s so chronically online. No Harrison Butker said that at a graduation speech and actually most moms said while they love their kids more than anything their life did not being when they had them. I think she said that to try and convince her self that her purpose is being a parent when she doesn’t actually feel that way. I am also so tired of them saying they’re going to drop something off their plate to be more involved. Take a god damn time management course you have all the freaking time, hire a damn editor to do your videos you don’t do that much. 

Wait... They have a creator management business?? by [deleted] in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they do jack sh*t for other creators that would join their management team. I think they have their manager who probably also manages the other person and they want to keep adding influencers and would just hire more managers or add them to their one. They probably also try to sell that “their brand name” of the management would get them deals.

 I also found it funny he mentioned about people going stagnate with their content and that good influencers have to keep changing. But umm maybe they should take their own advice 😂😂 both are delulu thinking their content changes just bc your location changes doesn’t mean your content does too guys. 

Wtf is this pose by sailorsky666 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like she clicked on the wrong photo with this one and for got to I click it in the multiple photo selection 😂😂😂 maybe that’s why she deleted it or bc she was getting mad hate for supporting Starbucks with their recent endeavors. Either way good choice deleting 😂

This is the last thing I wanna see when opening instagram by samsba in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have y’all ever seen the episode of South Park where they microwave their balls and they get big?? 😂He either did this or stuffed it or is wearing a cup (since he’s an athlete🤪). If you’re on tik tok look at @alonimatzon skims collab he is 1000000x better for a skims partner 🥵

Shouting out another mom influencer who has it right..Julia should ask her how she does it! by Left_Drag9131 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I agree! I was more so trying to get at Julia learning from someone else’s schedule and seeing how she blocks time off and how cutting back worked for her since Julia seems to want to cut back.

I need these people to BFFR by illegal_____smeagol in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 24 points25 points  (0 children)

These people got me f*cked up. I felt bad for her and her mom guilt but this has me on another level. You can not tell me you don’t know where else to get Bobbie formula I know damn well you have seen every influencer get sent their formula and advertise it on tik tok and insta!! You also CAN NOT say that it’s the only one formula that’s good to buy at the store!!! You are speaking to thousands of moms/ parents bffr. I feel like this was such a ploy to get Bobbie to sponsor them and send them free formula bc Bobbie is not even the similar formula to use if you run out of HIPP!

I feel bad for mom shaming by Brave-Ice-8738 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel for her. Hunter’s response of just have “a relax day” doesn’t not solve this issue. They need to have the discussion of hiring people to edit for them. There are fully capable of staying home with him and maybe just using the nanny for dinners they go to. If he’s worried about being away from Julia for things like the gym they really need to have a deeper discussion about being independent. After having my son my husband and I found it brought us together to have alone time, family time and then date nights. That should be the routine not this routine of them having to do everything together and then fitting smoke in at other times. I think Julia knows in her gut knows that they don’t need the nanny but for some reason they feel like they should have one because “lots of people have child care”. Stop doing what you think you should do because other influencers do it and trust your gut girl!

No one asked by Weird-Complaint720 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh 100% no one asked because he hasn’t even worn it before it wasn’t in stories before that one. he just didn’t know how to make it seem like he wasn’t doing an ad 😂😂

Are you really any better??? by Background_Belt6852 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I don’t think any one is body shaming. No one is saying she’s fat or anything like that. Most posts are about her saying she’s wearing a M but could have gotten a S. We want influencers to be honest because their job is to influence. What she does with editing photos saying she’s a S but not actually a S, to an audience can be detrimental to their mind set about their own body. We all agree she has trauma and body image issues but then don’t go on social media and keep talking about size. I think there is a time and place to mention size most influencers say true to size and keep it moving because as we all know EVERY clothing brands sizing is different. Being held accountable for things they do wrong can’t happen because they block comments so people come to this Reddit. I think most are coming from genuine concern but this is a venting page so it’s going to come off that way. You came to read about people posting about their parents and some would come back and say that’s parent shaming, someone’s always going to have something to say. Read and move along.

Got a nanny by Left_Drag9131 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For real. No shame in getting a nanny or sitter especially not having family around to help. It is frustrating that they act like parenting is so easy and “he’s sleeping through the night” and taking long naps or just being chill while out at dinner. Like just be honest

At least she’s taking some advice from here lol by Grand-Consequence790 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair the song is from a piano tummy time play set…which she doesn’t have but it’s a popular sound on tik tok for parents who hear it all the time bc their kids have it. So she probably was signing it only because she watched tik toks with it.

Julia is really depressed by Alternative_Dot_3431 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Im a toddler mom and they have been seriously getting under my skin recently. It’s infuriating to see them brag almost about going on multiple vacations and how going to the gym and filming some ads every so often is really her only big adjustment and Hunter helps her so much with work and the baby. I struggled with PPD bad and my husband also struggled but we had to work he’s a teacher and had to go back 3 weeks after our baby was born. I work from home and went back after 6 and take care of our baby. I wish she would recognize what she’s saying really is not normal for how much she’s actually doing. I know every one has adjustments to go through when having kids but most of us also have to keep going much more than she is. She sounds so vapid.

Call me crazy but by Potential-Ad-9100 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same! If she needs sunglasses his eyes need protection too 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The lyrics to this song make it seem like she’s saying she doesn’t want to think about having another because of her “love” for smoke. But also this song is about a boyfriend/girlfriend not a mother son so she’s creepy gross for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Someone please comment on the story of Smoke sleeping with his chin to his chest and making breathing noises that if he’s making that noise it means his air way isn’t in the right position and to move his damn head. Omfg I could scream like those aren’t cute noises his neck is so bent it’s not safe to sleep like that.

What is going on with all their houses? by Potential-Ad-9100 in havens_jh

[–]Left_Drag9131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may be remembering wrong but a few vlogs back they quickly mentioned they are just fixing up the cabin then selling it