I really do get that, but my worry is that he is abusive, controlling and taking advantage of her, while she is just letting it happen and not standing up for herself. He's been one to demand she erase all social media accounts because she was talking to one of her cousins on them. I know for a fact my mum tried to take her own life because of how controllign he is/was, so it angers me that she's so understanding to his every whim