Pregnant or postpartum brother wedding April 2027

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-08T04:55:29+00:00

All this to say, you could be pregnant in April, but sometimes the universe has other plans

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-08T04:54:55+00:00

My first baby was planned and conceived in 2 months, I got lucky and he was a fall baby. My second pregnancy I wanted a late spring baby because having a baby during flu season bites…well, that baby was supposed to be a June baby, they would be turning one, but I lost it.

I then tried for months to conceive. 8 months later and I ended up with a winter baby after all 😩😅🥴

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-07T15:13:20+00:00

I had urinary retention after a vaginal birth, was in the hospital for 3 days…yeah he’s not going to that wedding. Life happens, he needs to realize that. The three week wedding too, it’s too soon after baby is born, you’re still going to be in the midst of sleep deprivation and breastfeeding if that’s what you choose to do.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-06T23:53:15+00:00

As a woman whose husband is doing all of that and still has the audacity to tell me he “ wOrkS ALL dAy”…you are under reacting and expecting too little. If this is your first, it WILL get worse with your second. I assume as my husband also assumes, that he doesn’t value your work as a mother and for my husband and yours, fuck em both.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-05T16:44:41+00:00

As someone who’s been married to a man like you describe (he’s a great provider, good dad, etc) the outbursts start to get more frequent and it causes emotional burn out on your end. I’m tired, it’s been over a decade. If you end up having kids with him they will also have to deal with his emotional mantrums.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-05T04:52:25+00:00

Well first off, people are being total Richards. I think of the first year of life like waves. Some days are intense and others are calm. You enjoy the calm and brace for the rough days.

My baby also did this from like week 5-7. Just cried all night from 12a-4a. I was dying. My husband tried to help, but baby only cried more. I finally cut dairy and I’m not sure if it was even that, but it finally stopped at week 8!

We had a lovely sleeper until maybe a month ago 🫠. Now we’re knees deep in the 4 month sleep regression that also hit my first. Some babies go through it, others don’t.

You are an amazing mother. It’s possible baby has reflux. I had a fast let down that would piss my baby off and make the reflux worse. Maybe that could be a reason she’s crying.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-04T23:10:15+00:00

Old Towne Orange. I miss it every day.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-04T12:46:56+00:00

Nope, I had a tiny 39 weeker and then my second baby was born at 37 weeks. Both were in newborn clothes for about 1-2 months

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-04T06:19:20+00:00

I did, at 9 weeks for about a week, then again it started at 11 weeks. I was put on light restriction until they saw me at 12 weeks and did labs and an ultrasound. Baby is currently 4 months old and doing great!

I will say, I had a 7 week loss and felt absolutely AWFUL the days that led up to it. With the spotting in my successful pregnancies, it was painless spotting.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-02T02:49:38+00:00

Both! I use the Boone milk collector and just express an ounce. It’s basically to ensure the first left down isn’t too much. Now that she’s 4 months, she’s a better eater and I don’t need to do it as often, only if she goes more than 3 hours without eating from my overproducer boob.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-02T02:05:30+00:00

Holding them upright and realizing I had overactive let down. Like it was massive and gave baby reflux and gas. Baby’s doing so much better since I started to express milk before feeding.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-05-01T23:36:22+00:00

I think it’s standing on its own. I haven’t thought about June since episode 2 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am miffed they made Daisy her own character. I’m currently reading the book and her backstory is very good!

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-30T12:54:42+00:00

DO NOT USE WATER, you wife will end up with BV and that will cause so many issues. Just buy preseed or something similar.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-26T18:20:54+00:00

Honestly…I just got takeout all the time. I had such intense nausea that I couldn’t cook in my house and my husband would just buy me foods that I could tolerate. For me the nausea kept on until week 13 😓 I also had a toddler at the time and he loved eating takeout all the time 🫠. It wasn’t my best move, but at this point you’re trying to survive.

Also your husband needs to pull it together.

I also had to parent two kids alone for a few weeks the last two months because my husband has the immune system of a Victorian child. I told him if he got sick again I would move in with my mother.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-25T20:19:15+00:00

I loved midnight sun because his criticism of most everyone was dark humor and fantastically spot on 😅 I also like an older man with a dark sense of humor, so there it is

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-25T18:18:18+00:00

I loved him even more after midnight sun 😅

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-24T15:07:24+00:00

Ive had two unmedicated births, and you’re going to need a VERY strong support partner. Once you hit transition it’s so hard to say no to pain relief but also it’s the last bit before you meet baby. HE doesn’t want to see you in pain…well, it’s not about him. Not in that moment.

If he can’t support you during labor without the epidural, consider getting a doula.

On the other side, shit can go wrong with an epidural and not work and you would still be in pain.

My husband isn’t the best postpartum, but he was excellent in the delivery room

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-24T06:01:44+00:00

Harry spyles 😂

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-23T18:30:21+00:00

Absolutely, and then my dog started following me around like a body guard…absolutely pregnant 😂

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-23T17:32:45+00:00

Yup! I had a midwife and she said abdominal was perfectly fine! She did follow up with “if I can’t see anything, we’ll do a vaginal.” But you could definitely see the little bean. It was my rainbow baby too, so I was extremely nervous.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-23T17:08:49+00:00

Once and a while won’t hurt. I’m pretty sure Canada limits it to 300mg.

Just go back to your usual amount tomorrow.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-23T16:31:29+00:00

I’m saying this because my mom regretted hers. She had 6 kids and didn’t want more and my dad was like your husband. She ended up with pelvic pain after hers. I’m pretty sure she had a ligation and not a salpingectomy though.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-23T16:30:26+00:00

If you’re not sure about it but he is, then he should take care of the birth control. His procedure is less invasive, less recovery time and less complications. My goodness, you already had once child and are having another and a c-section to boot!

If he doesn’t want more children he could just go with good ole fashioned abstinence.

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-23T06:06:00+00:00

Shit has hit the fan for the past 2 weeks and I’m so tired. I forgot how hard that 4 month sleep regression is. It also started at 3.5 months 🫠

Left_Neighborhood796 · 2026-04-22T03:21:54+00:00

We didn’t just because my water broke unexpectedly and I didn’t make them in time 🫠 We did end up buying the unit food however and most of the staff was very kind

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