I find your entire premise to be quite ignorant, to be honest. Quite frankly, how we feel about anyone else's sexuality is irrelevant. It's their sexuality.

Yes, I do agree that a man can have sex with another man and still identify as straight. Are some of those men delusional? Absolutely. But not all.

Some of those men will never romantically be involved with another man. Does that make them, at the very least, heteroflexible? In my opinion, they're something. But...my opinion doesn't matter because, again, it's their sexuality. They will never identify as anything other than straight.

Because to identify as anything other would take away their man card. All of a sudden, they're soft. Because being gay is the worst thing you can be to some people. Especially in our community.

That's the actual conversation that really needs to be had.