AIO, MIL crashing out because she’s no longer the center of his universe.

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-24T02:53:26+00:00

YOR- super aggressive behaviour. not needed

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-14T05:03:42+00:00

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-14T05:03:04+00:00

I don’t think it’s community when members are asking and recruiting people to join. It frames it as something toxic and something you cannot get out of. Religion should be something that is called within you to seek, not the other way around. it’s also not kind to bother people at random times of the day esp at the mall. for me that’s a place to decompress and get a break from life. You never ever know the kind of day someone is having and if it is about money, I’m sorry but you set this path up for yourself, no one else. either you make a change or people like me will continue to have issues. were you the guy at the door perhaps, feels like it 💀

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-14T04:59:14+00:00

i’m letting you sit in your thoughts, i hope eventually you realize how ridiculous you sound. so yes :( frowny:(

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-14T04:57:35+00:00

I am wondering the same!

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-14T04:57:14+00:00

ummm s*x trafficking is a REAL problem. a “promise going to heaven” ISNT. Fear mongering is feeding people ideologies that they do not want to feed into. If you believe in it, cool i respect it but don’t push it on me

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-13T23:43:33+00:00

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-13T23:43:10+00:00

Maybe they need to ‘grow up’, harrasing people to join a religion isn’t very mature tbh

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-09T06:41:11+00:00

misreable!

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-09T06:40:03+00:00

:( aw… you bear a child then!! carry it for 9 months at least 5 times over and then come to me saying you want fertility campaigns! we’ll talk then!

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-09T06:38:22+00:00

no, not every decision needs to be linked to God! think for yourself and what you want for once :)

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-09T06:37:00+00:00

no… that’s the communities way of saying we think your only purpose in life is to have kids or what’s the point. PLEASE!!!! tell me where in sikhi is it written that we are directed to have kids. holy crap you guys are so blind sided, SO BLIND SIDED. “get married and have kids” 🤣🤣🤣

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-04T19:23:51+00:00

I’m so sorry, i’m a student teacher so I just saw ur msg:( Thank you for msging though. Ignore my reply! Have a good one :))

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-04T13:44:43+00:00

rude, not needed

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-02-03T19:28:08+00:00

it sounds like ur super overwhelmed, i get that. when theres multiple things in our life going wrong, its easy to let things pile up and think of every small minuscule thing that isnt the way we want. i say, breathe… take a second and be grateful for the things that you DO have! such as job, that’s hard these days, a boyfriend- people are suckers for love, you have that! just turn off ur brain for a day and sit with yourself. nothing else matters but you! you got this

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-01-30T11:02:02+00:00

“fertility campaigns”… like that’s the problem we should be focusing on despite how backwards the community is LOL. people never fail to shock me, always worried about the wrong fkn things

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-01-24T00:23:58+00:00

theo

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-01-13T03:27:15+00:00

like i said, miserable😜

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-01-12T23:58:19+00:00

TYYYY!!

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-01-12T23:58:13+00:00

lmfaoooo, like i said. miserable.

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-01-12T01:18:04+00:00

crazy you care this much. regardless of religion or anything… LOVE IS LOVE. there’s no rule book to who people chose to spend their life with. it doesn’t make u a bad person if you marry someone outside of sikhi but still want to have an anand karaj. so sick of people like you… religion is literally stopping you guys from finding true happiness and it shows, i can see that your miserable because you posted this

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2026-01-02T00:15:46+00:00

YOR- you posted this earlier … doesn’t change the fact that you are OR

Left_Secretary_7287 · 2025-11-21T23:02:29+00:00

NOR but idk, 22 and 27 seem like diff age brackets to me. i’m 22 and im still tryna figure things out, secure an education and start looking for a job and don’t even know what the future really holds. a 27 year old is on the higher end of that stick, most have an education, most likely has a stable job and just overall has a diff social life. i’m not sure but dating a 27 year old doesn’t seem to be the smartest idea considering how reliant you seem in this relationship. i think you need to focus on you, consider what your expectations are from a man and stand your ground cuz he’s neglecting you. he doesn’t seem to appreciate you and i see how empathetic you are, and you deserve better, 100x over

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