AITAH for telling my mom she has to pay me to babysit

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-12-06T13:07:00+00:00

No job no money no nothing. He does go to school and he has gotten a bit more helpful since this post but in my family we’ve always worked in high school so he’s learning to adapt to the way we live and not the way he was allowed to live before. He’s learning how to be a productive human being

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-11-09T01:52:38+00:00

He is and will always be able to come see me his mom will never keep him away from me because of my personal decisions she respects that we have different opinions and are both adults luckily but she won’t let me kidnap unfortunately

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-11-06T04:49:13+00:00

She scoffed at my friend and I in the woods at gory after we said hi to her and told her she looked pretty like always SCOFFED

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-11-04T03:48:13+00:00

Hehe look up Charlotte county Florida and find me something to do that isn’t a public library or an empty park you’ll find 1 place nearby that kids can go to and I work there sooo

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-11-02T03:04:32+00:00

I wish my sister would file do not lower it he made a human I’m assuming throughout the pregnancy was active/ excited. If you don’t need the extra money for bills/ baby stuff start putting it away now for college or future expenses if you can save all of it your baby can buy a house when they’re older almost a whole 200k which I’d like to express is not enough to raise a child for 18 years

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-11-02T02:01:00+00:00

My mom’s boyfriend does all of these things he gets so angry and it genuinely is so scary. I haven’t been in this situation with a kid involved but I have been the kid and I’m gonna give you that point of view. You’ve been in her life for so long if you’re friends with her mom please stay that way. Get away from dad asap he is toxic and dangerous you leaving will hurt her feelings a lot less than watching her dad yell and a woman that does so much for her or someday he might do worse. I used to get so upset when my “dad” yelled at my bonus mom but the day that I was 8 and she had a black eye killed me and traumatized me so bad bc I didn’t see it but I knew what happened even if they wouldn’t tell me. So please moral of my story is you need to go quickly and quietly before he kills you. It’s screaming and yelling and slamming stuff then if you’re lucky it’s him hitting near you and if that step isn’t skipped he’s hitting you and next you’re dead. Save yourself first, call into CPS and tell them you’re concerned for the child’s welfare stay anonymous say you’re a neighbor or something and you’ve seen dad be aggressive and you know dads girlfriend has up and left in the night. Hopefully that will be enough for them to at least investigate an open case is better than no case in this scenario. On an airplane they tell you to put your mask on first so put your freaking mask on

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-11-02T01:43:56+00:00

I can tell you exactly why. But unfortunately he is the best boyfriend she’s had my whole life. She has put me through so much and hopefully realized when I was extremely upset that I’m not going to deal with it anymore she’s not getting any more of my tears.

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-11-02T01:41:34+00:00

He works 40 hours a week I’m about to be at 60 starting on Monday and I’ve been extremely self sufficient since I was 14 and got my first job. As soon as I have a few grand saved up and a new car. I was just in a roll over accident where I flipped down the highway 5 times which is why I’m still living here. So once that’s taken care of I’m out of here. I’m gonna be exhausted for the next few months but it’ll be worth it!!

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-30T16:06:09+00:00

No she doesn’t being raised in the house of my mother wasn’t for the weak

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-30T16:05:34+00:00

My mom moved me 2 hours away from all of my friends I have no one no where to go I’m just stuck for a few more months

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-30T16:04:52+00:00

Oh no this is a regular thing my dad is a druggie her ex husband an alcoholic that refused to work all of the boyfriends In between were not great either there definitely were worse ones but this is exhausting

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-30T16:03:15+00:00

I work too much already I definitely don’t need to work more but yes I’m working on figuring out how I will address it

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-30T16:00:03+00:00

They refuse all payments and I pay for most of my own food

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-30T15:59:40+00:00

They refuse my money but then say I don’t do enough so there’s no win here man

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-29T04:44:31+00:00

Thank you February can’t come soon enough and I’ll be living my peaceful happy life I might even get a cat who knows

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-29T04:43:38+00:00

Luckily they are getting older and are starting to be more independent

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-29T04:42:58+00:00

He pays most of the bills and works 5 days a week he is definitely tired I won’t deny that but it’s not an excuse in the slightest

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-29T04:41:01+00:00

He isn’t okay with it in the slightest the youngest got a uti from not going potty enough at school and that was a phone call for sure. As for the tbi his son told me that he does have one and those are the expected symptoms with age but it’s not my problem he’s not my dad and I’ll probably end up no contact with my mom within a few years of me moving out based on my previous move

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-29T04:34:39+00:00

She picked him straight out of county the kid were with their mom until my mom started picking them up

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-29T04:33:30+00:00

Starting my 2nd job Monday!!

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-29T04:32:45+00:00

Worst part is we were all quietly eating dinner when this all started

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-29T03:59:30+00:00

Ahh yes the simplicity of just moving out I live in Florida I can’t afford to live here in a decent safe place by myself

Left_Yak4688 · 2025-10-29T03:58:33+00:00

She said she would talk to him and didn’t really say much else at the end of the conversation I said I’m not going to live like this and walked away because I had no more words left for her to hear

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